On a cold winter day in 1999, in a busy city in Xinjiang, Wang Jiahui fell to the ground amid the anticipation and excitement of his parents, and his arrival brought endless joy and happiness to the family.
However, fate always seems to like to play tricks on people, and Wong Ka-fai's life path is not as glorious as his name, but full of all kinds of difficulties and pains.
Wang Jiahui has shown a distinctive personality since he was a child, and his words and deeds show a unique temperament.
Wang Jiahui's parents were very curious about this, because in their eyes, their son should be a very normal boy. However, as time went on, Wong's preferences began to become more and more unique, he began to like to wear pink clothes, liked to play with girls' toys, and even began to try to dress up as a girl.
At first, the parents thought it was just a harmless game between their children, but as Wang Jiahui grew up, this preference did not change, and the parents began to feel worried, and they began to try to get Wang Jiahui to change his preferences, but no matter what measures they took, they could not change Wang's behavior, and the parents began to realize the seriousness of the matter, and they began to look for experts to help them solve the problem.
Although parents and teachers have tried various methods, including psychological treatment and guidance, and even professional therapists for guidance, they have not been able to change the inner world of Wang Jiahui, although his parents have worked hard to improve his living environment, but Wang Jiahui's inner world seems to be different from other boys.
In the midst of the indulgence of his family and the ridicule of his classmates, Wong Jiahui's psychology gradually distorted, which made him become more and more reticent, introverted, and difficult to interact with people. These problems seriously affected his Xi and life, making him feel very depressed and helpless.
Growing up, Wong always behaved differently from the boys around him, preferring to be alone and just wanting to play with girls. He began to doubt his gender, and gradually, his perception of his own gender became skewed, and he firmly believed that he was a girl, and he thought that God had only given him the wrong body. Neither his parents nor his friends could understand his thoughts, but he had always been adamant that he was a girl.
Since Wang Jiahui realized that he had misunderstood his gender, this gender perception disorder has caused him great trouble. He often felt left out and isolated by the people around him, which made him feel very miserable and alone. Whenever he remembered his distinctive gender identity, he would hide under the covers in the middle of the night and cry, asking himself why he was the way he was.
He began to wonder if his existence was meaningful, whether he should exist in this world.
Wang Jiahui, the name is as gentle as a woman, but he was born in the body of a boy, and he was given the gender of a man, which he could not accept, which filled his heart with contradictions and struggles. Deep in his heart, he has a cute self like a little girl, he likes to wear beautiful dresses, likes to fantasize like a little girl, and likes to dream of a gentle prince like a little girl.
He felt that if he was a little girl, his life would be so good, he could do what he liked freely, no one would feel strange However, he was born in the body of a boy, which made his life very painful, he felt like an outlier, he didn't know how to face his gender This psychological gap made Wang Jiahui's pain worse and worse, and it also indicated that his future life path would be extremely bumpy, and he would face many challenges and difficulties.
Time flies, time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Wang Jiahui has grown up, however, the problem of his gender identity still bothers him. In 2014, a new form of online entertainment - short video sprung up, Wang Jiahui quickly perceived the huge business opportunities behind this emerging industry with his keen business vision, and did not hesitate to devote himself to it, hoping to realize his dream of making a fortune with the help of this emerging industry.
By uploading a video of himself dressed up and dancing, he caused huge repercussions and heated discussions on the Internet, and became a phenomenal figure who became popular on the Internet overnight.
At first, Wang Jiahui simply thought that this was a new way to the development of the entertainment industry, and he didn't think too much, but as he deepened day after day in the online world, he gradually found that this online world full of infinite possibilities actually gave him a stage where he could release himself to his heart's content, and this stage was no longer restricted and restricted by traditional media, allowing him to show his talent and personality as he wanted.
Wong Ka-fai's image of women's clothing on the Internet has attracted a large number of fans, and they love his image and wonderful dancing posture very much. At the same time, Wang Jiahui is also constantly improving his dancing skills and has become a high-profile online dancer. After a period of hard work and accumulation, he gradually found his life direction and value, and believed that he could bring more positive energy to the society through his efforts and talents.
However, the good times did not last long, and some netizens successfully identified Wang Jiahui's true identity by constantly collecting and digging out Wang Jiahui's information. At the beginning, Wang Jiahui was very worried that he would lose popularity because his real identity was made public, after all, in the virtual environment of the Internet, once his identity is exposed, it is easy to lose the trust and support of netizens.
However, to Wang Jiahui's surprise, when his true identity was discovered by some netizens, although some netizens left him because they couldn't accept the image he had created before, more netizens supported and loved him even more, they believed that no matter whether Wang Jiahui's identity was true or false, his strength and talent were undeniable, and his performance in the show was also recognized by the audience, which is enough to show his success.
They don't care if Wong Ka-fai is male or female, as long as he can bring wonderful women's dance to the audience on stage, it is the best. This encouraged Wong Ka Fai and further strengthened his determination to be completely transgender, believing that he could get more opportunities on this stage and fight for his dreams and pursuits.
In order to get on a bigger stage, Wang Jiahui decided to sign up for a competition show. He believed deeply in his own quality and decided to show himself in this opportunity. In the show, he competed as a woman, showing his talent and charm to the audience. However, when he stood on stage again, he found himself ruthlessly eliminated because of his gender, and he was disappointed and frustrated.
He recognizes that gender is not the only criterion by which a person is evaluated, and that he should be brave enough to pursue his dreams and stick to his beliefs no matter what the outcome is.
