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"Mom, do you know? My ex-mother-in-law gave me a dowry of 50,000 yuan!" I said to my mom excitedly.
"Ah, really, that's a lot of money!" said my mother in surprise.
"yes, she really hurts me. It's a pity that she will probably never know the truth about my divorce. I sighed softly.
"Why? aren't you going to tell her?" asked my mother.
"No, I don't dare tell her. I'm afraid she'll worry about me and feel sorry for me. I said, tears rolling in my eyes.
"You stupid child, who can say for sure about marriage? As long as you live happily, your ex-mother-in-law and I will support you. My mom said, stroking my head.
"However, she gave it to me after saving her whole life's money. I said, tears finally falling.
My mom rubbed my shoulder and comforted me softly, "You are her daughter, of course she is willing to pay for you." Don't be afraid, don't worry too much, you have to live for your own happiness. ”
I closed my eyes, and the failure of my marriage was like a sharp knife to my heart. I feel so tired, as if I have a lot of baggage to carry alone, but I can't bear it. The 50,000 dowry was like a huge lie, weighing deep on my heart.
When I got married, I "married" into my ex-husband's family in a beautiful way, but only I know all the torture and sadness after marriage. The illusion of marriage was shattered in the face of reality, and he and I finally chose to divorce.
That day, I was sitting in the lawyer's office with a divorce agreement in front of us. The ex-husband's attitude was as cold as ever, as if this divorce was just a deal for him.
"Think about it, it's not good for you to go on like this. The lawyer's voice of persuasion lingered in my ears.
I bowed my head and was silent for a moment, and finally signed my name. When I looked up, he had already stood up and left quickly.
I stood alone in the hustle and bustle of the city, and my heart was empty. I never told my mom about the dowry, and I didn't know how to deal with her. The 50,000 yuan is like an invisible pressure that binds me every day.
I felt depressed and tired, and there was too much bitterness and reluctance in my heart. All the good things that were once shattered with the breakdown of my marriage, and I found that I couldn't put it back together.
The 50,000 dowry given to me by my extra-marital mother-in-law became a burden, and I couldn't enjoy any of it. Whenever I see that money, I feel guilty and upset. I didn't know how to deal with my mom, and I didn't know how to deal with my friends and relatives who sent me their blessings.
However, when I sat in front of my mother again, I felt a sense of relief. I told my mother about my shackles and insecurity, and I told her the ins and outs of the 50,000 dowry.
"Silly boy, it doesn't really matter. You should live for your own happiness and not be bothered by those external pressures. Mom whispered.
Hearing my mother's words, I felt as if I had found a ray of light. Yes, I should live for my happiness and not be bothered by those pressures. I appreciate my ex-mother-in-law's kindness, but the happiness of this life is my own struggle.
I decided to tell my ex-mother-in-law the truth, and I had to face the past bravely and embrace the future. I want to use my own efforts and persistence to prove that I am not a weak person attached to marriage, and I have my own life and path to go.
After some thought, I finally decided to meet my ex-mother-in-law. As I stood at the door of her house, I felt an inexplicable nervousness.
"Auntie, I'm here to see you. I whispered.
My ex-mother-in-law let me into the house with a kind expression, and her smile was still warm, which made me a little unbearable to tell the truth.
"Sister, how are you doing?" asked the ex-mother-in-law gently.
"Auntie, there's something I haven't told you all along......" I said with a slurrel.
"What's the matter, do you have any difficulties to discuss with me?" asked the ex-mother-in-law with concern.
"Yes...... I divorced your son. "I trembled and told the truth.
The ex-mother-in-law's face turned pale all of a sudden, and her eyes were full of shock and disbelief.
"It's me who is bad, did I do something wrong?" the ex-mother-in-law's voice began to tremble.
"Auntie, it's actually none of your business. The thing between us is just a contradiction between me and him. I hurriedly explained.
"No, it can't be...... How could he be willing to ......" The tears of the ex-mother-in-law burst out of her eyes, "You must have been wronged, he is sorry for you!"
"Auntie, I don't want to embarrass you...... The 50,000 dowry, I ......" I stammered and couldn't speak.
My ex-mother-in-law took my hand and said in a trembling voice, "It doesn't matter, child. I gave the 50,000 yuan because I loved you, not for any other purpose. Divorce is just a small thing, you just have to live happily. ”
Hearing my ex-mother-in-law's words, I felt a sweet and sour taste, as if I had been relieved. Yes, happiness is not built on the basis of marriage, but is created and pursued by oneself.
I felt a sense of relief and relaxation, and I was no longer afraid of the road ahead. My ex-mother-in-law's understanding and support made me feel warm and grateful, and I am willing to go on bravely.
Life can't go as planned, and marriage is a mystery full of unknowns. However, I am no longer afraid of the future, because I know that I have the love of my mother and ex-mother-in-law, and I have the courage to face and bear it on my own. Happiness is not given by others, but created by myself. Together with my mother, I want to work hard for my own happiness.
