Preamble:
He Jiajin, who was born in 1952, his parents are very loving and inseparable all day long.
The family lives a small and fortunate life, and the brothers and sisters have a deep relationship.
Every festive season, the family always has to get together happily, laugh and laugh.
However, to his disbelief, when he was 10 years old, He Jiajin witnessed his parents break up and divorce, and his warm home was shattered in an instant.
This caused huge psychological trauma to He Jiajin, and also made him lose the warmth and sense of belonging of home.
Since then, my mother has carried the family on her shoulders.
She worked hard outside during the day, physically and mentally exhausted to earn money to support her family; In the evening, I take care of the housework, busy and hard.
He Jiajin felt sorry for his mother, and he also blamed himself for his powerlessness.
He secretly vowed that he must study hard, enter a prestigious school with excellent grades, achieve results as soon as possible, find a good job in society, let his mother live a happy life, and compensate her for all these years of hard work.
The struggle of the young He Jiajin who grew up in adversity
Stimulated by the divorce of his parents, He Jiajin is much more mature than his peers.
He began to study hard and strive to improve himself.
At first, He Jiajin was not good at expressing himself, and he was not very good at communicating with others, and his grades were average.
But with his perseverance, he persevered in his studies and finally made progress gradually.
The mother was pleased to see her son improve day by day, and specially prepared snacks that he liked to eat to encourage him.
Under the careful care and expectation of his mother, He Jiajin worked harder and harder in his Xi, and his final results were among the best.
In the year he graduated from middle school, He Jiajin won a valuable scholarship to study abroad with excellent grades.
I could have used this rare opportunity to see the world, learn advanced knowledge, and lay a solid foundation for Xi the future.
But when he thought of the poor economic environment at home and the heavy pressure of life on his mother alone, a strong contradiction arose in He Jiajin's heart - to stay and be filial to his mother and accompany him; Or go to a foreign country to study and surpass yourself, and finally achieve success to repay your mother's nurturing grace?
After careful consideration, He Jiajin decided to give up the precious opportunity to study abroad and work hard in the society to make money first.
He believes that he has grown up and it is time to share the burden of his mother.
The outside world is vast, and he believes that as long as he works hard, he can one day live a good life and let his mother live a happy life.
The mother was very pleased with her son's decision.
She repeatedly encouraged He Jiajin to seize the opportunity to study abroad, which was very helpful to expand his horizons and increase his knowledge.
After hearing this, He Jiajin strengthened his determination to study abroad.
He wanted to fulfill this wish for his mother.
Wandering in a foreign land, He Jiajin's struggle to study in the UK
For the sake of his studies and livelihood, He Jiajin's days of studying in the UK were not easy.
He worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant, as a courier outside the campus, and as a part-time worker in a supermarket and bookstore.
At first, with limited English and unfamiliarity with local life, Ho often felt out of place.
But he was never discouraged, just immersed himself in Xi and tried to integrate into the new environment.
In his spare time, he also participates in social activities and makes friends from all over the world.
These experiences not only enriched his horizons, but also honed his perseverance.
The divorce of his parents and the changes in his family made him realize the hardships of life earlier than his peers.
But He Jiajin never bowed to fate, just buried himself in Xi and insisted on his dreams.
He was always alert to his mother's expectations.
Whenever he thinks of his mother facing all kinds of difficulties at home alone, He Jiajin will once again ignite his determination to struggle.
He wants to repay his mother's nurturing love over the years through his unremitting efforts.
Four years of living abroad passed quickly, and He Jiajin finally successfully obtained a bachelor's degree in tourism management.
This is not only the result of his personal struggle, but also the fulfillment of his mother's promise.
The wealth and knowledge accumulated in a foreign country will enable him to go further and steadily in his future life.
When he got his graduation certificate, He Jiajin called his mother excitedly and shared his joy and success with her.
The young man throbbed and Li Wanhua were unmarried
He Jiajin, who returned from studying in the UK, quickly found a high-paying job with his excellent foreign language foundation and international vision.
Although his career is smooth sailing, in terms of relationships, he has not been able to find a confidant.
