The poster's question resonated with netizens
Recently, a netizen posted a question asking "Why are college students in rural areas so poor?" This sentence is like a stone that stirs up a thousand waves, and has attracted the resonance of many college students born in rural areas. Under this question, many netizens left messages expressing their experiences and feelings.
The poster himself is a college student born in a rural area. Children who grow up in rural areas never participate in interest classes and tutorial classes when they are in primary school, and can only be spectators at school evenings. When I went to university and experienced the subway and the night view of the city for the first time, I realized that these things that were commonplace for urban students were completely new to me.
The plight of rural children in their studies and lives
In addition to the gap in vision, there is also a huge gap between rural and urban children in terms of material conditions and family resources. Parents in the city will help their children plan for the future and can afford to buy a house in the city. Parents in rural areas will only tell their children to be "stable" and be skeptical of the unknown, because the family is financially unable to pay for their children's trial and error.
Some netizens left messages saying that after they were admitted to university that year, they didn't know anything about the choice of major, and finally someone else randomly filled in a major, which was the beginning of their mistake step by step. Some netizens also said that they later learned that their classmates' families bought real estate in the city when they went to college. Disparities in resources and family conditions have a direct impact on the development of rural children.
The helplessness and sadness revealed by netizens' comments
In the face of such a topic, many college students from rural areas left messages expressing strong resonance. They expressed their helplessness and sadness:
"It's a reality that a college student from the countryside is waiting to be fed. ”
"People are the parents who lift them, and we are the parents who lift them. ”
"Why is it that you are worth the efforts of several generations of people in ten years?"
Seeing such comments, many netizens felt sad and frustrated. Indeed, rural parents give their children fewer resources and more limited vision than urban families. However, this does not mean that rural parents do not love their children and do not work hard. They have done their best in parenting.
What should we do in the face of a difficult situation
In the face of all kinds of difficulties, we should not stop but face them positively.
First of all, we need to realize that no matter how difficult the environment is, it is still ourselves who determines our destiny. We should not complain, but strive for self-improvement. Second, we need to see the progress we have made. The living conditions now are much better than in the past. Again, cherish the present and don't be anxious about the future. Learning to be grateful and cherish the present is a good way to deal with anxiety.
Strive to change your destiny in your own hands
We must remember that the rich are not rich from the beginning, but accumulate from generation to generation. Our parents' generation is much better than our grandparents' generation; Our generation will definitely be able to live better than our parents' generation.
We can do without the shade of a big tree, so we can strive to grow up and become a big tree for our children in the future. We must believe that our destiny is in our own hands, and as long as we don't give up, we will definitely be able to change our destiny.
Face it positively and don't let anxiety go
In the face of difficulties, we must also learn to face them positively and not let anxiety erode us. Contentment is the best way to deal with inner anxiety.
Netizens said well, "What is the difference between drinking coffee at the age of ten or drinking it at the age of twenty?" We should not demand ourselves from the eyes of others, but face it positively and enjoy the life in front of us.
Strive to be a role model for the next generation
We have to remember that standing on the shoulders of giants, we can see farther. The fruits of our efforts will become an asset for the next generation.
As rural university students, we have a responsibility to change our destiny and become role models for the next generation. As long as we don't give up easily, we will be able to create a better future with our own hands. Let's work together to be the generation that impresses parents!
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