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I am an ordinary office worker, my wife takes care of the children at home, and my life is plain and happy. However, a recent incident has left me with a heavy heart. The three sets of demolition houses were all given to the son, and the mother-in-law thought of her son-in-law's 80-square-meter house for the elderly: I don't want to drag down my son.
Not long ago, my son finally found a stable job, and at the same time, he was unexpectedly allocated a demolished house. My wife and I are happy for him and feel that our hard work has not been in vain, and that our years of hard work have not been in vain. However, when I heard that my mother-in-law wanted to retire in her son-in-law's 80-square-meter house, my heart was a little heavy.
"Mom, what do you want? These houses are the result of our son's hard work, and of course they should all belong to him. I tried to persuade my mother-in-law, in a humble and resolute tone.
"I know you're kind to your son, and I know he's a good boy. However, he has only just started his work and has a lot to work on. I don't want to drag him down, so I want you to come here to support the elderly, and I can help by the way. The mother-in-law's tone was firm, it seemed that she had planned this for a long time.
Hearing my mother-in-law's stubborn words, I had mixed feelings in my heart. I understand that my mother-in-law is for our good, but I don't want to take on more responsibilities when I haven't stabilized yet, not to mention my son's own hard work. My wife and I looked at each other and knew each other's thoughts tacitly.
"Mom, don't worry. We're having a good time now, and we'll be better off in the future. "I tried to comfort my mother-in-law while also reminding her not to put too much pressure on us.
However, the mother-in-law still had a firm expression on her face, "Son, I know that you are for my good. But I've decided, and I don't want to do you any wrong. ”
"Son, I understand your thoughts, but I'm ready for it. You and you have worked hard over the years, and I don't want to be a burden to you. The mother-in-law spoke firmly, insisting on her own assertion.
I groaned silently, knowing that my mother-in-law's intentions were kind, but I had deeper worries in my heart. I didn't dare to face my mother-in-law's gaze, but I also knew that I couldn't easily give up on my plans for my family and future. The house is the result of our hard work and has always been a concern in my heart. and my mother-in-law's persistence on this issue put me in a difficult situation.
"Mom, don't worry, these are not in a hurry. We'll figure it out. My wife, who was beside me, took my hand and made a firm voice. I feel a warmth in my heart, knowing that my wife has always been my strong support.
"You are filial to your mother-in-law, I know. But this issue needs to be discussed by the family, and we can't rush it. I tried to find a balanced phrase, "And, Mom, you have a lot to do at your young age, and you don't have to rely on us." ”
The wife's proposal silenced the mother-in-law for a while. She looked at us worriedly, clearly struggling internally. I felt a little tired, and I was overwhelmed by the contradictions and pressures in my heart. I know that there is far from a simple solution to this problem, and we need to face it together as a family and negotiate a solution that works for everyone.
"Mom, I also know your hardship, but our family can't be arbitrary, we need to discuss this issue carefully. "I tried to explain to my mother-in-law in a gentle but firm tone, hoping that she would understand our struggle.
"I understand your difficulties, and I don't want to cause you trouble, but..." The mother-in-law's voice trembled a little, and she could see the anxiety in her heart. Although we talked about real estate, it was more about family responsibilities and emotions.
After some conversation, the mother-in-law finally relented and expressed her willingness to make a decision after careful consideration. My wife and I breathed a sigh of relief and were filled with gratitude. On the way home, we supported each other, understood each other's intentions, and understood the mother-in-law's suffering.
We did not rush to solve this problem, but planned to discuss it carefully after our son got married. After all, what families need is communication and understanding, and we don't want to hurt the peace on this issue. The idea now is to put the issue on hold for a while and wait until the children get married.
This misunderstanding gave me a deeper understanding of the responsibilities and emotions of family. As a family, we need to understand and support each other to face the difficulties and challenges in life together. Although my mother-in-law's proposal made me feel hesitant and stressed, it was also a test of our family responsibilities and future plans. In the days to come, I will cherish and care for our family even more, because this is the center of our life and the destination of our life.
