Those who talk less and don't have many friends are often down-to-earth people
The first time I met my senior, Li Xiaodong, was when I was Xi in the library.
That day, I was working on a math problem in the corner, and the formulas and symbols in front of me had become a blur. Putting down the pen, I looked up a little tiredly, shifting my attention.
At this time, I saw a boy with glasses walk in and sit not far away, with his back to me. He was wearing a simple white shirt and dark pants, and the folds in his clothes indicated that he had just woken up.
The boy's slightly long short hair is a little messy, and his expression looks gentle and peaceful.
I secretly guessed in my heart that this taciturn boy must also be a junior who came to prepare for the exam. Unexpectedly, when he stood up and left, his classmates all gathered around him to greet him and call him Senior Li.
That's when I learned that he was already a junior in our department.
Later, through inquiry, I learned about Senior Li's situation. He has excellent grades, but he lives a simple life and never deliberately creates an image in front of others. Because of this, everyone respects his sincerity and reliability even more.
This chance encounter gave me a new understanding. Those who talk less and don't have many friends are often down-to-earth people. They will not be fooled by the external places of fame and fortune, but will devote themselves to their studies and Xi and life.
It is precisely because of the honesty in the heart that it is easier to focus and precipitate, and finally go to a high place.
High-level people are good at keeping an appropriate distance from people and things
In the four years of college, the senior I admired the most was Li Tianyi.
Li Tianyi has excellent grades, has served as the head of many student clubs, and is recognized as a top student in the entire department. He is handsome, well-mannered, and never speaks loudly, but gives people a sense of calm and steady.
One time I was particularly impressed was in my sophomore year. The hall of the dormitory building was crowded with students holding wine bottles and partying, and Li Tianyi sat alone at the piano, holding a novel in his hand, turning the pages from time to time.
"Why is Li Tianyi reading alone, and he is here to participate!" Several classmates dragged him into the crowd. Li Tianyi smiled and declined: "It's good that you guys are happy, it's good for me to read here."
Later, Li Tianyi was admitted to a graduate offer from a well-known foreign university, and now he is working in a top investment bank. Some classmates laughed at him for being so diligent back then, and now he still lives in an old community with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan.
Li Tianyi quipped: "I just like a simple life, and money has never been a problem for me."
Through all these years of observation, I understand. The reason why Li Tianyi can achieve great things is precisely because he is sober and focused, not disturbed by the outside world, and keeps the most appropriate distance from people and things.
This is the real high realm.
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Masters cultivate themselves and do not compete with others
I was recently reading Jin Yong's martial arts novel "Dragon Babu", and there was one character that left a deep impression on me, he was the sweeping monk who had been sweeping the floor in the Tibetan Scripture Pavilion.
The sweeping monk has been in the Tibetan Scripture Pavilion for more than 30 years, in addition to sweeping the floor, it is to meditate on the study of those martial arts secrets. Many martial arts masters frequently visited the Zangjing Pavilion in order to compete for the secret tips, but the sweeping monks never argued with them.
He quietly did his own thing, until one day, Xiao Yuanshan and Murong Bo fought over the books, and the sweeping monk appeared and easily stopped them.
The sweeping monk did not blame or satirize the shamelessness of the two. He calmly persuaded the two of them to concentrate on cultivating internal strength, which was the right way for martial artists.
This scene taught me deeply. The sweeping monk is like a martial arts master with superb cultivation, he is not contaminated with earthly battles, but just meditates to improve himself.
Because of this, his realm is superior and can easily resolve disputes. This is the real image of a master in my mind.
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The soul is high, and the criticism is calmly faced
When it comes to Peking Opera master Mei Lanfang, his artistic attainments and opera achievements can be said to be resounding at home and abroad, setting countless examples for future generations. However, even so, he could not avoid criticism during his lifetime.
According to the article, when Lu Yi commented on the drama, he criticized Peking Opera for "playing tricks and having no aesthetic value", and also specifically pointed out the fault of Mei Lanfang in "Heavenly Maiden Scattering Flowers" and "Daiyu Burial Flowers".
This is undoubtedly a denial of Mei Lanfang's art.
In the face of such sharp criticism, Mei Lanfang did not refute or explain, but responded with silence. He continues to create, continue to perform, and push his art to new heights.
I think this is the calmness and openness of a person with a high heart. As a drama master, Mei Lanfang's artistic charm and attainments no longer need to care about the criticism of others. He only needs to focus on the art itself and continue to impress the audience, and this achievement and response is the best proof of this.
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Introverts also have fiery hearts
I have a very good friend Xiaowen, she is introverted, she doesn't like to socialize very much, and her circle of friends is also very small. When I first met, I thought she was a cold and reticent person.
However, through the past few years of getting along, she has made me feel completely different.
Xiaowen has helped me a lot. For example, when I first started college, I was depressed in the face of an unfamiliar environment. It was Xiaowen who cheered me in my ear almost every day and helped me get through that difficult time.
Later, when I fell out of love and was heartbroken, Xiaowen would accompany me all night to confide in me and give me the most sincere support.
She also often told me historical stories, especially when it comes to literati like Li Bai, the whole person will be extremely excited. I could really feel the heat and sincerity in her heart.
This made me understand that extroversion and introversion are just a character trait, and what determines a person's quality is whether he has a broad heart and a fiery heart. Xiaowen proved with her own actions that introverts can also have hot sincerity.
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We all need to learn to be tolerant of different people
Through the various stories and cases in this article, I have learned a lot about life.
There are thousands of people with different personalities in this world, and we can't use our own standards to require everyone to conform to the model of "more friends" and "sociable".
Those who don't talk much and don't have many friends, they have their own way of life and are also influencing and helping others in different ways. We should not judge them because we can't understand them.
The difference of individuals creates the richness of the world, which is also the joy of life. It is important that we learn to be open-minded, think more from the perspective of others, and treat every life with a more tolerant and understanding attitude.
That's what I learned from these stories. When we are judging a person, do not be blinded by superficial images, but adopt a gentle, tolerant attitude.
This is the mind of a mature global citizen.
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