After graduating, they are faced with the choice of working or starting a family. As I grow up, I always have more and more troubles.
After having children, parents can't help with children for various reasons, and nannies have a lot of risks, and there are too many safety problems in full care, so you can only get started by yourself. And at home for long periods of time, individuals have no financial resources, no sense of social need and satisfaction.
Staying at home full-time can sometimes face incomprehension and resentment from family members, and it is even more difficult to add to this the irresponsibility of your husband and the loss of yourself.
Therefore, women should still rely on themselves, and they can't count on anyone.
How do highly educated mothers convince themselves to take care of their babies at home full-time?
Let's take a look at what netizens have to say!
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感叹居然这么多全职妈妈，敬重你们，我没那个勇气，我怕专门带孩子，如果以后孩子不优秀，被责备。 I am also afraid that I will not have an income, and I will not be hard to spend my own money, so I must not only earn money, but also try to earn as much as possible.
我也是全职妈妈，其实带孩子真比上班累多了，但是孩子前三年是最需要妈妈陪伴，建立安全感的阶段，这关乎孩子的一生，所以再辛苦都要把这三年带好。
我，09年本科毕业，11年查出怀了老大之后就在家了，灵活就业交到现在。
产假六个月，在家带娃感觉整个人状态都越来越差，变迟钝变社恐变邋遢，恢复工作以后才慢慢找回以前的状态。 I don't think my children would like to be like mothers who don't work like this when they grow up.
我本科，全职带娃。 Alas, no one will take care of the child as meticulously as a mother, and as a full-time mother, I feel sorry for my hard work.
本科，月薪2w被迫在家带娃。
为啥我也是带娃感觉没有成就感没有价值感呢。
Undergraduate, with a baby for 4 years. Now it's all derailed from society. The translation was all forgotten.
俄罗斯留学6年、在家全职带娃两年、心里的落差、不安和愧疚没人可以懂。
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