Back at home, my wife was sitting on the couch drinking coffee and I walked over and gently rubbed her shoulder. She raised her head, looked at me and smiled, "This question really needs to be carefully considered, and we can't rush it." Also, let our son be involved in our decisions. Her words were calm and powerful, and I was greatly comforted.
"Well, we can't rush this question, we should give ourselves some time to think and prepare. Actually, I'm also worried that we're taking on too much responsibility right now, and we're a little bit overwhelmed. "I responded to her honestly, and I knew that my wife had always been my strong support.
"Yes, we need more time and space to measure, and we can't make decisions just because of the whims of my mother-in-law. We need to first determine our own life plan and our son's needs. My wife's tone was firm, and I admired her for her rational thinking.
"We'll talk to my son later and hear what he has to say. I am confident that he will understand our struggles and support us in making the right choice. As I said this, my wife took my hand tightly, and her eyes were full of trust and determination.
"Mom and Dad, I understand your difficulties. I know that the future and happiness of the family is at stake, and we cannot make hasty decisions. At the same time, I understand my mother's wishes, she has always been an important part of our family, and I want to take good care of her. My son's voice was firm and mature, and I looked at him with emotion and pride in my heart.
"Thank you, son, for your understanding and support. This is a question that needs to be discussed as a family and the best decision can be made. "I look at my son gratefully and feel that I am no longer alone, that we are a united family.
With my son's understanding and support, we decided to continue to focus on our families and take care of and support each other in the years to come. We will discuss with my mother-in-law and find a solution that satisfies everyone. This is not only a commitment to family responsibility, but also a commitment to family love. We believe that through joint efforts and understanding, we will be able to overcome the difficulties of the future and create a better life together.
In the face of my son's understanding and support, our family's mood has become relaxed and happy. While enjoying the coffee made by my son, I suddenly said, "Actually, the solution to these problems needs to be shared and discussed by our family, rather than leaving one person to bear it alone." ”
"Yes, Mom and Dad, I agree with you. These are things that we need to decide together. The son said seriously.
"My son is right, we have to share the responsibilities of the family and get through the difficulties together. The wife then said.
"I also agree with your idea that our family's problems should be solved by our family, not my mother or mine. I added.
We sat in the living room as a family, talking and laughing. On this topic full of emotion and responsibility, we have reached a final consensus. We decided to renegotiate with our mother-in-law to find a solution that would work best for each family member. This is not only the responsibility and responsibility for the family, but also our adherence to family love and affection.
The next day, we were mentally prepared and had an in-depth communication with my mother-in-law again. We expressed our considerations and reasons to my mother-in-law in an equal and rational manner, and at the same time solicited her opinions and suggestions.
"Mom, we know that you are for our good and hope that we will have a better life. However, we also need time to think about it, these houses are a lot of money for us, and we have worked hard for you and your son. We hope you understand our concerns and concerns. I patiently said to my mother-in-law.
"Yes, Mom, the responsibilities of our family should be shared, and no one person should be left to bear all the responsibilities. We want to be able to work with you to work out solutions that are fair and reasonable for everyone. The wife then said.
"I understand what you're thinking, maybe I was a little impulsive yesterday. Child, you have to think about it, I don't want to cause you trouble, and I don't want to burden you. I am willing to listen to your suggestions and face problems with you. The mother-in-law lowered her head slightly and said what she really felt in her heart.
After some patient communication and communication, we succeeded in finding a solution that was satisfactory to each member of the family. We decided to sell one of the houses and use the proceeds to buy a suitable property for my mother-in-law and to provide her with security for the rest of her life. In this way, we can not only not let the mother-in-law worry about the pension problem, but also give the mother-in-law a happy nest in the future without affecting the struggle of our son.
