She is Dai Liu, the female champion of liberal arts with a score of 687 in Huanggang.
As soon as the results of the college entrance examination came out, she did not hesitate to fill in the application of Peking University.
However, when she waited at home for the admission letter from the prestigious school of her dreams, she was waiting for another university admission letter that had nothing to do with her - China University of Political Science and Law.
She was puzzled, she had never filled in this school in her voluntarily, and her score was completely enough to go to Peking University, so how could this school admit her?
When the girl called the Education Bureau to inquire carefully, she realized that it was her father who had tampered with her college entrance examination volunteer!
This news made the girl feel like a bolt from the blue, and she had a big quarrel with her father and left her hometown, and since then she has been adrift for 20 years, and she has never had any contact with her father until she got married.
So why did the father tamper with his daughter's wishes, and what happened to the father and daughter?
Dedication to Peking University
Dai Liu was born in 1983 in Huanggang City, Hubei Province, to a family of high-ranking intellectuals, her father was a journalist and her mother was a Chinese teacher.
And Dai Liu also inherited the high IQ of his parents, he has been very smart since he was a child, and his learning ability is also very strong, and his academic performance has always been among the best.
Because at that time, everyone had a fixed perception of Peking University - Peking University was the best university in China. The classmates around Dai Liu are no exception, most of them say "I want to go to Peking University", and subtly, Dai Liu also has a good impression of Peking University.
In addition, because she wants to become an excellent teacher like her mother in the future, the dream of being admitted to Peking University has taken root in her heart since she was a child.
In order to get closer to his ideals step by step, Dai Liu paid a lot.
After entering high school, Dai Liu's studies became more intense, although her grades had always been the best in the whole grade, but after all, high school is different from elementary and junior high school, there are more people with excellent grades and hard work, even Dai Liu can't guarantee that she can still stabilize the first place.
Therefore, in the restless adolescence, other girls are more or less studying outfits and trend stars in addition to studying, but Dai Liu has only one thing in mind, that is, "Which set of rolls are you going to brush today?" or "Which set of papers are you going to brush today?"
As the saying goes, you are not afraid of people who are better than you, you are afraid that people who are better than you work harder than you, Dai Liu is such an excellent and hard-working girl, but she has never complained about the difficulties and hardships of studying over the years, because she understands that she is fighting for her dreams.
Soon came the day of the 1999 college entrance examination, Dai Liu walked into the examination room with confidence under the eyes of her parents and teachers, and she believed that she would be able to achieve good results with her years of hard work.
And this is indeed the case, in the examination room, she worked hard to write, as if every question in the college entrance examination was under her control, and she even felt that it was not as difficult as the questions she usually did.
After the exam, Dai Liu evaluated the score with his super memory, and was a little more confident in his college entrance examination score, so he waited for the results at home with confidence.
Soon after, the results of the college entrance examination came out, and Dai Liu checked the score for the first time and found that she had scored 687 points, which is a very high score, and she also became the champion of Huanggang liberal arts that year with this score, tied for third in the province.
After the scores came out, Dai Liu's heart completely fell, and her score was completely enough to get into Peking University, and even exceeded the admission score of Peking University a lot.
So when she filled in the volunteer, Dai Liu did not hesitate to fill in Peking University, which is also her dream all along.
was tampered with by his father, and his dream of Peking University was shattered
After filling out the application, Dai Liu waited for the admission letter at home with peace of mind, and was excited to think that she could start a new campus life in two months and realize her dream, and she wished that time would pass faster.
Finally one day in early August, the courier of the notice came to Dai's house and congratulated her on being admitted to China University of Political Science and Law.
Hearing the courier say "China University of Political Science and Law", the smile on Dai Liu's face disappeared, and she even suspected that she had heard it wrong, so she took the admission notice and confirmed it repeatedly, only to find that it was indeed written on China University of Political Science and Law!
Now Dai Liu was completely stunned, she clearly reported that she was Peking University, how did she become China University of Political Science and Law?
It is impossible for her to fail the list with her scores, and even if she is not admitted to Peking University, she will not be admitted to the University of Political Science and Law, because she didn't fill in this school at all when she filled in the application!
Dai Liu refused to believe the reality in front of her, and after the courier left, she stared blankly at the admission letter in front of her, tears streaming down her face.
Although China University of Political Science and Law is also a good school, for Dai Liu, his dream has always been Peking University, if he can't go to Peking University, then more than ten years of hard study will be meaningless.
The most important thing is that she is unwilling, why did she end up in another school even though her score line was enough.
In order to find out why her notice would become another school, Dai Liu first called the Education Bureau to inquire, but what she didn't expect was that the other party said that she was applying for China University of Political Science and Law.
Dai Liu, who got the news, was even more confused, she was sure that when she filled in the volunteer, she wrote Peking University, how could it suddenly become a university of political science and law?
Could it be that someone has tampered with their own wishes?
In order to find out what was going on, Dai Liu went to the school to find his homeroom teacher, but what he didn't expect was that the homeroom teacher was very surprised when he heard her intention:
"After you signed up, your father came to the school again to change his volunteer, changing Peking University to China University of Political Science and Law, and said that this was your own consent. ”
Hearing the teacher's words, Dai Liu felt like falling into an ice cave, she never thought that it was her father who shattered her dream, and he tampered with her college entrance examination volunteer!
