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In my opinion, life is like a strong cup of coffee, with a hint of sweetness in the bitterness. When I think back to my daughter-in-law's attitude towards me, I can't erase that cold chill in my heart. We used to be a family, but now we live in a strange world with each other.
I still remember that after dinner that day, I was sorting through my belongings in the living room when my son's cell phone rang and he went to the yard to answer the phone. I thought that I would be idle anyway, so I walked to the kitchen and cleaned up as I went. At this moment, my daughter-in-law came down from the upper floor, and she looked at me as if she had something to say to me. I smiled and asked her, "What's wrong, is there anything wrong?" She turned her head and said casually, "It's okay, it's just a little hot." ”
I bowed my head and went on with my work, a little disappointed in my heart. Could it be that I have become so inconsequential in this home? Once, I gave them all my love, but in exchange for such indifference. Perhaps, I should only keep the warmth to myself for the rest of my life.
A few days later, I went to the mall with my friends. As we walked around, we came to a beautifully decorated teahouse. The decoration in the teahouse is elegant and simple, and the faint fragrance of tea makes people feel refreshed. Sitting on the tatami mat and looking at the flowing water outside the window, I couldn't help but sigh: "Life can still be so beautiful." ”
My friend looked at me and smiled and said, "Old neighbor, what's wrong with you?" I smiled wryly and said, "I always feel that my family is becoming more and more redundant, and my daughter-in-law's attitude towards me is becoming more and more cold, which is really chilling." The friend listened silently, pondered for a moment, and then said, "Don't be too sad, maybe they don't understand your goodness, but that doesn't mean you've lost your value." You can also have a good life of your own. ”
My friend's words touched me deeply, maybe I should really take good care of myself and let myself find my own warmth in this world. Back home, I decided to re-examine my life and rediscover the warmth in my heart.
My daughter-in-law saw that I was starting to take the initiative and was a little uncomfortable. So once, she took the initiative to find me and said, "Mother-in-law, I've been in a bad mood lately, can I talk to you?" I was slightly stunned and nodded. She began to confide in me about her troubles at work and in life, and I listened patiently to give her some comfort and encouragement.
Gradually, there seemed to be a bit of a thaw in our relationship. She would sometimes take the initiative to chat with me and ask me how I was doing. I also gradually began to find the joy of life again, I did my favorite handicrafts, planted my favorite flowers and plants, these have become a part of my life, giving me endless warmth.
Time flies, and another year has passed in the blink of an eye. On this day, I was arranging flowers and plants in the garden, and my daughter-in-law came over and said softly, "Mother-in-law, thank you for your tolerance and understanding all the time. I know I used to do badly, but now I'm going to try to change it and make our relationship better. Listening to her words, I felt a warm current welling up in my heart, I patted her hand lightly, smiled and said, "I know what you said, and I have forgiven you a long time ago." There is no need to be a barrier between us. ”
At this moment, I felt that my heart was no longer cold, but full of warmth. Perhaps, this is the happiness I have been pursuing. For the rest of my life, I no longer keep the warmth only for myself, but can share it with people with whom I have a blood relationship. Life is like a cup of mellow coffee, bitter and sweet, I am willing to experience every bit of warmth of life with my heart.
My daughter-in-law's words made me feel a little relieved, and I knew that it was not easy, and she may have put in the effort. I patted her hand lightly, smiled and said, "Child, do you know? I've always felt sorry for you, but sometimes I don't know how to express it." I'm sure you'll do better. ”
She raised her head, her eyes flashing with gratitude and relief: "Really, mother-in-law, thank you for your understanding and tolerance. I'm going to work hard and I'm going to make life better for both you and Dad. ”
We sat facing each other in the garden, the sun shining on us and bathing in warmth. At this moment, I felt that something inside me was released, as if an emotion that had been wrapped for a long time could be expressed. I said softly, "Child, my mother-in-law will care more about you in the future, after all, you are now a member of our family." ”
Tears gleamed in the daughter-in-law's eyes in the sun: "Thank you, mother-in-law. I'll try. ”
Time passed slowly, and I found that my daughter-in-law had become much more proactive, and the housework was no longer my own. We got along well at home, she started asking me about cooking, and I was happy to pass on my years of learning. We made delicious meals together and tasted each other's cooking at the dinner table, and the atmosphere at home became more welcoming and welcoming.
