Preamble:
The love story of Song Zuying and Luo Hao has become a model of good stories in today's entertainment industry.
In the face of Song Zuying's harsh three pre-marital conditions, Luo Hao agreed to all of them noncommittally and spent more than 30 years with her.
Today, 57-year-old Song Zuying has a happy family and a successful career, which makes people wonder: Is their marriage really so perfect?
初遇时，三纸婚约定终身不渝
In 1992, 36-year-old Song Zuying was already a well-known folk song diva, and her career was booming.
This year, she met the man Luo Hao.
Luo Hao has always been low-key and introverted, which is very different from the arrogant and flamboyant Song Zuying.
However, he was deeply attracted by Song Zuying's independence and tenacity, and took the initiative to approach her.
At first, Song Zuying sneered at Luo Hao, who pursued him, with a wary and contemptuous attitude.
She has long been Xi to devoting all her energy to her career, and has no time to care about the so-called feminine mood and peach blossom luck.
But Luo Hao didn't give up, he went out early and returned late every day, just to find an opportunity to talk to Song Zuying.
Gradually, Song Zuying was moved by Luo Hao's gentleness and sincerity, and the two went from strangeness to familiarity, and finally fell in love.
When Luo Hao officially proposed to Song Zuying, Song Zuying knew that the two had essential differences.
She has a warm temperament, while Luo Hao is gentle and elegant; She has a strong sense of dedication, but Luo Hao can easily unload the burden on her body.
After thinking about it, Song Zuying finally put forward three conditions: no children, no giving up career, and no divorce.
She made it clear that her identity as a popular singer is destined to run around and socialize a lot, and her life will not be too regular; And having children means dividing energy, and she can't do both.
"Can you really accept such a life?" Song Zuying asked Luo Hao rhetorically.
To her surprise, Luo Hao nodded without hesitation.
He said that he was well aware of Song Zuying's ambitions, and since he was attracted by her brilliance at the beginning, how could he want to change her true colors now? Song Zuying was very moved after hearing this, and the two made a meticulous three-paper marriage contract and embarked on a journey to spend their lives together.
A bumpy teenager sharpens his independent character
When Song Zuying was 12 years old, her father and grandmother passed away one after another, and this blow had a profound impact on her.
The family suddenly lost its economic support, and Song Zuying realized the impermanence of fate.
As the eldest daughter in the family, Song Zuying had to mature early and took on the responsibility of taking care of several younger siblings.
Her mother picks cotton in the countryside during the day to make ends meet, and Song Zuying cooks dinner and washes clothes after school, and sometimes her mother can only return home late at night.
In order to reduce the burden on her mother, she joined the county opera troupe at the age of 16 and began her acting career.
When he first joined the troupe, Song Zuying was often scolded by the director and senior actors because of his poor acting skills.
But she has a stubborn personality and does not want to be excluded and bullied.
Song Zuying began to study basic theoretical knowledge on her own, repeatedly pondered classic operas, and trained her physical fitness diligently.
Finally, she won a supporting role in a Republic of China drama and appeared on the stage for the first time.
Since then, Song Zuying has gradually become the mainstay of the troupe, mainly as a soloist.
Despite the difficult start of her stage career, Song Zuying's aggressive, self-reliant character has also been cultivated.
This accumulated valuable experience for her later decision-making in the entertainment industry.
At the peak of her career, the queen of the Spring Festival Gala shines
At the age of 26, Song Zuying was invited to participate in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, which is undoubtedly an opportunity that every artist dreams of.
She chose her best folk song "Fifteenth Moon".
The stage design of this show is very Chinese-style, with Song Zuying's beautiful national costumes and moving singing voice, which made the audience fall in love with it.
When Song Zuying held a traditional mask and a long drum, interspersed with singing and dancing performances, the audience burst into thunderous applause.
After the performance, Song Zuying's eyes were red with excitement.
The song "Fifteenth Moon" not only won her applause from the audience, but also achieved the reputation of "Folk Song Queen".
Since then, Song Zuying has stepped into the peak of her career and popularity, and has become a well-known star.
She has continued to hold solo concerts and participate in film dubbing, and has become a leader in the industry.
Just when her career was in full swing, Song Zuying met her lifelong lover Luo Hao.
White hair and eyebrows, tie the knot
In 1992, 36-year-old Song Zuying finally ended her long single life and married Luo Hao.
Before marriage, she was worried that Luo Hao would be jealous of her career and achievements, and then destroy the relationship between the two.
But after really entering the marriage hall, Luo Hao completely subverted Song Zuying's imagination.
He was not only considerate of Song Zuying's work, but also provided spiritual comfort to her when she was exhausted.
Whenever Song Zuying returned exhausted, Luo Hao would always prepare hot tea and exquisite dinner.
Listening to the words that the couple missed, and feeling the warmth of physical and mental comfort, Song Zuying finally let go of the uneasiness in his heart.
Every day after marriage, Luo Hao is telling Song Zuying with practical actions - you deserve to be loved by the world.
One day 8 years later, 39-year-old Song Zuying excitedly told Luo Hao that she was pregnant.
She was afraid that Luo Hao would be unhappy, after all, the two had made an agreement not to have children.
Unexpectedly, Luo Hao excitedly picked up Song Zuying and spun around, his eyes full of love for the new life.
He said that this is the crystallization of the love of the two and will definitely become their common treasure.
After pregnancy, Song Zuying's mood changed a lot, and sometimes she would be unreasonable, but Luo Hao was always tolerant and fulfilling.
In this way, at the age of 39, Song Zuying finally became a mother as she wished.
Now, Song Zuying and Luo Hao have white hair and eyebrows, even if the years have passed, their eyes are full of sweetness and tenderness.
When you are old, you should be strong, and do good deeds with your heart
57-year-old Song Zuying not only has a happy family, but also a new height in her career.
She continues to be active on the stage and frequently appears in various variety shows; She is also constantly breaking through in the field of music creation.
Song Zuying still retains the innocence of a girl and loves music.
She often sits for hours at a time, editing and revising her new songs.
Sometimes inspiration runs out, and Song Zuying will find friends to hold an improvisation meeting.
Cutting-edge lyricists and arrangers gathered, and they hummed improvised songs to themselves in the bright sunlight outside the window.
Luo Hao sometimes participates and shows his talent to everyone.
Song Zuying looked at the silhouette of his wife concentrating on writing words, and her eyes were full of love and sweetness.
At the same time, Song Zuying actively participated in public welfare and established the Song Zuying Education Foundation to help children in poor areas complete their studies.
Song Zuying often said that she was helped by the society when she was a child, and now she wants to give back to the society, so that more children will no longer face the difficulties of the past.
Every summer, she personally returns to her hometown to bring stationery supplies for the children and help them plan for the future.
Song Zuying's sincerity infected many kind people, and they also joined the ranks of student aid.
Today, the Foundation has helped thousands of children complete their education and change their lives.
Song Zuying said that people enter old age at the age of 60, but she does not feel aging at all.
With Luo Hao, a bosom partner, she is always full of hope and vitality.
Epilogue:
Is their marriage really that perfect? The answer is yes.
In this legendary long-distance love run, Song Zuying and Luo Hao faced the test together, supported each other, and built an unbreakable spiritual fortress.
Today, they are still very affectionate, giving us a glimpse of a sincere and touching love, career and life.