After the death of her husband at the age of 66, at the age of 27, she became a wandering madwoman
The once sensational forbidden love has finally come to an end. Not unexpectedly, in a tragic way.
A few days ago, on Chinese New Year's Eve, Lin Jingen, the heroine of "Grandpa and Sun Love", was found living on the street, in a trance, and suspected of losing control of her spirit.
【1】
Taiwanese music producer Li Kuncheng has a relationship with his widow Lin Jingen, who is 40 years younger than him, for 10 years.
This "grandson love", which can be called shocking at any time, came to an end with the man's death.
The deceased is gone, and everything is over when he dies. But the blood and strife continued, and the hidden dangers that were covered up in the past continued to explode.
Li Zhuoxuan, the son born to Li Kuncheng and his ex-wife, jumped out and publicly scolded Lin Jingen, a scheming stepmother: she didn't give birth and relied on her father to survive like a parasite, but she didn't treat Li Kuncheng well, but bullied the old man, how ruthless the methods were, knocking on the bone and sucking the marrow, forging signatures to fight for the garage inheritance, etc.
Between the words, it seems that his father Li Kuncheng, who has 40 years of experience more than his wife, is a stupid and innocent boy who is weak and can't take care of himself, and Lin Jingen, who is younger than him, has become a poisonous woman who has been hidden in the city government and has been planning for many years just to covet family wealth. That's kind of ridiculous.
This battle for the inheritance finally ended with Lin Jingen obtaining the ownership of the unfinished mortgage and Li Zhuoxuan getting Li Kuncheng's music copyright and vinyl record collection as he wished.
But Lin Jingen, who has no source of income, can't afford to pay off the mortgage at all, and has no sense of financial management at all, resold the property at a discount, and then stayed in the hotel for a long time.
After the initial splendour, the economy soon became overstretched. At the same time, she was contaminated with the vice of alcoholism, and even if she only had a little money on her, she had to buy alcohol to drink without eating.
Previously, she was expelled and blacked out by many hotels for destroying hotel facilities, making a fuss in public, spitting and laughing, hysteria, incoherent speech, and affecting normal business.
Lin Jingen, who was homeless, was forced to live on the streets, and she was only 27 years old at this time.
At this age, her peers may have graduated from college for a few years and become more comfortable in the workplace, they may still be studying in school to seek higher academic development, and even if they have not gone to college, they may have become tired but sophisticated "mature adults" who have enough ability to survive independently after many years of ups and downs in society.
And she, because she took a fork in the road at the crossroads of her life back then, ended up like this: everyone betrayed her relatives, her future was uncertain, her spirit was worried, and the whole network was embarrassed.
【2】
Her relationship with Li Kuncheng began 10 years ago. As a well-known music producer in Taiwan, 57-year-old Li Kuncheng entered the house under the guise of "going to an old friend's house to enjoy vinyl records".
At that time, in fact, there was another young girlfriend Li Kuncheng, who was 20 years younger than him, and he was very lustful and took this opportunity to pursue the eldest daughter of a friend's family. After being refused, he shamelessly turned his head and stretched out his hand to Lin Jingen, who was only 17 years old.
I treat you as a friend, but you want to soak my daughter?
However, because of the lack of parental care, Lin Jingen, who lacked love, fell into this old man who was 40 years older than her and enough to become her grandfather. This shocking "grandfather and grandson love" shocked the whole network.
The girl's father was angry and opposed, and the monstrous criticism of public opinion made the girl who was not deeply involved in the world and rebellious breed a kind of lonely courage to "fight against the world". smashing at home, not hesitating to cut off relations with her father, but also to pursue the "eternal love" in her eyes.
And Li Kuncheng, who has a little network resources, unscrupulously dumped his ex-girlfriend, took his new little wife to run all over major variety shows, publicly showed his affection, and was not ashamed to earn enough attention.
In the blink of an eye, 10 years have passed, and the results are known to everyone. But any adult who has been beaten for a little more than two years can see at a glance the painstaking and lonely words behind the so-called "true love" of this old man who is a chicken thief, and has been planning for a long time with ulterior motives.
Lin Jingen, who fell into the trap, can't even use the "love brain/sex brain" to excuse her, she was still a minor at the age of 17, and she was still a child in essence.
