Why do many people around me say that their loved ones will be vaguely aware of some signs before they die?
Some people talked about the sudden banging of the door of the house before the death of a loved one, but a check found that the door had not been opened at all. There are also friends who were inexplicably flustered before the death of their loved ones, and their bodies also developed symptoms that they almost never had before.
It seems that this phenomenon is quite popular, since so many people have encountered these situations, is it really caused by excessive thoughts?
Netizen 1: My husband is 30 years old, 1.8 meters tall, weighs about 170 pounds, is very strong, very healthy, and has no problems with the physical examination of the unit. A few days before September 6 last year, I said that I had some stomach pain, and I had stomach pain when I was in school, and I didn't take it seriously, but I just said that he should go to the hospital for a physical examination. On the morning of the 6th, I was sitting on the sofa looking at my phone, and he asked me with a smile: "Daughter-in-law, what do you say I will do if I die?" I glanced at him: Then find another one. He smiled and said, "Then I'll be relieved." I rolled my eyes and said a few words to him and he went for a physical examination, nothing else, it was a small nodule on the lung, and immediately went to a professional hospital to hang up the expert number to re-check, and the doctor diagnosed after seeing it: It's okay, it's just a small nodule, you are so young and in good health, don't try to scare yourself...... At the end of the month, I checked again, and the liver and lungs had been metastasized, and on October 14, I had no husband in my life.
Netizen 2: The night before my dad died, I felt someone shaking in the living room in the dark at about 4.00 in the morning (at that time, my mother's foot had just undergone surgery and I slept in the living room with the nurse), and immediately turned on the light. He must have realized that he might not be able to do it, and he still insisted on walking over to our mother and daughter to see us one last time.
My dad had jaw cancer surgery that year, and it metastasized to the lungs 10 months after the operation, but fortunately, my dad didn't go through the painful stage of cancer for too long, and he walked peacefully.
Netizen 3: In March of 14 years, my brother-in-law went to the hospital for a check-up when he was unwell, and the result shocked the whole family, and the liver cancer was in an advanced stage. My brother-in-law was 36 years old, my sister was 34 years old, and their son was not yet 5 years old. I won't talk about the painful process. On the night of my brother-in-law's death, my family went to the hospital to accompany him, and my sister didn't want my son to see his father being tortured by illness and was out of shape, so I stayed at home with the child. At nine o'clock, I was telling a story with my nephew in bed, and a gust of wind blew in, and the child said to me, "Auntie, the wind is cool." "I feel that my brother-in-law may be gone, it's just that feeling of being cold and empty. The next second, my husband, who was in the hospital, called me, and my brother-in-law was gone. That gust of wind should be the brother-in-law's deep reluctance to his son.
Netizen 4: In March of 14 years, my brother-in-law went to the hospital for a check-up when he was unwell, and the result shocked the whole family, with advanced liver cancer. My brother-in-law was 36 years old, my sister was 34 years old, and their son was not yet 5 years old. I won't talk about the painful process. On the night of my brother-in-law's death, my family went to the hospital to accompany him, and my sister didn't want my son to see his father being tortured by illness and was out of shape, so I stayed at home with the child. At nine o'clock, I was telling a story with my nephew in bed, and a gust of wind blew in, and the child said to me, "Auntie, the wind is cool." "I feel that my brother-in-law may be gone, it's just that feeling of being cold and empty. The next second, my husband, who was in the hospital, called me, and my brother-in-law was gone. That gust of wind should be the brother-in-law's deep reluctance to his son.
Netizen 5: In March of the 14th year, my brother-in-law went to the hospital for a check-up when he was unwell, and the result shocked and saddened the whole family, and the liver cancer was in an advanced stage. My brother-in-law was 36 years old, my sister was 34 years old, and their son was not yet 5 years old. I won't talk about the painful process. On the night of my brother-in-law's death, my family went to the hospital to accompany him, and my sister didn't want my son to see his father being tortured by illness and was out of shape, so I stayed at home with the child. At nine o'clock, I was telling a story with my nephew in bed, and a gust of wind blew in, and the child said to me, "Auntie, the wind is cool." "I feel that my brother-in-law may be gone, it's just that feeling of being cold and empty. The next second, my husband, who was in the hospital, called me, and my brother-in-law was gone. That gust of wind should be the brother-in-law's deep reluctance to his son.
Netizen 6: I met it once, when my grandfather died. At that time, I was working in the field, and my grandfather was in his hometown in Jiangsu. When I went to bed with the lights off that night, I always felt someone sitting next to my pillow, and the sound was clear when I sat down. I was sleeping on my side with my face facing the wall, and when I felt someone next to the bed, I thought it was a comrade-in-arms looking for me. I turned on the light and saw that there was nothing, turned off the light and lay down again, still thinking someone sitting on the pillow. My heart suddenly fluttered, but as soon as I turned on the light, the feeling was gone. I simply turned on the light, sat on the bed, and waited for the dawn. My dad called early the next morning and told me that my grandfather had passed away, and that he had passed away at about the same time as I had been sleeping, and then I guessed that my grandfather would not be relieved to see me for the last time before leaving. I'm an atheist, but that time I would rather believe that my grandfather came to see me than admit that it was a hallucination.
After reading the answers of many friends, my feelings are:
Live well, cherish the people around you who are worthy of your love, cherish the time you spend with them, and express your love and concern for them with words and actions.
At the same time, I would like to say to those of us who are still in the world, please cherish your time, put any dreams on the agenda as soon as possible, and fulfill them as soon as possible, and don't let yourself have regrets. Please be kind and strong, there is no hurdle in life that you can't get over, don't overindulge in the sadness of the old times, let go, look forward, the relatives who have passed away in another world also hope that we are like this.
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The little woman is polite, the official pays attention to it, don't get lost!