When my son came home, he noticed the change as well. At a family dinner, he looked at his daughter-in-law gently and said, "You seem to be in a better mood lately, are you getting along better with your mother-in-law?"
My daughter-in-law smiled lightly, looked at me and said, "Yes, I think I've grown up a lot." My mother-in-law has always cared for me, and I feel her love and tolerance from the bottom of my heart. ”
I looked at the new family and felt so satisfied. Perhaps, this is the beauty of life, we give each other love and understanding, and finally be able to get out of the knot and achieve each other. For the rest of my life, I want to pass on this warmth and let it continue to bloom in our family.
So, in this home, each of us carries love and warmth, making it a harbor for us to snuggle up to each other. In this harbor, we can all find a happy home and walk through the rest of our lives together. Life is gradually dyed with warmth, becoming a harmonious and beautiful picture.
My son was relieved to see us start to get along. One day, my son and I were at home talking about the changes in our daughter-in-law.
I said softly, "Son, I feel that my relationship with my daughter-in-law has been much better recently, and I have finally let go of some of the baggage in my heart. ”
The son raised his eyebrows slightly and asked, "Is that really good news?" He paused, then added, "I've noticed that she's been getting a little more cheerful lately. Thank you, Mom, for your care and tolerance, I feel that the atmosphere at home has become more harmonious. ”
I smiled and said with emotion: "Sometimes the change in the relationship between people may not require too many words, but more on the mind and action. Maybe I was too attached to something and got myself into a misunderstanding. ”
My son stroked my hand and said gently, "Mom, for you, it may just be tolerant and tolerant again and again, but it is a great happiness for our whole family. Thank you for bringing back the warmth of home. ”
These words touched my heart even more, and I quietly listened to my son's praise. I know very well that the warmth of home is no longer negated by family affection, but is maintained by each family member. I also understand that the relationship between me and my daughter-in-law is no longer that estrangement, but has gradually transformed into a kind of family tolerance.
After dinner that day, we sat around the living room as a family, talking and laughing. The daughter-in-law suddenly said, "Mother-in-law, I plan to make a few side dishes, let's taste them together, what do you think?"
I smiled and nodded, "Okay, my son and I are looking forward to your craft." ”
At the dinner table, a few side dishes carefully cooked by the daughter-in-law were placed on the table, and the fragrance came to the nostrils. We laughed and tasted the delicious food, and our hearts were full of warmth and relief. At this moment, I felt extremely happy, as if all my worries had dissipated in this warm family atmosphere.
For the rest of my life, I am willing to pass on the warmth of this home, so that our family will always understand, tolerate, care and love each other. We achieve each other and create a happy life that belongs to us together. In this warm and happy family, each of us, under the care of love, has found the best companionship in life. This is the happiness I desire for the rest of my life, and I am willing to share it.
That night, as we were savoring the delicious food cooked by our daughter-in-law together, I was suddenly moved by the melodious music. I looked at my daughter-in-law, and she began to spin softly, as if dancing a lonely melody. There is a loneliness and tenderness in her dancing, which is a daughter-in-law I have never seen before. I stood up, put my arms around her, and invited her to dance along. Wrapped in the melody, we began the dance of affection. At that moment, I felt a kind of loneliness in my heart was completely released, and the coldness of home was gradually replaced by warmth and affection.
