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At the beginning of the new year, tragedy still happened.
In the early morning of January 4, a girl named Kikifer unfortunately passed away.
Her parents posted an obituary on their daughter's video account, and the 27-year-old girl was buried forever in Yangzhou, her favorite place before her death.
Fans said goodbye in tears, and the funeral scene was also full of flowers.
Everyone was very reluctant to let her go, after all, this girl's story has been touching and inspiring countless people for so many years.
Qiqifu's original name was Qi Shumei, a 96-year-old girl from the Northeast.
She is a girl who loves travel and life very much, so although she did not major in tourism in college, she still insisted on taking the tour guide certificate and successfully worked in a travel agency after graduation.
Because of her serious work and satisfied tourists, she won the title of "Gold Medal Tour Guide" not long after her work.
However, just when she was looking forward to the future, fate played a big joke on her.
Kikifer accidentally noticed that many small blood spots appeared on her body.
At first, she thought it was just a minor problem. But after an examination at the hospital, I learned that I had been diagnosed with acute lymphoid leukemia type T.
At that moment, her world was plunged into darkness.
The process of treatment was not easy, and soon Kikifer's once dark and shiny hair was lost due to chemotherapy, and her weight was also plummeted.
She has undergone two bone marrow transplants, but none of them have achieved the desired results, and her body has experienced various rejection reactions.
She was initially confined to a wheelchair to travel, developed a lung infection, and lost sight in her left eye.
And because of the hormones taken during the treatment, Kikifer's face has also changed a lot.
The hardships experienced in the past few years are really too heavy for such a little girl.
But no one could have imagined that.
Even though she is dealing with pain every day, Kikifer is not only optimistic, but also encourages many people she doesn't know in a different way.
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During her treatment, Kikifer opened a short video account to share her daily fight against cancer.
As a result, many people began to know Kikifer and were touched by her optimism and bravery.
At the beginning of the video, Kikifer always greets her warmly and cheerfully with "Hey, brother dei".
Obviously, the person who underwent the operation was herself, but she rarely complained and always looked forward to tomorrow.
From time to time, she will use herself as an example to encourage others and convey the warmth and beauty she sees.
Of course, she will also have times when she is depressed, but whenever she is emotionally lost, Kikifer will immediately cheer herself up: "I'm not a waste, I'm a beautiful girl who overcame the disease!"
Watching her bravely fight against the disease little by little, many fans and viewers also gained energy from it.
She once said that although it has not been easy over the years, she really doesn't feel miserable.
In the eyes of others, she has been surrounded by misfortune.
But Kikifer was not blinded by suffering, but saw and clung to the happiness around her.
The father who always did not hesitate to stand up and donate bone marrow to her, the mother who sold her property without complaint and saved her even if she was in debt.
and the good friend Suff, who has been reluctant to leave since junior high school.
She would take Kikifu's dream of travel and take the train to Lhasa alone to pray for Kikifu's blessings.
She will also open a live broadcast to sell goods and earn money to treat Qiqifu.
Sometimes because he was questioned about selling badly and reported, Schulf would cry alone for a long time. But after crying, she always wipes away her tears and continues to start live broadcasts for her good friends.
Their love and dedication, Kikifer saw it in her eyes and wrote it in the book.
It is also because of them that Kikifu can have the confidence to fight against the disease all the time.
It's a pity that the heavens don't fulfill people's wishes.
Kikifer went anyway.
Finally, the family wrote on her video account:
"Hey, brother dei, my favorite, my Kiki went to breathe freely"
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After the news of Kikifer's death spread, many people were still uncontrollably sad although they didn't know her.
Some people are also puzzled, why is life always so much suffering, why does fate make it difficult for such a good girl who tries her best to live?
This is a question that I don't want to talk about, but even the gentleman himself sometimes thinks about it.
And every time at this time, Mr. will remember what the writer Yu Hua said.
He once said: "I know how difficult it is to live well, and I want to wish everyone all the best, but this cannot be done." ”
"In any negative thing, there will be a hidden positive content, to find those positive things, to yourself, is to live well. ”
Yes, life is made up of countless sufferings and countless happiness, and no one knows what will happen in the future, and it is difficult to avoid it.
But what is certain is that even the most painful moments, as long as we look for them with our hearts, we can still find the positive and beautiful side.
Isn't that what Kikifer herself did?
She was not defeated by the disease, but took the initiative to enjoy her life in such a difficult moment, even if she was pushed by her family to bask in the sun, she could feel beautiful and satisfied.
Seen such a video.
A girl may have experienced something bad, so she wrote in the video copy: "I won't come in the next life".
But what she didn't expect was that the comment area was soon full of content that comforted her.
Someone posted a photo of herself standing guard on the top of a snowy mountain in the wind and snow, telling her not to give up.
A friend who has had his left hand amputated said gently that he was playing hide and seek with me, and I hope I can find it in the next life.
Another boy shared that he was in a car accident at the age of 25 and was in a wheelchair for 2 years and 10 months. Now I'm a para athlete!
There are also many people who are seriously ill and lying in hospital beds, and they are also optimistically encouraging this girl.
See, a lot of times, the life you're complaining about now may be exactly what many people can't ask for.
And all the suffering that we are experiencing is likely to be preceded by the word "more".
Cherish what you have and never give up hope, then life will slowly become sweet and become what you like.
At the end of the article, Mr. would like to send you a passage written by Shi Tiesheng:
"When I was able-bodied, I often complained about the bad surroundings;
After being paralyzed, I miss the days when I could walk and run;
A few years later, I developed bedsores, and I missed the first two years of sitting comfortably in a wheelchair;
Later, I got uremia and began to miss the time when I had bedsores;
After a few more years, I had to go on dialysis and had very little time to be awake, and I began to miss the time when I first got uremia.
Life doesn't matter whether it's fortunate or unfortunate, it's just a comparison of two different circumstances. ”
I hope everyone understands that cherishing the present is the best.