I have three uncles, the most promising is the second uncle, and the most favored is the younger uncle, but the most cowardly and unproductive is also the younger uncle.
Grandma gave birth to her brother-in-law when she was in her forties, and she was considered an old man in that era, and her brother-in-law had two brothers and three sisters, and he became the youngest in the family.
He never had to take care of the work at home, he stretched out his hands for clothes, opened his mouth for food, and although his grandmother's family was not rich, he never let his uncle suffer.
Under the pampering of the whole family, the brother-in-law became lazy and lazy, and someone persuaded the grandmother: "You can't be used to Xiaojun (uncle) like this, what will he do when you are old and absent in the future?"
Grandma said: "My father and I are gone, Xiaojun still has two brothers and three sisters, and it is difficult to have them in Xiaojun." ”
Later, the eldest uncle got married first, and his grandmother gave him half a bag of coarse grain, two quilts, a pot, and two stools, and the family was separated.
The eldest aunt has been angry about this, saying that grandma is too partial, and hides all the valuable things in the house and keeps them for the younger uncle.
The second uncle was ambitious, and after taking the school entrance examination, he was assigned to work in the city, and then he became an official and a half-job step by step, married a wife and had children in the city, and became the only person in his grandmother's family who soared.
Later, my mother and they all became families, and my uncle has been following my grandfather and grandfather, and I have to work without work, and I have no skills.
Uncle can't stand it, after all, he is the eldest brother, and he can't watch his younger brother idle and gnaw at home all his life.
He persuaded his grandmother: "Xiaojun is in his twenties, it's time for him to go out and find a job to experience and experience, you and my dad can still manage him for the rest of his life." ”
As soon as the uncle's words fell, the grandmother jumped up and pointed at him and scolded him, saying that the uncle was instigated by the aunt, worried about her family property, and was jealous when she saw that she was good to the uncle, and her heart was unbalanced.
Grandma also said: "Let me tell you boss, in the future, everything in the family will definitely belong to Xiaojun, and none of you should have a bad idea." ”
The uncle was originally kind, but he was robbed by his grandmother, and slammed the door angrily, saying that he would never care about his uncle's affairs in the future.
Grandma somehow let her aunt know what she said, she went to her grandma's house to have a big fight with grandma, and the beam was settled.
For several years, my uncle's family and grandmother did not come to the door.
Later, grandma and grandfather passed away one after another, and all the things in the family became uncle's, nothing more than a few old mansions, a few acres of thin fields, and how much inheritance there was, except for the uncle, no one knew it.
It's a pity that my uncle has been pampered since he was a child, and he has no survivability at all, and he doesn't know what to plant when he guards that one-third of an acre.
Later, the uncle simply gave the land to others to plant, ran to the coal mine and went up and down the mine, and after working for less than a month, he ran back in disgrace.
He couldn't bear that suffering.
Seeing that my brother-in-law is in his thirties and still has nothing to do, he wanders here for a day, and he wanders there for a day, and if he has a light job, he will do a little work, and if he doesn't want to work, he will go to his brother and sister's house to eat.
After all, a mother's compatriot, even if his grandfather was partial to his brother-in-law when he was alive, he couldn't watch his brother-in-law starve to death when he was an older brother and sister.
A few people discussed, and if they had money, they would give their uncle a little money, and if they didn't have money, they would let their uncle eat with them, in short, they wouldn't let him suffer.
Although the eldest aunt and the second aunt were not satisfied, fortunately, they were not the ones in charge, even if they complained, they did not dare to interfere.
Not to mention my mother and aunt, they have always raised my brother-in-law as a son, and at home they have the final say, so they immediately nodded in agreement.
In this way, the problem of brother-in-law's survival was solved.
At the age of thirty-five, under the help of my uncle and others, my uncle finally got married, and I originally thought that with a family, he should be mature.
But the brother-in-law's nature has not changed, even if he is married, he still does not seek to be motivated, and he has not fulfilled the responsibilities and obligations of a husband at all.
Not only that, but my uncle was also obsessed with drinking, and he was drunk all day long, and when he ran out of money, he ran to his brother and sister to borrow it, saying that he was borrowing, but in fact he wanted it.
For this reason, my aunt often quarreled with my uncle, scolded him for being unproductive, said that he was blind, and looked for him when he didn't want to do it.
My mother also hated him, and my uncle even beat my brother-in-law, warning him that if he didn't learn like this, he would leave him alone.
After a few days of reining in, the uncle should still be like this.
Two years later, my aunt finally couldn't stand this hopeless day and filed for divorce.
