In Linyi, Shandong Province, there is an eight-year-old boy whose family has recently had a lot of happy events. The child's mother, Ms. Zhang, posted her son's newlywed room in the circle of friends.
The 152-square-meter four-bedroom and two-living room is spacious and bright, which makes people envious. What's even more amazing is that
The house was exclusively sponsored by the grandparents as a wedding room for the grandchildren. Before that, the family also built a three-story small bungalow, which was also decent and magnificent.
mentioned this, netizens exploded.
Some said: "When I was eight years old, I was still playing with mud, and this kid liked to get married at the age of eight." ”
Some said, "I have a big defense, how can I live?"
Others said, "In the future, when this kind of video trouble comes to me, block me." I'm prone to red-eyedness. ”
This matter is really mixed. Let's talk about this grandparents first, they were in business in their early years, their families were rich, and they also doted on their grandchildren. Buying a house and building a house spared no expense, just to let the grandson have a good living environment.
This practice makes people sigh: being rich is capricious. However, this also makes people worry, will excessive spoiling make children become too dependent and lose the ability to live independently?
Looking at the mentality of netizens, it is really varied. Some people are envious, jealous and hateful, some are worried, and some people have a "melon-eating" mentality. It is not difficult to understand that in today's society, housing prices are high, and many people may not be able to afford a house after working hard for a lifetime.
And an eight-year-old child has a 152-square-meter marriage house, which makes those who are still struggling for the house embarrassed?
This incident also reminds me of a word: generational gap. The grandparents' generation has experienced hard days and knows that life is not easy.
So they are willing to give everything for their grandson to make him live a good life.
And netizens, most of whom are the younger generation, are facing the pressure of life and are naturally indignant at this "unfair" phenomenon.
Behind this incident, there is another question worth pondering: What is true happiness? Is it material abundance or spiritual satisfaction?
Perhaps, for this eight-year-old child, he would prefer that his parents can be by his side and spend happy times together, rather than having a big house.
At the end of the day, there is no right or wrong in this matter, it's just that everyone's position and concept are different.
We can't judge whether grandparents are doing the right thing, and we can't judge whether the mentality of netizens is healthy.
What we can do is to reflect on it, find our own values, and find what we think is happiness.
This incident, like a movie, makes people can't guess the ending. Perhaps, this eight-year-old child will grow up healthily under the pampering of his grandparents and become a capable and responsible person.
Perhaps, he will become dependent and selfish because of excessive doting. Who can say for sure?
If it were you, what would you think of this? What would you think of what your grandparents did? How would you feel the mentality of netizens?
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