In recent years, the concept of "No Means No" has gradually formed a new consensus. However, as everyone knows, not only No Means No, but also in some unequal relationships such as bosses, employees, Party A and B, teachers and students, parents and children, disparity in age and experience, etc., sometimes Yes also Means No.
Is it really voluntary to work overtime in the company, and is it really happy to drink wine for fear of offending customers?
Adults can't refuse the illusory pie, not to mention the 17-year-old girl whose brain development has not yet been completed and the three views have not yet been established.
【3】
There is a long-standing secret saying in the mate selection world, "If she is not deeply involved in the world, take her to see the prosperity of the world, and if she has gone through vicissitudes, take her to ride the merry-go-round." ”
The doting love between the uncle and Lori is just a hunting game for the old men to harvest downward. In the American drama "Growth Education", it tells the story of a highly similar old man hunting for beauty.
16-year-old Jenny, born in an ordinary family, is an honor student who can impact Oxford's prestigious schools.
Jenny is beautiful and intelligent, with the tsundere and pretentiousness of an honor student. She loves music and art, talks about French culture, and yearns for the romantic capital of Paris. But her parents strictly focused on her studies for the sake of her future, and did not allow her to be distracted from the pursuit of "useless" music and art.
On a rainy day, she is accosted by a man named David.
The strange man drove a luxury car and talked to her about music in a clever joke that was never offensive. Because of the disparity in age and experience, he is well-informed, from dress to taste, he shows a mature man's demeanor that is completely different from that of stunned young people of the same age.
Intent on flattering and approaching, David frequently visited high-end venues, art auctions, and luxury restaurants that ordinary students never had the opportunity to visit, talked with her about the art of poetry, went to exhibitions, presented exquisite and expensive jewelry, and even took her to the Paris of her dreams.
She became addicted to parties, learned to smoke, fell in love with drinking, and had sex with an old man. It doesn't take much effort to make the dream come true in advance, and the dazzling abundance of material comforts gets carried away, and Jenny quickly falls.
Burnout, she slackened her studies and loved to tell the story of her travels and show off her jewelry...... This anomaly was seen by the teacher who cared most about her.
The female teacher and the headmistress, who cherished her talent and cared about her future, spoke earnestly and persuaded her not to give up her dream of being admitted to Oxford, and tried her best to keep her at a fork in the road in life, hoping to prevent her from going astray.
But Jenny, whose vanity occupies her brain, is dismissive of this, "You are a top student who graduated from Cambridge University, don't you also squat in this broken school every day to correct students' childish and boring essays? I am living the life of my dreams now, why do I need to work hard to get into Oxford?"
The teachers had no choice but to watch her who had been excellent in character and learning sink into love and material comforts, give up her homework, and make mistakes and drop out of school.
If in real life, according to this trend, it can be predicted: what kind of ending will be "hurt Zhongyong, sighing and regretting" for girls who are tempted by old men to fall by their intentions.
But in the art film, the screenwriter still gave Jenny a slightly deliberate "way back" and "regret medicine".
Dressed in gorgeous clothes, with hair like a book city adult, she is used to a privileged life, but she accidentally discovers that David's luxury car and house are unknown, he is not a single diamond king at all, but a complete liar. And he is just the junior who outsourced after he concealed that he was married and had children.
After the falling out, she aggressively asked David's friends why they were hiding it from her, and these old middle-aged men laughed ambiguously: Old men are just messing around outside of marriage, how common.
She is not the first time my uncle has picked roses, and it will not be the last. Jenny, whose future is ruined, recognizes the facts, washes off her gorgeous makeup, returns to school with her broken body and mind, and asks for forgiveness from teachers and principals, "I was so stupid before, because there is no shortcut to the life I want." ”
Young girls who are not deeply involved in the world will never know that any "love" that does not care about her future and makes her give up her studies and work is a prelude to a trap.
No matter how wonderful it was, it was only the bait that the fish bit before they took the bait, and the animal ate the last fat piece of meat in the trap. The seemingly well-packaged life was an empty shell, and they had no way of knowing or believing what the price was behind that choice.
The girls are not deeply involved in the world but are young and beautiful, just like children walking in trouble with gold, and they are easy to become the prey of uncles with ulterior motives.
How to face the many temptations that may arise on the road to growth is an indispensable growth education for young girls, and it should become a compulsory course for parents with daughters to learn early warning in advance. And in this class, Lin Jingen and her parents were absent.