After returning home, Dai Liu immediately found his father to confront him, and in the face of his daughter's questioning, the father not only did not have the slightest remorse, but said lightly:
"Isn't China University of Political Science and Law very good? It's a university that many people can't go to if they want to. ”
Dai Liu did not accept her father's answer, no matter how good China University of Political Science and Law was, this was not what she wanted, she wanted Peking University.
And what saddened her the most about this incident was that her father decided her life completely against her wishes, which made her feel suffocated and hopeless.
Thinking of this, Dai Liu's tears could no longer be held back, she sobbed and asked her father:
"Why did you tamper with my wishes without authorization? Don't you know that my dream since I was a child was to go to Peking University? My scores were all ruined by you, even though I could have successfully entered Peking University!"
Listening to his daughter's accusations, Dai's father was also angry, and he roared angrily:
"What do you mean to be ruined by me?! From childhood to adulthood, how much effort did I spend cultivating you, and as a result, you talked to your father who gave birth to you and raised you? You have to go to this University of Political Science and Law, and you have to go to this University of Political Science and Law!"
Dai Liu looked at her angry father, at this moment she didn't seem to know this person, this was not her father who had loved her for many years, just an arbitrary patriarch, and finally she slammed the door and left, and the father and daughter broke up unhappily.
After a big quarrel with her father, Dai Liu locked herself in the room, and finally her mother came in to relieve her, and the grief and anger in her heart were a little less, but her heart was always full of regrets.
It was during the time when her mother dismissed her that she understood why her father would tamper with her wishes.
It turned out that his father missed the China University of Political Science and Law by a few points, and failed to study the law major he liked, which became the regret of his life.
But even so, Dai Liu still couldn't forgive his father's behavior, just to realize his dream, he decided his daughter's life at will, such a father made Dai Liu feel cold.
This incident also made her secretly decide that she must escape from this home, leave this place that suffocated her, and take her life into her own hands.
broke with his father and wandered for 20 years
After making up her mind to leave, Dai Liu no longer argued with her father, and she decided to go to college to accumulate capital for her future departure.
Seeing his daughter's attitude softened and began to pack her luggage, Dai's father was also quite pleased, it seems that his daughter is still sensible, and besides, it is for her good to let her go to the University of Political Science and Law.
But he didn't know that all this was just an illusion made by Dai Liu in order to escape from him.
Soon the summer vacation was over, and Dai Liu got on the train to Beijing, and as she watched the train gradually move away from the familiar city, she knew that she would never come back in the future.
When she arrived at college, Dai Liu did not relax like other classmates, but redoubled her efforts and continued her style in high school, because she knew that only if she was strong enough could she completely escape from her father and the person who controlled her life.
In the blink of an eye, four years of college have passed, and during these four years, Dai Liu rarely calls home, and only symbolically returns home a few times.
Every time she goes home, she doesn't communicate with her father much, and the college entrance examination volunteer is like a thorn in her heart, and she can never let go.
When Dai Liu graduated, she was faced with two choices, one was to go to her beloved Peking University for graduate school, and the other was to study abroad.
Although she still had regrets in her heart, Dai Liu finally chose to go abroad, because she wanted to go far away, so far that her father could no longer control her.
After deciding to study abroad, Dai Liu began to prepare silently, and she was alone at home preparing for the exams and study abroad fees of the Korea International Law University.
It wasn't until a month later, when the exam results came out that she was successfully admitted to a law university in South Korea, that she told her mother the news of studying abroad.
Her parents were taken aback when they learned that Dai Liu was going to study in South Korea, especially her father, who strongly opposed it, and even came to Beijing to forcibly take Dai Liu home and not let her go to study.
Dai Liu did not give in this time, she fought hard, and even went on a hunger strike to fight against her father's tyranny, and later her mother really couldn't see her daughter ruining herself so badly so she secretly let her out.
When Dai Liu left the house with her documents and luggage, her mother sent her off in tears behind her back, looking at her mother's tears, Dai Liu felt very guilty, but she really couldn't stay here anymore, she wanted to find her own freedom and life.
In this way, Dai Liu finally went to South Korea to study, and the moment she got on the plane, she decided to settle in South Korea in the future and never return to China.
After settling everything in South Korea, Dai Liu fell into confusion again, being in a foreign country, the most rare thing is language communication, and she can't speak Korean at school.
In order to integrate herself here as soon as possible, and in order to be able to take root in Korea in the future, Dai Liu worked hard to learn Korean, studied diligently, and was the first person to go to the library every day.
But fortunately, the emperor's hard work and diligence allowed her to finally gain a firm foothold in South Korea, and after graduation, she successfully found a job as a lawyer, and she decided to settle in Jeju Island after her job was stable.
Since she went to South Korea, Dai Liu has never made a phone call home, and her mother calls her occasionally from international calls, and she has never taken the initiative to communicate with her father, and the relationship between father and daughter has almost been severed.
Soon after, Dai Liu found a boyfriend who loved her, who was also a Chinese student, and the two held a wedding together on Jeju Island, and Dai Liu did not invite his father at the wedding.
Even today, she has never returned to her hometown to see her father after 20 years away from home, and it is sad and lamentable.
Under the patriarchal society system of East Asia, there are not many parents like Dai Liu's father, who always forcibly put their own wishes on their children, completely ignoring their children's own ideas, and children who grow up in such families usually live very tangled and twisted.