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Pilots and flight attendants: when "high flying" meets "good looks"
It is said that above the blue sky, there is such a group of people, who either fly through the clouds in the silver eagle, or are busy in the cabin in uniform.
That's right, they are the legendary pilots and flight attendants. Whenever we mention these two professions, there will always be a picture of good looks and high income in our minds.
But do you know that behind this good look, there is actually a hidden "secret war" about marriage.
Some people say that pilots and flight attendants are a match made in heaven, after all, they both fly in the sky and share a common "height".
But some people say that pilots don't actually want to marry flight attendants, why is this? Is it because the flight attendants are too good-looking, which makes the pilots ashamed of themselves? Or is it because they are too busy with their work to have time to fall in love?
Don't worry, and listen to me slowly.
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Occupational characteristics and mate selection differences
We have to admit that the profession of flight attendant does have a unique charm. They are not only sweet and tall, but also have an outstanding sense of service and adaptability.
On the plane, they are like the intimate little padded jackets of the passengers, no matter what difficulties they encounter, they can quickly solve them. Who doesn't like a girl like that?
However, good people always have their own little troubles. The flight attendants are in contact with elites from all walks of life every day, from business tycoons to film and television stars, from technology upstarts to art celebrities, which can be described as well-informed.
Such an environment makes them inevitably a little "picky" when choosing a mate, after all, they have seen more of the world, and their horizons are naturally higher.
And what about the pilots? They're also a bunch of great people. Piloting the plane through the blue sky and white clouds, the chic and confident are not comparable to ordinary people.
But they also have their own "little ninety-nine". The nature of the pilot's job dictates that they cannot spend 9 to 5 with their families like ordinary people.
Therefore, when looking for a significant other, they pay more attention to the other person's housekeeping ability and sense of responsibility to the family. In this way, the difference between the two is apparent.
Some people may say, "Hey, aren't these pilots and flight attendants a natural pair? One flies high and sees far, and the other is thoughtful and understanding, and can run the family well." "It's not that simple.
If you think about it, the flight attendants fly around in the air every day, and they are experienced and well-informed. If you find a pilot who is also flying around as a companion, wouldn't the two of them have to collide in the air like two runaway planes?
When the time comes, who will take care of the affairs of the house, who will take care of the children, who will cook, who will do the laundry? These trivial but essential household affairs will have to be handled by someone!
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Economic considerations and social pressures
Of course, in addition to professional characteristics and mate selection differences, economic and social pressures are also one of the important factors affecting the marriage of pilots and flight attendants.
In this materialistic society, economic and social pressures are like two mountains, weighing heavily on everyone's heart. For flight attendants, they are often given higher social expectations because of their outstanding appearance.
Not only do you have to maintain a perfect image, but you also have to work hard to improve your inner cultivation so that you can match those "rich and handsome" men. Hey, that's breathless!
And what about the pilots? Although they are relatively financially advantageous, they do not only value each other's appearance and economic conditions. They want to find a partner who understands the nature of their work and supports them in their careers.
After all, in married life, mutual understanding and support are the most important thing! no one wants to find a partner who only spends money and doesn't understand themselves, right?
Speaking of which, some people may ask, "Then why do pilots and flight attendants choose to be together when there are so many differences and pressures?"
In fact, although pilots and flight attendants are facing all kinds of pressure, they also have their own little ninety-nine.
They know that it is not easy to find someone who truly understands and supports them in this society. So when they meet each other, it's like finding a soulmate.
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Behind the Scenes: Personality Factors and Family Responsibilities
To be honest, the reason why pilots and flight attendants choose to come together is not because of how well they match their appearance and economic conditions.
After all, there are thousands of good-looking skins in this world, and interesting souls are the only ones in a million! So what are they attracted to? Hehe, let me tell you, in fact, they are similar in personality.
Did you know that pilots and flight attendants are two professions that often have the qualities of independence, self-confidence, and strength.
They are like "supermen" and "heroines" in the sky, always keeping a calm and optimistic attitude in the face of various difficulties and challenges. This similar personality trait makes it easier for them to empathize with and understand each other's work and life.
The pilot is able to steer the aircraft calmly when the air is turbulent, and she is also able to smile and take care of the passengers' needs when the flight attendants are confronted with various needs. Such two people live together, isn't that like a fish in water?
And ah, family responsibilities are also one of the important factors that motivate pilots and flight attendants to come together. If you think about it, the nature of their work means that they often face the dilemma of not being able to balance their families.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, they pay more attention to whether the other party can assume the responsibilities and obligations of the family, and jointly create a warm and harmonious family environment.
In this way, even if both of them are away from home for a long time due to work reasons, they can maintain the stability and harmony of the family.
For example, pilots may often fly international routes for several days, while flight attendants may often be away from home because of flight arrangements. But as long as they trust each other and support each other, they can get through these difficulties together!
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The true meaning of marriage and infinite reverie
Seeing this, have you already had a deeper understanding of the marriage of a pilot and a flight attendant?
In fact, there is no fixed model and standard for marriage, and everyone's definition of happiness is different. The marriage choice of a pilot and flight attendant is just one of many possibilities.
They may not have come together for various reasons, but this does not prevent us from yearning for and pursuing a good marriage.
After all, in this world, there is nothing absolutely suitable and unsuitable, only mutual understanding and continuous running-in can lead to the other side of happiness.
So, whether you're a pilot or a flight attendant, keep an open mind to find the right person for you!