The gates of hell sometimes bloom at the intersection of flowery love.
If you don't specify it, can you think that the white-skinned and beautiful woman on the left of the picture above is the same person as the miserable person on the right?
And what hurt her like this was her husband, who had just been married for two years, the father of her daughter......
Recently, there has been new progress in the case of a woman in Chengdu, Sichuan, who once shocked the world, "being subjected to domestic violence 16 times in 2 years and needing to hang a fecal bag for life". The Chengdu Wuhou District People's Procuratorate has indicted the perpetrator and her husband, He, on charges of intentional injury and abuse.
On January 10, the pretrial conference was held in the Wuhou District People's Court. The victim, Xiao Xie, said that she would submit evidence at the trial and apply to change He's charge to "intentional homicide".
The evil deeds committed by He are indeed punished!
In 2020, Xiao Xie, a 26-year-old girl engaged in the anchor industry, is beautiful and moving. However, among the suitors, she chose He, who had already had a failed marriage and had an average family background.
He fell in love with Xiao Xie at first sight, and under his unremitting and hard pursuit, Xiao Xie was moved, and the two talked about sweet love.
During the relationship, Xiao Xie found that He was very fond of swearing. But people who are immersed in love will always selectively ignore the shortcomings of their lover, and they will be relieved when they get used to it.
In May 2021, the two entered the palace of marriage. Xiao Xie, who got married for the first time, was full of longing for this marriage, however, she didn't realize that from the day she got married, she had already stepped into the gate of hell with one foot.
Soon after marriage, Xiao Xie became pregnant. Who would have thought that the pregnancy that needed the care and care of the family had become He's weakness in Xiao Xie. Because "you can't run away when you're pregnant", the wolf gradually bared out its fangs. He began to scold his wife, and sometimes even did it.
remembered that her husband had said that her ex-wife abandoned her husband and children because he disliked him for having no money, and she was suspicious, so she began to privately inquire about the secret of her husband's last marriage from relatives and friends.
After asking, I found out that He's last marriage was separated because of domestic violence.
Thinking about the husband who is gentle and considerate and loves him deeply from falling in love to getting married, Xiao Xie can hardly equate him with a demon no matter what.
The pitiful thing about women is that they always feel that they are the special ones in front of men. Xiao Xie didn't want to stop the loss in time at this time, but still held a fluke mentality, wanting to use his soft emotions to turn the domestic violence man into a man.
But reality soon gave her a bloody slap, when she was six months pregnant, because of family trivialities, He actually cut off her head with a knife, bleeding all over her face, and had several stitches.
At this time, Xiao Xie felt fear. However, like all domestic violence men, after the violence, it is a confession of mistake and reassurance. In such a extreme tear between inseparable and inseparable, Xiao Xie gave birth to a daughter.
After giving birth, her husband's attitude became even worse, and he started fighting if he didn't agree with him. Xiao Xie had to call the police several times for help, however, in the end, the police were qualitatively dealt with as a "family dispute".
Xiao Xie, who couldn't stand the beating, could only rent a house outside.
But soon, He came to the door to pester, beat and scold. Helpless, Xiao Xie could only keep changing his address to escape the devastation of the demons.
On April 15, 2023, Xiao Xie and his friends had dinner at a restaurant in Qingyang District, Chengdu. He, who heard the news, actually splashed the hot casserole on Xiao Xie, causing her to suffer multiple burns all over her body.
Xiao Xie called the police again for help, and under the admonition of the police, He signed a divorce agreement, and even agreed on the relevant details of going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the procedures.
But who knew that as soon as he got out of the police station, He immediately turned his face and refused to divorce. At the same time, he stalked and threatened her. Xiao Xie had no choice but to file a habeas corpus and divorce lawsuit with the local court.
On the afternoon of April 24, 2023, He's cousin's girlfriend suddenly asked Xiao Xie to have dinner together, but Xiao Xie instinctively refused.
Helplessly, this "cousin's girlfriend" was extremely enthusiastic and promised not to let He know. The simple and soft-faced Xiao Xie, how could he know that there is a kind of person in this world who will fight for the tiger?
At the end of the night, He, who had been squatting outside the door for a long time, followed Xiao Xie and forcibly took her to the hotel to be beaten and raped.
I can't imagine what kind of inhuman torture Xiao Xie suffered, when she was dying, desperate for the last trace of desire to survive, she opened the door and called for help, a passing man in the corridor called the police, and Xiao Xie saved his life.
Xiao Xie was in the ICU for 8 days before she was out of danger of life, and the certificate of her condition showed that she had extensive contusion and laceration of her left liver with hemorrhage, duodenal contusion with rupture, pulmonary contusion, cerebral contusion, bilateral pleural effusion, left kidney contusion, left 6th-8th rib fracture, concussion, etc.