She said: "Sister, I really can't bear you, but your brother is really a mud can't support the wall, and I will follow him to suffer for the rest of my life." ”
My mother was speechless, she knew better than anyone what her brother was like, and forcing her aunt to stay was harming others, so she would have made this choice.
After the divorce, the uncle didn't feel the slightest sadness, but felt that a person was more chic and comfortable, and he could drink as much as he wanted.
Uncle They were also very disappointed, and they tossed with my uncle ruthlessly, but my mother was always relieved of my uncle, and carried my father to help my uncle.
When his brother-in-law was forty years old, he suddenly told his uncle that they were going to get married, and he was a woman with children in a second marriage, and she did not dislike him for being poor.
When the uncle heard it, this is also a good thing, it's better than being a bachelor for a lifetime, maybe the uncle will turn back this time.
So, under the operation of the uncle, the uncle married the aunt into the door in a beautiful way, and the couple loved each other after marriage.
The uncle changed his normal behavior and suddenly became motivated, not only making money, but also building an old house, and living a good life.
My mother was very relieved and felt that my brother-in-law had finally grown up.
As the saying goes: "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change", a few years after the good days, the uncle started drinking again, and he had no intention of working.
Grandma's family has inherited high blood pressure, and the most taboo is to drink, and the eldest and second uncles have never drunk alcohol, for fear of causing high blood pressure.
But the uncle didn't think so, and in the end he also paid the price for his drunkenness, became half-paralyzed, and collapsed in bed.
The little aunt didn't expect that she was finally freed from her last marriage, but she ran into the "wine Mengzi" of the uncle again.
It's only been two years, and I have to serve my uncle for the rest of my life.
In grievances, resentment, and unwillingness, the aunt also filed for divorce, and the uncle couldn't take care of himself anymore, who would take care of him if he was really divorced.
My mother also has selfish intentions, and they can't let my aunt leave, so they promise that as long as they don't divorce and take good care of my uncle, then in the future, the house under my uncle's name will be given to my aunt's daughter.
My aunt is also a poor woman, who broke off the relationship with her mother's family for her ex-husband, and she didn't even have a place to live with a daughter.
Later, I married my brother-in-law, so I had a place to live.
For the sake of the uncle's house, the aunt reluctantly agreed to continue to live with the uncle and take care of this half-paralyzed person.
A woman not only has to provide for her daughter's education, but also takes care of her half-disabled husband, and the burden of the family weighs on her.
You can imagine how difficult life is.
Fortunately, my aunt is spicy and capable, she wholesaled some small items and sold them everywhere, but she didn't expect to make a lot of money.
When the uncle saw that his aunt was making money, he was addicted to alcohol again, so he took advantage of his aunt's absence to secretly pour a glass of wine to get over his addiction.
After a drink, another drink, the little aunt came back after a hard day, and when she saw the drunken uncle, she couldn't help but scold.
However, the uncle has long been snoring like thunder, and he can't hear the scolding, no matter how ugly he is.
One day, my aunt suddenly found my uncle and my mother and announced a series of major events, she met a man who knew cold and hot.
That man is responsible, and he knows that it hurts, and his aunt wants to live with him, but because he promised his uncle, they won't divorce.
So, the aunt offered to take care of the uncle with the man.
Everyone is a decent person, who wants this kind of request, isn't this clearly embarrassing everyone and trampling on the dignity of men.
But the little aunt is hard-hearted, if she doesn't agree, she will break up, anyway, that man also has a house, and the conditions are 10,000 times better than that of the uncle.
With the consent of the eldest uncle, the younger aunt took the man to live in the younger uncle's house, and the younger uncle collapsed, grabbed the things at the head of the bed and smashed them.
The aunt and the man ignored him directly, let the uncle roar like crazy, and when it was time to eat, they cooked food and brought him to the head of the bed.
Eat or not eat at will.
After the uncle stayed up for a day, he couldn't hold it anymore, so he ate with a scolding and scolding, and went to sleep with his head covered, as if he had accepted his fate.
Since then, my uncle has acquiesced to this way of life, and when we went to see him, he smiled wryly and said, "I live a real life." ”
At the age of 43, his brother-in-law died young in resentment.
After dealing with the aftermath of the uncle, some people talked about it, saying that the uncle was angry with his aunt, and he was a man if he didn't succeed.
How can you stand your wife frowning at home with other men every day, let alone your uncle, good people have to be angry.
But who is to blame for all this?
blame grandpa and grandpa, blame uncle for them, spoil my uncle as a lazy man, blame my uncle for not being angry, and finally end up miserable.