In this era of looking at faces, appearance has undoubtedly become a kind of capital. However, for a 45-year-old man, this capital does not seem to have helped him get rid of the problem of being single. It is understood that the man has been on a blind date more than 100 times, but he still has not found the object he likes. In this regard, the matchmaker complained that he had a high posture and was looking for little fresh meat born in the 90s. So, how exactly did the man respond?
The man said that he has the capital of a baby face, so he is confident to find a young and beautiful object. However, the reality is harsh. The matchmaker successively introduced two post-80s ladies to him, but after seeing the photos, he refused for various reasons. This makes the matchmaker sigh: It is so difficult for older young men to find a partner, most of them are inaccurate in their self-positioning and too picky.
In fact, this man's experience is not unique. In today's society, more and more older men and women are facing the pressure of marriage. Some of them, because of their superior conditions (such as appearance, career, etc.), have too high requirements for the other half, resulting in countless blind dates still unable to succeed. This phenomenon makes people wonder: in the process of finding a significant other, should we pay more attention to the inner qualities and character, rather than overly pursuing the external conditions?
Of course, this is not to say that external conditions are not important. After all, people are visual creatures, and first impressions often determine a lot of things. However, over time, the advantages of the external conditions will gradually weaken, and the importance of the inner qualities and character will gradually become prominent. Therefore, when choosing the other half, we should look at our own conditions and needs more rationally and avoid pursuing perfection too much and thus missing out on those who are really suitable for us.
Although appearance is a kind of capital, it does not guarantee that a person will be able to find the other half smoothly. In the process of finding the other half, we should pay more attention to the matching of internal qualities and personalities, rather than pursuing external conditions too much. Only in this way will we be able to find the person with whom we truly know each other.