"Thank you, Auntie. I'm going to live my life well, and I've decided to get a job I love. I said firmly.
My ex-mother-in-law patted my hand gently, her eyes flashing with encouragement and support: "Good boy, you will definitely find your own happiness." No matter what happens in the future, you can come to me and I will always support you. ”
At this time, I felt the warm hands of my ex-mother-in-law bring me a kind of comfort that I have never experienced before. Perhaps the failure of my marriage is just an episode in life, and I will use my own efforts and persistence to create my own happiness.
Leaving my ex-mother-in-law's house, I embarked on a new journey in life. I found a job that I loved, and I threw myself into it, learning and growing hard. Life slowly became fuller, and I regained my confidence and courage.
"Mom, I've got a job and I've been doing well lately. "I told my mom on the phone.
"Very well, kid. You have to work hard and face it bravely no matter what difficulties you encounter. Mom's voice was full of anticipation and encouragement.
I know that no matter how bumpy the road ahead, I will keep moving forward. The support and understanding I received from my former mother-in-law also made me understand that happiness does not depend on external factors, but comes from inner firmness and courage.
Day in and day out, I work hard and strive for every opportunity to develop myself. Filled with love and yearning for life, I began to re-examine my life and values. The failure of my marriage did not discourage me, on the contrary, it became a catalyst for my growth and made me brave to face my heart.
At the same time, I try to make new friends and expand my social circle. In the process, I met a boy who caught my heart, he was cheerful, sunny, and passionate about life. We chatted together, shared the moments of life with each other, and slowly brought each other closer.
"I love the feeling of being with you, we are really in tune. He said to me with a smile.
"Yes, I also think we're happy together. I replied softly.
Bidding farewell to the haze brought about by my previous marriage, I began to try to deal with my current life with a kind heart. Instead of running away from love, I opened my heart to embrace happiness. Yes, I am willing to re-invest in love and pursue the happiness I desire.
"I've proposed to them and I want to spend my life with you where you like. He looked at me expectantly.
"Fool, I promise you. I smiled and took his hand.
At this moment, I understood that no matter how many setbacks I had encountered, no matter how many pains I had, it was just for me to cherish my happiness more deeply. The divorce did not end my life, on the contrary, it taught me how to be brave enough to face my heart and be brave enough to pursue the life I wanted.
I am facing a new marriage, a new life, and I know that I will be the bride in this love and the protagonist in this life. Happiness requires us to manage it with our hearts, and I am willing to embrace it and cherish it.
"My dear, I do. "In this warm season, I said to him sincerely.
He smiled and held my hand tightly: "I will always be by your side forever." ”
In the purple lavender fields, we had a wedding. The scent of lavender came to our noses, and under the clear sky, we stood together holding hands and smiling, swearing our promises to each other.
"Today, I am delighted to invite you all to witness our wedding. I smiled and said to my friends and family. "I am so lucky to be able to have a wedding with my beloved in this beautiful lavender field. And all of this is thanks to my previous experience, which has made me know how to cherish love even more. ”
"I would also like to thank my ex-mother-in-law, whose support and understanding was one of the motivations for me to get back on the path to happiness. I turned to my ex-mother-in-law and said gratefully.
The ex-mother-in-law's eyes were full of tears, and she held my hand tightly: "Dear child, you are the strongest girl I have ever met, and your happiness is my happiness." ”
After we got married, we started a new life. Supporting each other, understanding and respecting each other is our common credo. I understand that marriage is not a simple vow, but requires the dedication and run-in of both parties.
"Baby, I'd like to go with you to see the lavender fields of France. I whispered to him.
"Okay, we have to get a feel for that romantic land. His eyes were full of anticipation.
The flowers of love have always bloomed in our hearts, and we plan the future journey together, and walk through the joys and pains of life together.
Marriage has taught me how to take responsibility, how to be considerate of others, and how to cultivate the road of love. It taught me the art of living with others, and it also taught me that love needs to be cared for.
"Honey, we've been together for three years. Thank you for always being there for me. I looked at him affectionately.
"You're the one who gave me happiness, baby. I would like to be with you forever. He smiled and hugged me tightly.
We have regained balance in our lives and learned how to create happiness for each other. Marriage is no longer the domain of the individual, but a business that we run together. I am willing to take the hand of my son and walk hand in hand with him.
After the setback of divorce, I still believe in happiness. It may be tortuous, but it also makes me cherish the happiness in front of me even more. The setbacks in the past did not erase my strength, but rather a beacon on my journey of growth.
On the road of love, I am willing to be a watchman and a stubborn dreamer. Marriage is not the end, but a starting point of life, a new journey, a new beginning. And I, with more cherishing and grateful hearts, continue to move forward towards the future.
I long to find more excitement in this marriage, and more understanding and tolerance. My husband and I are working hard for the future and hope to make good memories on the same path.
One day, out of the blue, he said to me, "Honey, I think we should go on some trips so that we can get to know each other better." ”
"It's a good idea, we can go to the places we once dreamed of. I replied excitedly.
