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This incident actually started when I was pregnant. When I found out that I was pregnant again, I felt extremely happy and excited, and I discussed with my husband that I would stop working and take care of the child at home full-time after the birth of the child. However, I didn't expect that the joy of happiness was only a momentary thing, and after my mother-in-law's horizontal insertion and my daughter's unintentional words, I began to feel a great impact on my heart.
Our family of three lives in a small house. When I was about to get pregnant, my mother-in-law suddenly decided to come and live with us, saying that she wanted to help me take care of my daughter and take care of me. Although I felt a little uneasy about my mother-in-law's sudden arrival, I welcomed her for the sake of family harmony. However, the arrival of my mother-in-law did not help me, but caused me a lot of trouble. She always disciplined me, asked me to eat this, not to touch that, and monitored my diet, work and rest every day. I could clearly feel that she was playing with my idea, and I couldn't do anything about it. Although my husband and I had some opinions about this, he couldn't help it, so he had to coax her in a gentle tone, hoping that these things would pass sooner.
One day, I suddenly felt that my head was so swollen that I couldn't stand it anymore. I realized that my heart had been suppressed for a long time, and I needed to release it. So, I grabbed my bag and left the house to find a quiet place. Sitting in a park, I can finally face my inner anguish. With his words, tears flowed uncontrollably. Suddenly, a little girl ran up to me, pulled at my sleeve, and asked me what was wrong, and seeing that I was crying so sadly, she took the initiative to come up to comfort me. I looked up at the little girl, and there was a maturity and warmth in her eyes. I wiped away my tears, smiled and gave her a hug. The little girl said to me, "Sister, I know why you are sad, in fact, you are very brave, you can fight for yourself, don't you?" I was touched by her words, her words woke me up, why can't I fight for myself, I have this right.
When I got home, I felt like a different person, and I suddenly had the courage to fight for some freedom for myself. I went straight to the kitchen and easily scraped the kitchen knife in front of my mother-in-law. I felt a lot lighter and made a choice that made her realize that I no longer tolerated it. This incident has caused me a lot of sensation, and I have always behaved in a proper manner to my mother-in-law. I know that this may be a rebellion deep in my heart, and I no longer tolerate unnecessary regulation. After the mother-in-law was shocked, nothing happened again. I don't regret it, I'm proud. This act represents my own voice and a desire for a free life.
At present, I have changed the door lock of my house and no longer tolerate everything from my mother-in-law. Sometimes, some people may say that I am too stubborn, and my family is worried that my relationship with my mother-in-law will become stiff. But I didn't care, I just wanted to fight for some dignity and freedom for myself. What I needed was not the comfort of my family, but their understanding and support.
"Mom, you know what I mean. It's not easy for her to conceive a child, why do you care so much?" was a little dissatisfied in her husband's voice.
"I'm doing it for her good, I'm afraid she won't be able to do it alone. The mother-in-law said with a hint of grievance.
"However, your way is also too much. She is already a housewife in the house, and she has her own methods and ideas. You always intervene, and she is certainly not happy. ”
"But......" The mother-in-law seemed a little overwhelmed.
I listened to it with emotion. It's not that I can't accept help from others, but I really can't stand this kind of vexatious intervention. I'm going to fight for some space and rights for myself, and I'm going to give some change to my family. I pushed the door open and walked in.
"Mom, tell me again how to cook the food you bought, and I'll learn to cook it for you." "I deliberately hid my displeasure and made myself look happy.
"Okay, I'll teach you, and you can make it for your own family in the future. The mother-in-law's face showed joy.
"Yes, I learned from my mother, and I can take my children to cook these delicious dishes in the future. I deliberately mentioned "my child" in the hope that she would be able to restrain herself.
When my mother-in-law heard my words, the expression on her face was a little complicated, but she still smiled slightly.
In the following days, I paid attention to adjusting the way I got along with my mother-in-law, spending more time with her, and showing favor to her. Sometimes, when she taught me to cook, if there was something I didn't think was right, I would politely bring it up to avoid conflict with her. Thanks to my efforts, my mother-in-law also began to change and no longer interfered too much in my life.
The relationship with her husband has also become more harmonious. He began to take the initiative to care about me when I was pregnant, and bought me a lot of things for the fetus. Every day, no matter how busy he is, he will find time to walk with me and help me with some chores within his ability. I slowly felt his tenderness and love, which also made me more determined to fight for my rights and interests for the sake of this family and our future.
Through my communication with my mother-in-law, I gradually realized that I needed some autonomy and independence. She also slowly let go of my worries and began to believe that I was a woman who was capable of taking care of herself and her children. Our relationship became more harmonious, and I also felt some care and understanding from her.