The mother is also anxious for her son to find a partner and start a family.
At this time, He Jiajin and Li Wanhua, who was also from the entertainment industry, met.
Li Wanhua has a wealthy family since she was a child, has a worry-free life, and has a gentle and considerate personality.
He Jiajin was deeply attracted to her, and the two quickly established a relationship.
He Jiajin has a resolute personality and integrity, and Li Wanhua also appreciates these advantages of him.
There is a deep emotional foundation between the two.
Li Wanhua's meticulous care made him feel very warm, which was exactly the support and comfort he needed most after years of struggling alone.
In 1989, He Jiajin finally mustered up the courage to propose to Li Wanhua.
When the two faced separation, He Jiajin became more aware of how much he needed her.
Li Wanhua happily accepted the marriage proposal, and the two happily entered the palace of marriage.
For He Jiajin, this is the first sincere love in his life's journey.
The married life is warm and happy, but deep in He Jiajin's heart, that agreement has never been forgotten.
Some people may not be able to understand this persistence, but for He Jiajin, this waiting and waiting has been integrated into his soul.
He is convinced that as long as he works hard enough, there will be a day when he will achieve it.
The peak of his career is sealed for standing up
In 1996, it is said that because of helping his friend Jin Chaoqun, He Jiajin was jointly banned by major TV stations and fell into a trough for a while.
In fact, He Jiajin has never complained about his career.
He always believed that justice and morality were above all fame and fortune.
Some people may say that he is young and frivolous, but this friendship is the cornerstone of his success.
Three years later, his friend Jin Chaoqun set up his own studio.
He Jiajin did not hesitate to join, and the two went hand in hand again.
Here, He Jiajin can not only play freely, but also fight side by side with old friends.
Many artists in Jin Chaoqun's studio are deeply influenced by He Jiajin and regard him as a mentor.
He Jiajin cares about them very much, and passes on his years of acting experience without reservation.
Even if he no longer appears in filming, He Jiajin's life is also colorful.
He runs several businesses and is also enthusiastic about public welfare, holding charity evenings from time to time.
For him, helping others is far more important than his own fame and fortune.
Perhaps this stems from the trauma of his youth, so he is especially sympathetic to the poor and suffering.
The past is re-engraved and the old are waiting for infatuation
After hearing that Jin Sumei was diagnosed with liver cancer, He Jiajin rushed to the hospital as soon as possible.
Seeing her emaciated and pale on the hospital bed, the He family's strength was like a knife.
He was by her side and took care of all her daily life.
And a miracle happened, Jin Sumei slowly recovered under He Jiajin's care, and defeated the terminal illness.
After being discharged from the hospital, Jin Sumei was full of gratitude to He Jiajin.
She said that without his company, she would have been unable to continue to persevere.
He Jiajin listened stunned, tears streaming out of his eyes.
He said it was what he was supposed to do, and he had waited too long...... Kim So-mei knew that for 32 years, this man had been waiting in place, and now she could finally reunite with him after a long absence.
At the moment when their lives were in danger, Jin Sumei and He Jiajin agreed that if they both lived to be 60 years old and were still single, they would spend the rest of their lives together.
Although the marriage proposal failed again, He Jiajin was still extremely happy.
He believes that as long as he keeps his promise, there will always be a successful day.
In the past 32 years, he has been waiting and waiting, and the years and time have not left too deep a mark on him, because what is more affectionate than his years is his longing for his old lover.
He Jiajin uses his life to interpret what infatuation is.
It may be difficult for ordinary people to understand this attachment, but in our fickle world, such sincere and passionate emotions are rare.
The story of him and Kim So-mei is like a long song that touches the heartstrings, singing the truth that time cannot erase.
Epilogue:
The years are flying, and we are all struggling.
Life is like an encounter, and each of us is looking for the other half of our souls.
He Jiajin used his 32 years of waiting to prove to the world that sincerity and sincerity cannot be destroyed by time, and true love can transcend life and death.
No matter how much time has passed, he still cherishes the sincerity and dreams of his youth.
Maybe one day, on a sunny afternoon, the old lover will gently walk up to him.
At that time, he will surely shed sweet tears.