Many people think that this is because the child is disobedient and works against his parents, but in fact, there are three reasons why the child talks back:
First, self-awareness is developing.
The child becomes fond of confrontation, when he is two years old, he likes to say no, and when he says one word in adolescence, he says ten words. The child really wants to prove one thing - I want to be myself independently. They want their voices to be heard, to be valued and recognized.
This is a very important part of children's development, and we should give them the right space and opportunities to learn to think and express themselves.
Secondly, the child's intelligence is constantly developing, and the logical reasoning ability is constantly increasing.
The butt also needs to be technical. Children begin to learn to think about problems, and sometimes they may make reasonable points or questions. It's part of their journey to explore the world and learn, and we should encourage them to think and discover.
Backmouth is how they express their opinions and thought processes, which is a positive sign of development.
Third, the child's excessive retorting must be because you are overly criticized.
If your child is always refuting your words, you may want to take your child's back-to-back as two signals – he is growing up and wants to be respected and involved in decision-making, and you may be over-controlling, and it's time to adjust appropriately.
If you don't want to have a rebellious period in your child's adolescence, it's important to start changing now.
So, how to deal with your child's backlash?
First of all, when your child talks back, listen first.
Listening is the first step to good communication. Then, help your child to express the idea in a calm way. For example, did you just want to express something? In this way, your child will learn to express his thoughts calmly and will be willing to listen to your point of view.
At the same time, you can also shout a halt and tell your child that now is not the time to argue, but that we need to solve the problem together.
It is important to work with the child to solve the problem and not to blame. This collaborative approach builds cooperation and trust in the parent-child relationship, promoting understanding and mutual growth.
In conclusion, when a child learns to talk back, we should understand the reason behind it and deal with it in an appropriate way. Talking back is part of a child's upbringing and is a manifestation of their developing self-awareness and intelligence.
When dealing with children's backlash, we need to learn to empathize and understand their needs and psychology. At the same time, we must also insist on proper education and guidance, so that children understand what is appropriate expression and respect. Through peaceful conversations and problem-solving, we can build better relationships with our children and help them grow into thinking and independent thinkers!