This defeat undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to Wong Ka-fai, and he began to reflect more deeply on his gender identity, and thoroughly realized that if he wanted to realize his dream of being transgender, he had to act bravely and actively face all kinds of difficulties and challenges that he might encounter.
After much deliberation, Wang Jiahui finally mustered up the courage and decided to open up his thoughts about going to Thailand to his fans and family to be transgender. Although it was a very big decision, Wong Ka Fai firmly believes that he is fully prepared and his determination is very strong. He was very nervous when he confessed his thoughts to everyone, but he still expressed his opinion confidently and honestly explained his motives and reasons to everyone.
His fans and family were shocked at his decision at first, but with his honest statements and positive explanations, they gradually began to understand his thoughts and gave him unwavering support and encouragement, knowing that there may be many difficulties and challenges on this road, but he is ready and believes that he can overcome all difficulties and achieve his dreams.
Wong Ka Fai decided to have sex reassignment surgery, so with the support of his parents, he began to actively prepare, looking up relevant information and cases on the Internet to understand the process, risks and post-operative care of sex reassignment surgery. He knows that this will be a very difficult process, but he firmly believes that it will open a new chapter in his life and make him a more complete person.
After a long struggle and determination, Wong Ka Fai finally achieved his dream of becoming a woman in March 2021. She announced the good news on social media, and she excitedly shared her feelings and said that she was finally a girl.
Despite the numerous pains and struggles she endured in the process of achieving her dream, it was all worth it because she finally got the identity she dreamed of.
However, the recovery process after the surgery was extremely difficult, which caught Wang Jiahui off guard. Life after the operation was not as good as he imagined, and he was caught off guard by various complex physical and mental encounters.
Her lower body bleeds incessantly every day, which has a serious impact on her quality of life, which is the most serious problem.
At first, Wong was afraid to make the issue public, and she was afraid of being criticized by others. She endured this nightmarish pain alone, and her whole body became depressed and hopeless.
Every time he saw the puddle of blood-red liquid in the toilet, Wang Jiahui couldn't help but cry bitterly. She began to question whether she had made the right decision to be transgender in the first place.
Wang Jiahui wanted to go to the hospital for help, but he was worried about the doctor's vision and misunderstanding. The concern of netizens eased her loneliness a little, but Wang Jiahui still did not dare to take action.
In the end, with the support and encouragement of fans, Wang Jiahui mustered up the courage to go to the hospital, but the result was a big disappointment for her. In China, doctors do not have a treatment for the sequelae of sex reassignment.
Wong Ka Fai has reached a dead end, she has fallen into unprecedented despair, and the only way out at the moment may be to return to Thailand for help, but Wong Ka Fai is already on the verge of collapse.
At this time, she needs more than just healing, but also love and support from the people around her. To get through this difficult time, it was important to help her rebuild her self-confidence and hope.
Wong's post-transgender plight has sparked reflection on the pain of transgender people. For a long time, societal prejudice and discrimination against transgender people have put those who choose to be transgender under heavy mental stress.
We need to give basic understanding and respect to the transgender community.
Wong Ka-fai chose to be brave enough to be transgender, but the difficulties she faces in the rest of her life show that the social environment in which she lives is far from being ready to accept transgender people. Whether it is the lack of medical resources or the misunderstanding of the public, people like Wang Jiahui have borne too much pain that they should not bear.
We advocate that society should pay attention to the plight faced by transgender groups, and let them be treated as they deserve by changing social attitudes and strengthening legislation.
For example, public interest campaigns can be launched to help people dispel stereotypes about transgender people, and health care policy reforms can be promoted to make transgender people have access to basic health care.
Only by building an inclusive and understanding social environment can transgender people be treated equally and find their true belonging. They are not outliers, but they are looking for a true place in their hearts.
The suffering of every life deserves to be understood, and we deserve warmth, encouragement and support, not ignorance and abandonment.
Let's work together to create a more welcoming and equal social environment for the transgender community. Perhaps a small step today will ease their pain tomorrow.
We aspire to achieve an ideal world free of gender discrimination, where everyone is free to be themselves and live their authentic selves.
Wong Ka-fai's experience is deeply embarrassing, and the dilemma and pain experienced by a transgender person in the process of finding self-identity make people have to think deeply. However, we should choose to be understanding and tolerant, rather than being critical of their heterogeneous personalities.
Because the existence of every life has its own special meaning.
Wong Ka Fai is a representative of the transgender community who want to be released physically and mentally, but the realities of hardship make their lives difficult.
We need to use blur education to dismantle prejudice against transgender people and make it possible for the general public to understand that transgender people also need love and respect.
In the future, advances in medical technology will bring more options to transgender people. We look forward to safer and more accessible transgender technologies to alleviate the pain they endure in the process of transitioning to a gender.
This group should be given hope that if they persevere, they will surely usher in the light.
When we look at our hearts, we will find that the difference in appearance does not constitute a definition of a life. Misunderstandings often come from ignorance, while true tolerance requires understanding and reflection.
Let us embrace every soul in this world with a more inclusive mindset, and only the connection between people is the most precious treasure in this world.
Wong Ka-fai's story reminds us that love and courage are more important than anything else in a time when life's path is full of unknowns. Whenever we are in a difficult situation, keep hope because one day the dawn will come.
Let's try to understand the meaning of life and cherish every piece of perseverance in this world.