My son watched us dance, his eyes soft and gratifying. He approached us and said, "Mommy, Mommy's dancing is so beautiful." I replied with a smile, "Thank you, son." It's all because of you that my heart is filled with warmth and sunshine again. The son nodded approvingly: "Yes, we should understand and tolerate each other and create a happy family together." ”
That night, we enjoyed a warm time together as a family, and also brought each other closer. While reminiscing about the old times and re-acquainting with each other, we also rediscovered the warmth of our original intentions.
In the days that followed, we continued to spend quality time together under the care of love. My daughter-in-law has become more confident and independent with my company and teaching, and I am infinitely gratified by her dedication. The son has also learned to be more tolerant and caring, and the warmth of the family has continued. This home, full of affection and love, has become a sacred place that all of us desire in our hearts.
The daughter-in-law's dancing seems to be a footnote to the rebuilding of our family's relationship. Whenever I am in a warm family atmosphere, I can't help but feel that time is rushing, and the family affection with my daughter-in-law is blended in a warm family.
One day, my daughter-in-law and I cooked a pot of fragrant pork rib soup together. The daughter-in-law skillfully cuts the dishes, and she prepares them with graceful gestures and care. I looked at my daughter-in-law's serious appearance and couldn't help but sigh at her changes. She looked up at me and smiled sweetly, "Mother-in-law, how are you doing with me?" and I smiled and complimented, "Very well done! ”
At this time, my son came over, smelled the soup and came over and said, "Wow, this tastes so good!" Seeing our family of three sitting around the table, he suddenly said, "By the way, I recently found a country house that is very good for all of you, why don't we go on vacation together on the weekend." ”
The daughter-in-law's eyes flashed with excitement and she said, "It sounds so good, I haven't been to the nearby mountains for a long time." I smiled and nodded, "It's great, we can relax this time." "We started planning our holiday itinerary as a family, discussing what food to bring and what games to play.
The weekend arrived and our family went to the country house. The morning air was fresh and pleasant, and my daughter-in-law and I exercised in the yard in the morning, feeling the tranquility of the countryside. The son carefully tended the vegetable seedlings in the vegetable patch next to him. We had a picnic and play together on the hill near the villa, laughing one after another, full of joy and happiness.
When we sit around the fire in the evening and enjoy the warmth and harmony, I feel so satisfied. The estrangement and loneliness of the past are no longer there, and are replaced by the warmth and happiness of home. At this moment, I felt as if the happy times had been reserved for us in this small villa.
This vacation not only made our family happy and warm, but also deepened the family relationship between us. For the rest of my life, I will cherish the warmth of this home and continue to fill our lives with love and tolerance. This is the happiness I seek, and I would like to share it with it.
When we got home, our family relived the good times of this vacation. The son said: "This vacation is really wonderful, I don't even want to leave here." The daughter-in-law continued: "Yes, the mountains and rivers here are beautiful, and the air is exceptionally fresh, which makes people feel comfortable. I smiled and nodded, "This experience is really beautiful, we can go out more together in the future." ”
After returning from vacation, our family has become more harmonious and welcoming. The daughter-in-law is also more proactive in taking on housework at home, and life is extremely relaxed and happy. I also learned to respect and tolerate her more, and to recognize the importance of each family member.
Gradually, I found that the warmth of home also affected me deeply. I started to be more active in my favorite hobbies, and the flowers in the garden bloomed brighter because of my careful care. I let go of my past grudge against my daughter-in-law and filled every corner of the family with love and care.
My son and daughter-in-law also began to understand and care for each other more under my influence. They also seem to get along more harmoniously. Whenever I see them working together on household chores, I am very proud of them. There is a deep sense of mutual dependence and understanding between family members.
In this atmosphere of mutual tolerance and understanding, our family has become more full of happiness and warmth. This happiness comes with every member of the family, and becomes the softest dream in the land we wander and longing for. For the rest of my life, I will continue to cherish this warmth and continue to fill our lives with love and tolerance. This is the happiness I seek, and I would like to share it with it.