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I chose a rainy afternoon. I stood in front of the window, looking out at the light rain that was falling weakly, and my mood became depressed.
"Daughter-in-law, let your parents go, and I'll take the children. "That's the voice of my in-laws, who always like to pick up ready-made bargains and never consider my feelings. I, on the other hand, always passively accept their arrangements. My husband was also removed from the house because of their interference.
My husband and I met at a party a few years ago, and at the beginning, we had a very good relationship, he was very considerate to me, and I admired him. But since they got married, their family has been like a bottomless pit that I can't fill no matter how much I give.
"Husband, we can't go on like this, I can't stand their interference. I sat on the couch and said to him.
"Daughter-in-law, you are too much, we are your elders, and everything we do is for your good. The voice of the in-laws came from the kitchen.
"I know they're doing it for my good, but I also have my own ideas and choices. I replied.
The husband was silent for a moment, and finally said, "Daughter-in-law, all you have to do is take good care of the family." ”
This sentence made my heart tingle, why was he always on their side? Didn't he understand my feelings?
That night, without speaking to them, I went to the bedroom without saying a word, and lay in bed thinking about my situation. I need to change, I need to find myself again.
My heart moved, maybe this was my chance to change my fate. I decided to go for an interview.
Back home, I said to my husband, "I got a job. ”
"What job?" he asked, confused.
"Assistant to the General Manager. I replied proudly.
"You don't have to do this job, I'll take care of supporting the family. He said.
"You don't have to worry, I did this job to make my dreams come true. I said firmly.
"You're so selfish, you don't think about your family's feelings at all. His words made me angry and disappointed.
I know he won't support me, but I won't give up on my dreams because of others' obstruction. I decided to take the job.
The days that followed were busy and fulfilling. Every day, I spend time at work, learning Xi new knowledge and skills. I realized that I was becoming more and more confident and strong.
However, things at home have not gotten better, my husband has become more and more cold, and my in-laws have always said bad things about me behind my back. I felt tired and helpless, but I had no regrets.
One night, I came home to find my husband and in-laws sitting in the living room. I hesitated for a moment and finally decided to walk in.
"Daughter-in-law, you're finally back, and you know how much your family needs you. "My in-laws' words made me feel extremely angry.
"I know what I need, and I don't need your worries. I said.
"Daughter-in-law, what are you doing! You are abandoning your family!" the husband also stood up.
"I didn't abandon my family, I just wanted to be able to live my life. I replied.
Their words wore me out, and I knew they would never understand my choice. I decided to leave the house.
The moment I left, I felt relieved. I was finally freed from their interference and shackles, and I was able to pursue my dreams freely.
Since then, I have lived the life I wanted. At work, I have been recognized and appreciated by my colleagues and feel more confident and independent. With the help of a friend, I decided to buy a cottage and start my own independent life.
I know it's all because I made a brave choice. I no longer live for other people's expectations, I want to live the life I want.
"Daughter-in-law, how can you abandon your family like this!" the words of my in-laws sounded in my mind again.
I smiled and whispered, "I didn't abandon my family, I just let myself live more freely." ”
I know they'll never understand my choice. But I don't care, because I've found my own happiness.
During this time, I lived a very fulfilling life, and I was busy at my post every day, but my heart was extremely satisfied. However, one day, I received a phone call, and the voice on the other end of the phone was my mother, who had been missing.
"Daughter, how are you doing at work?" said the mother's voice, revealing a deep concern.
"Mom, I'm doing well here, and my work is going well. I said.
"But, your dad ......," the mother's voice choked up.
My heart tightened, I put down the phone, I immediately bought a plane ticket and hurried to the city where my parents were.
"Dad, what's wrong with you?" I said, holding my father's hand, my voice trembling a little.
"Daughter, you're here. "My father's voice was very weak, but full of happiness.
"Why are you sick?" I asked worriedly.
"The doctor said it was a heart attack, and I don't know if I'm too worried about you. Father smiled.
My tears flowed uncontrollably, and I suddenly realized that they might have been silently worrying about me for the days I had been away from them. I deeply regret my decision, and while the previous days were free, it may have caused them more to worry about.
"I'm sorry, Dad, but I'm not sensible. I sobbed.
"Daughter, we just hope you can live better and don't have to worry about us. My father's voice was full of deep love.
"Dad, I'll take good care of myself, and I won't let you worry about me anymore. I said.
Since then, I have been going home every weekend to visit my parents and spend some warm time with them. There, I learned that no matter how hard I tried, the company and love of my family was the most important thing. I've found a balance between putting in the hard work at work and being able to stay close to my family, which makes me more determined to take steps towards my goals.
