In China, there are many families that have such a phenomenon: children especially like to go to their grandmother's house when they are young, but as they get older, they are more and more reluctant to go. The reason for this is very realistic, parents should understand and respect their children's wishes, and not force them.
First, as children get older, their hobbies and social circles change. When they are young, children may think that they can play with many novel toys at their grandmother's house or play with the children of relatives. But as they get older, they may be more concerned about their privacy and independence, and they no longer like to be intimate with large groups of people. At this time, they may feel that going to their grandmother's house is a very restrictive thing and there is no freedom.
Second, children are facing increasing academic and social pressures. As schoolwork increases, children's schedules become increasingly tight, and they need more time to study and complete their homework. Additionally, as their social circle expands, children may need more time and effort to maintain friendships. As a result, they may feel that going to their grandma's house is a waste of time and affects their academic and social lives.
Finally, children's ability to live independently is also an important factor in whether they are willing to go to their grandmother's house. When they are young, children may not have much ability to live independently and need the care and companionship of their parents. But as they get older, they should gradually learn to handle things independently and take care of themselves. If they lack this ability, they may feel that going to their grandmother's house will cause them a lot of inconvenience, such as problems with transportation, food, etc.
To sum up, the reason why children are more reluctant to go to their grandmother's house is very realistic. Parents should understand their children's thoughts and needs and respect their wishes. If the child really doesn't want to go to the grandmother's house, the parents should not force them.