The most cruel and embarrassing thing is that Xiao Xie needs to live with a dung bag on his body for the rest of his life.
After the incident, He was detained by the local police station on suspicion of intentional injury. Netizens said, "This is not domestic violence! ”
Some people also said: "His bold and reckless behavior is indispensable for the help of his parents and relatives!"
Indeed, after the incident, He's parents not only had no apologies for Xiao Xie, but even said to the outside world: Xiao Xie fell down by himself.
After that, they contacted Xiao Xie again, and asked Xiao Xie to let go of He, "If you let him go, you will also let go of yourself."
Xiao Xie responded, "No way, he just wants to kill me." I was just lucky to have been rescued in the last 20 minutes, otherwise I would be a cold corpse now. ”
At present, Xiao Xie's only appeal is to sentence He to death. I hope that the law can support Xiao Xie and sentence the villain He.
Those who want people's lives are often pillow people. got married, was almost beaten to death, Xiao Xie is only 29 years old, and he will have to live with a dung bag for the rest of his life, which is unimaginable.
Such a marriage is so frightening.
No woman should be subjected to domestic violence. If she breaks the law, there is a law to punish her, and if she has committed something that betrays her marriage, she can get a divorce.
However, no one has the right to use violence to harm another person.
However, in reality, how many women live silently and helplessly in the suffocation and pain of domestic violence, and are physically and mentally traumatized? Some even die under the iron fist of domestic violence men, and some even lose confidence in life and have suicidal tendencies.
Whenever there is news of domestic violence against women, there will always be people who hate and say: Why don't you get divorced?
Indeed, staying away in time is the most correct and obvious choice. But this is not an easy task for the victim of domestic violence.
First, there are complex factors in the causes of domestic violence. Due to the long-term historical and social environment, it is difficult for women to make up their minds to get out of abusive relationships.
There is a term in psychology called gaslighting effect, which refers to the emotional abuse, brainwashing and manipulation inflicted on the victim, causing the victim to gradually lose self-esteem and self-doubt.
If the other party apologizes and repents immediately after the violence, the soft-hearted woman will still have illusions that the other party will change her past mistakes, so she will choose to forgive again and again.
Women, putting themselves in a position as low as dust, also give the other party the right to hurt themselves at will and trample on their dignity!
Second, women victims do not receive support from their families of origin. And most of them lack their own financial ability, and they are afraid to divorce because they are worried that they will not be able to support their children alone.
Most of the time, parents and relatives will persuade themselves to compromise and endure it.
Domestic violence is like a drug addiction, and it is very difficult to quit. Therefore, if there is a daughter in the family, we must cultivate her: in life and marriage, we must be affectionate and independent, and we must have the ability and courage to withdraw at any time.
Third, in order to give their children a complete family, many women would rather endure the humiliation themselves than leave.
In fact, domestic violence can cause much more harm to children than divorce.
Fourth, in reality, it is more of a situation like Xiao Xie, even if he has the determination to leave, the support of his family, and a certain financial ability, it is not easy to get rid of domestic violence.
The man who punches and kicks his wife is like a dog skin plaster. Once his wife filed for divorce, he would be greeted with terrible revenge and threats.
In short, you can't escape, you can't leave, and you can't live well.
Many women, in order to get rid of domestic violence, have to take risks, kill domestic violence men, and take their own lives.
Chai Jing did an anti-domestic violence "Women's Prison Investigation", interviewing women who had suffered domestic violence for many years and finally chose to kill their husbands.
Without exception, they have tried to endure endless domestic violence only to get worse in the face of it, they have tried to ask relatives and friends for help, but they have usually been persuaded to be patient, and they have tried to divorce, only to be beaten more violently by their husbands.
In the end, the final blow they couldn't bear made them lose their entire lives......
As a woman in the new era, if you unfortunately encounter domestic violence, you must take up legal weapons to protect yourself.
Because once domestic violence occurs, it is no longer a domestic matter, it is an illegal act. In the face of domestic violence, you should take up legal weapons and "fight" back!
If there is someone around you who has been abused by domestic violence, please tell her to call the police in time, keep evidence, and ask for help.
You can also call the 12338 Women's Hotline for legal advice. When necessary, they should seek help from the neighborhood committees and women's federations in their localities, and the detailed certificates issued by the neighborhood committees and women's federations will also be very useful for subsequent prosecution and protection of rights.
In short, I hope that every woman who is suffering from domestic violence can understand: it is not your fault that you are being subjected to domestic violence, and you must stand up bravely.
Remember, you're not alone!
At the same time, you are the only one who can save you!