This experience gave us a deeper understanding of family responsibility and the true meaning of love. Through communication and understanding, our family faced problems together and found the most satisfactory solution for everyone. We have learned to respect and care for every member of the family, and we have strengthened our determination to overcome the difficulties of life together in the future.
Next, we worked together as a family to make a detailed plan. We decided to go to see the house together to find a suitable retirement home for our mother-in-law, and we also organized a family trip to take our mother-in-law with us to make her feel cared for and cared for. When we go out as a family, each of us is full of expectations for a better life in the future, and my mother-in-law is also warm because of our love.
After the old house transaction was completed, we sat down together to discuss the arrangements for my mother-in-law's retirement. I said to my mother-in-law: "Mom, we have sold a house, and we are going to use the money to buy a property suitable for your retirement, and we will work together to find a community with a livable environment and convenient transportation to ensure the convenience and comfort of your retirement life." ”
"Yes, Mom, we just want you to enjoy your old age in peace and be taken care of in every aspect of your life. We will be with you every step of the way. The wife said firmly.
"Children, I feel much more at ease after listening to your arrangement. I am grateful that you have thought out of me and understand your dedication to me and my son. I will also take better care of myself in the future and will not cause you trouble. The mother-in-law said with tears in her eyes, and these affectionate words filled our hearts with emotion and touch.
Together, we discussed our future plans and promised to visit my mother-in-law frequently, care about her life, and accompany her through retirement. In the end, we decided to jointly purchase a comfortable retirement house for my mother-in-law, so that she can spend her old age with more protection and care.
In the communication and discussion of the family around the mother-in-law's pension issue, we not only gained understanding and support for family members, but also strengthened the cohesion and affection of our family. We believe that in the days to come, no matter what difficulties and challenges we encounter, we can face them together and get through them together. Home is a warm harbor and a source of strength for our common struggle.
I deeply feel that this process of overcoming family difficulties not only made us more united, but also got to know each other better, and also made me realize the importance of family. Family responsibility and love mean supporting each other, tolerating each other, understanding each other, and in the process of facing family problems together, we grow together and reflect each other's hearts.
A few days later, we went with my mother-in-law to look for a suitable retirement property. I looked at the exceptionally bright room from the balcony, looking at the mountains and lakes in the distance, and an inexplicable sense of comfort gradually welled up in my heart. I turned to look at my mother-in-law and said, "Mom, the environment here is really livable, and it is very close to the city, so life is very convenient." ”
"Yes, kid, it's a nice place, I like this house, and I feel like it's going to be nice to retire here. The mother-in-law's face was full of satisfaction.
"Mom, we'll renovate the house for you and buy some furniture for you to live in comfortably in retirement. The wife followed suit.
"Kids, you're so dedicated. I feel very happy and satisfied. Let's live a dull and happy life here in the future. "My mother-in-law looked at us with gratitude.
In the days that followed, our family worked together to take care of my mother-in-law's new house. Every time I hang up the newly bought curtains and put out the furniture at home, the faces of the family members are filled with happy smiles. We know that this is only the beginning of our family responsibilities and a kind of guardian of our family love. We firmly believe that every love and care will be rewarded in the future life and nourish the heart of each of us.
After my mother-in-law settled down, the atmosphere at home became more and more warm and harmonious. We visit my mother-in-law every week to hear her tell us about the new and interesting things in the community, and we also drink tea and chat with her. My mother-in-law looks younger and younger, her face is full of smiles, and her happiness and satisfaction are contagious to each of us family members. With the care and care of our family, our family is warmer and more beautiful.
This experience made me deeply aware that family responsibilities and love are an integral part of our lives. We should not only share the responsibilities of the family, but also strengthen the bridge of family affection, so that the love and care between family members are closer. Only by learning to understand, tolerate and care for each other in the process of shared responsibility can our family become better and happier. With a deep understanding of this experience, I am confident that our family will be stronger and happier because of the challenges we have faced together.