In the process of fighting for my rights, I also felt the support and understanding from my family. I am more and more confident, I believe that in the future, I will definitely be able to do it, I will make this home more warm and beautiful, so that every family member can find their own happiness here. No longer as before, wronged to cater to others.
With anticipation for the future and love for my family, I have stepped into a new phase. That difficult experience has made me grow a lot and made me know how to care for and love myself. I believe that I will become a better version of myself and will create more beauty in this family.
Soon, my baby was born, he was a lovely boy and my husband and I were very happy. The birth of a child also makes the atmosphere of the home more warm and happy.
The mother-in-law loves the child very much, she boiled all kinds of nourishing soups for the child, and specially brought the best red silk bedding from her hometown, saying that she wanted to wrap the child. Although sometimes her excessive love can make me a little uncomfortable, I firmly believe that she is acting out of good for the child. The relationship between my mother-in-law and me has gradually improved, I have learned to be more tolerant and tolerant, and she has become more understanding and supportive.
My husband and I have a better relationship, and every night he will hold the child and chat with me, telling some humorous jokes to amuse me. Our time together as a family has also become full of happiness and warmth. I have learned that family is the most important thing, and my hard work and perseverance have ultimately brought our family a more harmonious and happy family.
Slowly, I found myself stronger and more confident as well. I found my place in the family and learned how to get along better with my family. I understand that fighting for my rights and interests is not only for myself, but also for the harmony and happiness of this family.
I love this family deeply, but also my husband and children deeply. With my strong man as my backing, I want to make this family more warm and happy, and I want to be the big tree that my husband and children can rely on.
It's a great start, a promising future. I believe that together we will create a better life.
Soon, the child gradually grew up, he learned to say the word "Mom", and every time he looked at me with innocent eyes and called me "Mom", my heart was full of happiness and touch. I suddenly had a deeper sense of responsibility, and the harmony of my family and the growth of my children became the top priority of my life.
Once I was about to go out to buy groceries, the child suddenly stretched out his little hand and grabbed the hem of my skirt and said, "Mom, I want you!" Hearing the child's immature voice, I instantly felt a sour feeling in my heart, and I picked him up dotingly, "Okay, Mommy will accompany you!"
When I got home, I saw my mother-in-law preparing dinner for the child, who was playing while eating. Feeling my mother-in-law's dedication to her children, I can't help but feel the warmth of life. I said to my mother-in-law gratefully, "Thank you for your continued care for the child, I really appreciate it." ”
The relationship with my husband has also taken a step forward, and we have started to communicate more and support each other, instead of me being alone in silence. My husband will accompany me to take on the responsibilities of the family and the growth of the children, and he is willing to work together to maintain the harmony of this family.
All of this is inseparable from the choices I have made, I have bravely replaced the uncomfortable family environment, and I have also bravely faced unknown changes. I am no longer a passive recipient, but more active in creating harmony. This family needs my efforts, and my children need me to grow up to be a better mother.
I know that family harmony requires the efforts of both parties, and my husband and I, my mother-in-law and I, are all contributing to this happiness. I understand that home is my harbor, and my family is my support. I would like to use my firm faith and lasting love to create a warmer and more harmonious family.
For a long time, I worked hard for my family, and because of this perseverance, I got more. My mother-in-law also gradually understood and accepted my ways, and we got along more harmoniously. One day, while chatting together at home, she said to me, "Actually, some of the things I did at the beginning did make you uncomfortable, but they were also out of concern, and I hope you can understand." ”
I looked at her gratefully and whispered, "I understand, thank you for your dedication to this family, I will cherish and maintain the harmony of the family even more." ”
The mother-in-law smiled and nodded, she seemed very amiable at that moment, even though we had stumbled with each other. This understanding and communication has strengthened my belief that understanding and respect are the cornerstones of family harmony, and I will pass on this love to my children.
In this family, my husband also began to have more family responsibilities. He hoped that our family could grow up happily in a warm atmosphere, and he said to me calmly and considerately: "My dear, thank you for your efforts for this family, and we will work together to protect this warm home in the future." ”
I clasped his hand, looked at him gratefully, and said firmly, "Yes, we work together to make our family happier." ”
As for my child, he is the greatest source of happiness for the family. Every day when I watch him play happily and hear his childish laughter, I feel that the world is full of beauty. At one point, he hugged me tightly and said, "Mom, I love you." "At that moment, my heart was wrapped in warmth, and I firmly believed that my choice was the right one, and I also firmly believed that I would continue to create more happiness for this family.
This warm and harmonious family is the source of my happiness, and it is also my greatest encouragement and motivation. I will continue to cherish this harvest, be grateful for every companionship and love, and use my efforts to make this family more warm and happy. After all, a happy family is the best nourishment, and I will always guard this happiness and take care of everyone I love with my love.