So, we planned a romantic trip to Europe. In front of the romantic Arc de Triomphe in Paris, we hugged each other affectionately and felt the sweetness of each other's love. We walked in the water city of Venice, Italy, looking at the charming scenery and tasting the sweetness of love together. This trip has become a precious memory for us and has brought us closer together.
After returning home, we reminisced about the beauty of the trip, as if it had rekindled the flame of romance between us.
"My dear, this trip is really beautiful and I am willing to go with you to explore more journeys. His eyes were full of longing.
"Me too, this trip has allowed us to get to know and trust each other more. I replied with a smile.
Married life is full of love and happiness, we grow together and work together for each other. This marriage is not only my happiness, but also a treasure for both of us. We learned the beauty of love and how to be a real couple.
Marriage is not a smooth sailing process, and there are many bitterness and challenges involved. But it is these challenges that make us more determined to walk together, and we are all there for each other regardless of the wind and rain.
In my opinion, marriage is not a rose-colored fairy tale, but a solid happiness that we have created together. It is not a dream, but a picture of our common life, full of beautiful expectations for the future.
In the journey of this marriage, I understand the meaning of love, and I also know how to be grateful and cherish.
"My dear, I love you. Our marriage has strengthened my love for life. I looked at him affectionately.
"Me too, baby. Marriage has taught us to be tolerant and understanding of each other, and it has also made us appreciate more of the beauty of life. He held my hand tightly.
In the days to come, we will continue to support each other and spend the sweetness and bitterness of life together.
"I want to spend the rest of my life with you and accompany you through the ups and downs of life. He said to me gently.
"I am also willing to be with you all the time, and we will always support each other until we grow old together. I replied firmly.
On the solid foundation of our marriage, we also sought some new careers and hobbies in order to cherish each other better. We raise our children together and face life's challenges and difficulties together. In all of this, we have learned to be more united, more empathetic, and more respectful of each other's feelings.
"Baby, we've been happy for so many years, and we're going to keep going like this. He said softly.
"Well, we will, we will always support each other and face everything in the future together. I responded with a smile.
Marriage is a landscape of life, which needs our common taste, as well as our common care and care.
"Honey, let's go to the movies tonight, we haven't relaxed together in a long time. I invited him to say.
"Good idea, we can feel the romance of the year again. He smiled and put his arm around me.
Although this journey is not as passionate as before, it makes us cherish each other more in experiencing the bits and pieces of each other's lives. Our marriage is no longer just sweet love, but a more mature companionship and understanding.
In the journey of this marriage, I understand that happiness is not immutable, it requires us to always polish and manage with our hearts. Marriage is no longer a youthful sweetness, but a kind of maturity and perseverance.
"My dear, thank you for always being with me and accompanying me through the bits and pieces of life. I said to him affectionately.
"We will always rely on each other and face everything in life together. He responded with seriousness and firmness.
In the process of joint support and operation, we have become more and more closely linked. We love each other deeply and are willing to take on more for each other. Happiness in marriage needs to be maintained and guarded with our hearts all the time.
However, it wasn't all smooth sailing in marriage, and what happened next gave me a deeper understanding of marriage.
One day, my friend called me: "You know what, your husband has an affair with a female colleague. ”
When I heard the news, my heart sank.
Holding back tears, I asked my husband, "Can you tell me what happened?"
My husband confessed to me, "There was some misunderstanding between me and my colleague, but I will resolve it as soon as possible." ”
I sighed deeply, because I knew that this marriage was not just a sweet and happy appearance, but we needed to bear it together, run in together, and face it together.
"Baby, I know this will make you sad, but I promise I'll take care of it. "My husband comforted me gently.
The bumps in this marriage made me understand that happiness is not all smooth sailing, and marriage needs to be cared for together. After going through this difficult period, I have a deeper understanding and appreciation of this marriage.
We faced these challenges together, and I knew it was a step in the long road to marriage, and I didn't want to give up easily.
"My dear, we will definitely overcome these difficulties, you are my only one, and I will cherish your trust. "My husband made a solemn promise to me.
I believe in my husband's promise and I firmly believe that this marriage will be strengthened by our joint efforts. Happiness now is the result of our collective efforts.
Today's marriage is no longer just sweet and joyful, but also includes growth and strength. We have learned to persevere in love, and we have also learned to tolerate each other in marriage. May we have faith and face every obstacle on the way to marriage together.
After all this, I know that the ups and downs in a marriage are inevitable, but at the same time, they are also the best proof of our growth and resilience. Now the marriage, because of the ups and downs it has experienced, has become more solid and solid.
"My dear, we have come so far, I am willing to be with you all the time, never give up. I whispered to my husband.
"Yes, baby, we will always support each other and face every test of life together. He held my hand tightly, his gaze determined.
After going through a bumpy marriage, I realized that it is a journey that requires us to move forward together, support each other and tolerate each other. Today's happiness is the result of our joint efforts and perseverance. May we continue to move forward together with firm footsteps forever.