The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has now become a topic of conversation, and in my heart I always thought that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are really so difficult to get along with, I always felt that mother-in-law is not as terrible as the legend, until she came to live in my house, I really understood what a nightmare is!
Before my father-in-law died, they had been living in a village in the countryside, and then my father-in-law died, in order not to let my mother-in-law be lonely, my husband and I decided to take my mother-in-law from the countryside to live, after living for a while, I really couldn't bear it, and now I want to "sweep her out" with one mind.
This story is fictional, and if there are similarities, it is purely coincidental!
My husband and I have been married for six years, and we have a lovely son after marriage, for which we feel very happy, we go back to our hometown to visit our parents every Chinese New Year, and every time I come to my in-laws' house, I will be very disgusted.
My in-laws' home is very dilapidated, and the electrical appliances at home have been used for a long time, and every time I stay at my in-laws' house, I will smell a very strong smell of mold.
But then I found out that the musty smell at home has nothing to do with electrical appliances, it is completely made by my mother-in-law, after the New Year, my father-in-law died of a heart attack, and the death was so sad, which made our family grief, especially my mother-in-law, she couldn't accept the departure of her wife for a while.
I discussed with my husband that we might take my mother-in-law to live at home, so that she could leave this sad place and maybe get out of her grief as soon as possible, and then we told my mother-in-law about this idea, and my mother-in-law agreed without saying anything.
In this way, my mother-in-law lived in our house, and at first we lived fairly well with my mother-in-law, but as time went by, some of my mother's bad habits began to make me particularly disgusted, and gradually I found out that my mother was so unhygienic.
My mother doesn't like to take a bath or wash her hair, and she doesn't want to change her clothes after wearing them for a long time, and every time I smell the smell of my mother-in-law, I feel like I'm going to be smoked to death.
This incident bothered me for a long time, but as a daughter-in-law, I was not good at advising my mother, so I thought about asking my husband to talk about my mother and let her change clothes and bathe frequently.
Until this day, when her husband was cooking, her mother-in-law came to him and wanted to help, but because she hadn't bathed for a long time, there was a peculiar smell on her body, and her husband also smelled that smell, so he immediately covered his nose, and then asked his mother to hurry up and take a bath.
This is the first time my mother-in-law came to our house to take a bath, you can imagine how big the taste is, but this is not the most annoying, in addition to not liking to take a bath, my mother-in-law also likes to point fingers, every day saying that my cooking is not delicious, not at all to her taste.
Every time my mother-in-law talks about me, I will try my best to satisfy her taste, but I have never been affirmed by my mother-in-law, I have always adhered to the principle of not contradicting my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law has always been difficult for me, I have never been angry with her.
Until this day, my mother-in-law still didn't think the cooking was delicious, she threw the rice on the ground in a fit of anger, pointed to my nose and said how unpalatable this dish is, no matter how good my temper is, I can't bear it, I quarreled with my mother-in-law, this is also the first time I quarreled with my mother-in-law.
After I said that I would not cook this meal, whoever likes to do it, after my husband learned about it, he acted as a peacemaker in the middle, hoping that my mother-in-law and I could reconcile as before, and then my mother-in-law said that in the future, the meals at home will be made by yourself, and you two will leave it alone.
I was very happy to hear this, after all, I was also very busy at work, not only had to pick up my children from school but also had to go home to cook, so I was much more relaxed, but what I didn't expect was that my mother-in-law's cooking was simply unpalatable.
Maybe it's the reason why my mother-in-law is more picky, she rarely puts salt in cooking, and only puts a little salt when she wants to do it, which makes it difficult for my husband and me to eat, we told my mother-in-law to put more salt in cooking in the future, but my mother-in-law obviously didn't listen to it at all.
In addition to cooking, my mother-in-law also gave me a headache in cleaning up the housework, she cleaned very unclean every time, clothes and underwear were washed together, and they couldn't be washed, I said hire a cleaner to clean up at home, so that I don't have to clean up with my mother-in-law.
When my mother-in-law heard me say this, she immediately retorted, she said that the nanny costs a lot of money, so it is better to do it herself, so that she can save money, but what my mother-in-law doesn't know is that she really might as well not clean after cleaning.
Seeing that the weather is gradually getting cooler, I thought that I should pay the heating bill as soon as possible, so that the heating at home can be heated in time, and my mother immediately refused after hearing this, thinking that it would be good to wear thicker if it was cold, why should I pay the heating fee.
I said I wanted to pay, but my mother refused to let me pay, so she also said that I can't bear this hardship, I said this is not only for me, but also for you and the child, the winter is too cold for fear that the body will be frozen.
But the mother still insisted on her opinion, she said that she was in good health, she would not get sick at all, and the child's body was less likely to get sick, so don't worry, the heating bill is not paid.
The end result was that the family was freezing in an unheated house, and although we were dressed very thickly, we still couldn't bear the winter in the north, and my son had a fever and stayed in the hospital for a long time.
My son's body temperature once burned to 39 degrees, so I had a big fight with my mother-in-law, if I had paid the heating bill, maybe my son would not have been sick and hospitalized, and now, no matter what my mother-in-law did, I was upset, she almost became a thorn in my flesh, I told my husband that next spring, no matter what, I will send her back to my hometown, such days, I have had enough!