There are some things that make people's hearts ache when they think about it. I'm 57 years old and I've been through a lot of ups and downs in my life. 17 years ago, she and I entered the palace of marriage and began our life together. However, now we have broken up. This is a touching story about me and my second marriage.
My name is Li Ming and I come from an ordinary family. is the eldest in the family, his parents got married on a blind date, and he lives an ordinary and warm life. After I went to college, I broke up with my childhood girlfriend and started working after graduating in discouragement. After working for a few years, I met her - Xiaofang.
First Encounter:
It was a sunny afternoon, and I was resting on a bench on the side of the street with the exhaustion of work. Suddenly, a girl passed me carrying a dog. The dog happily ran over and licked my feet, and the girl stopped and smiled at me.
Body:
Her name is Xiaofang, a lively and cheerful girl. We swapped phone numbers and quickly became good friends. In my heart, Xiao Fang is the one who can bring me warmth and comfort.
After a period of time together, I found that I gradually fell in love with Xiaofang. She and I were very compatible, and our thinking was similar. Finally, one day, I plucked up the courage to confess to her and invited her to be my wife.
Xiaofang accepted my marriage proposal, and we had a simple but warm wedding. 17 years are gone in our lives. We work hard together, support each other, and create our own happiness between every sunrise and sunset.
However, as the years passed mercilessly, we gradually discovered the contradictions and differences between each other. We once gave up the divorce for the sake of our children, but in the end we decided to respect each other's choices, and for the sake of our own happiness, we decided to end the marriage.
The days after the separation were very painful for me. Every empty night, I think of the times we used to spend together, of our conversations, of our laughter, of our quarrels. When I first thought of getting married again, I still felt a little heartbroken.
However, I also understand that life needs to move on. I tried to adjust my mindset and start accepting this new stage of life. I told myself that this failed marriage didn't mean I couldn't find my own happiness.
Starting over, I unexpectedly met a woman who caught my heart. She was gentle and kind, cared about me, and listened to my heart. We slowly walked into each other's lives, and I came to believe that love didn't die because of a failure.
After a period of time together, I decided to re-marry her. Although I have some fears about marriage, I believe that at this turning point in my life, I will find true happiness.
You must know that after 17 years of partnering, breaking up is not the ending I want. However, life is like this, and we can't predict every step in the future. I learned to accept failure and firmly believe that no matter how many separations I went through, I would meet that happiness that belonged to me.
Perhaps, I still feel sorry for my former feelings, but I know that there is more beauty in life waiting for me to discover. May each of us be able to move forward bravely on the road of love and work hard for our own happiness!
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