"Daughter, you have to work hard for your own happiness, and we will always support you behind you. The mother's words were full of encouragement.
"Well, I will. "A warm current wells up in my heart, and I am determined to turn their expectations into my motivation to find my own success and happiness. I truly understand that fate can change, but giving and caring are the most important.
My father's condition gradually improved, and I felt very relieved because of the time I spent with them. However, this quiet life was shattered by a phone call one day.
"Hey, the general manager of our company has unfortunately passed away, and now we need a new general manager. "The voice of the human resources department came from the other side of the phone.
My heart moved, and I couldn't help but fall into deep thought. Perhaps this is a chance given by God to change my fate. I thought about it and decided to take on the challenge and started a new round of interviews.
The interview process was not easy, but the interviewer was very satisfied with the confidence and strength I showed. The moment I received the acceptance letter, I felt a sense of excitement and excitement in my heart.
The day I got home, I said to my parents, "I'm the new general manager of the company. ”
"Daughter, this is wonderful!" said the mother, full of relief.
The father also smiled proudly: "I believe that you can be qualified for this position." ”
This kind of support and encouragement from my family has strengthened my belief in moving towards my goals. I know that no matter how many risks and challenges lie ahead, as long as I have a firm direction in my heart, I will be able to overcome all difficulties.
"General Manager, how does this plan need to be adjusted?" the head of the department put forward his own opinion.
"I think we need to rethink the positioning of the market and make the product closer to the needs of consumers. I said.
"Got it, we're going to work on it right away. The director nodded in understanding.
In the face of various challenges, I have not always been able to solve them smoothly. However, every setback has made me more resilient, and every success has made me more confident in my own strength.
Between family and career, I learned to balance. Every weekend, I still go back to my hometown and spend some warm time with my parents. Their encouragement and support gave me the strength to move forward.
As time passed, I grew up. In my work, I have achieved certain results and won the respect of my colleagues. In my family, I have always been close and caring.
"Daughter, we are so pleased to see you so successful. The mother's voice was full of happiness.
I smiled and said firmly, "Mom, it is your support and love for me that has brought me to where I am today. ”
Nowadays, I no longer envy other people's lives, because everything I have is what I have in exchange for my hard work and struggle. I understand that happiness is earned by oneself, not waiting to come. I didn't stop, there was wind and rain and sunshine on the road ahead, but I learned to accept everything because it was all an integral part of my life.
Today, I have become the general manager of a company, which is a great honor and challenge for me. Every day, I have to face all kinds of difficulties and challenges, but I have also gradually learned how to get along with people, how to lead a team, and manage the business in the best possible way.
One afternoon, I was walking slowly down the hallway of an office building when I received a phone call. On the other end of the line was the big boss of the company's headquarters.
"Hello, I'm the president of the company, I would like you to come to my office, there are some important things to discuss. "The big boss's voice was very formal.
"Okay, I'll be right over. As I answered the phone, I felt a little uneasy.
When I came to the president's office, the big boss greeted me with a smile. "Here you are, sit down. ”
"Thank you, President. I sat down and nervously waited for the next words.
"I heard that you are the new general manager of our company, and you are doing a good job. The big boss commented lightly.
"Thank you, President, for this recognition. "I'm secretly glad in my heart.
The big boss handed me a folder, "This is our company's future development plan, I hope you can participate in it and give your opinions and suggestions." ”
I took the folder and opened it, and it was full of discussions about the future direction of the company, as well as an analysis of the future market and competitive conditions, as well as discussions on operational strategies.
"I believe you have the ability and experience to lead our company forward. The big boss looked at me sincerely and said.
"Thank you President for your trust, I will do my best. I said solemnly.
During my time in the company, I put all my heart and soul into developing a series of development plans and marketing strategies with my team. With the efforts of day and night, the company's performance has gradually shown significant improvement, and has been recognized and praised by the market and customers.
"General Manager, this marketing plan looks very good, and we agree to adopt your plan. The head of marketing said to me.
"Thank you for your cooperation, it's the result of all the team. I replied calmly.
The success of all this is due to the teamwork and joint efforts of everyone. I know that together we can only go far.
"General Manager, we are really inspired by your management style and we will continue to work hard. An employee confessed.
"Thank you for your trust, as long as we work together, we will be able to achieve even more. I encouraged.
After becoming the general manager, my life has become more fulfilling and busy. Even though I am busy, I will never forget to go back to my parents every weekend and share the joys and hardships with them, making this warm time the best memory of my life.
Looking back on the hardships and ups and downs along the way, every wind and rain has made me more mature. The love and support of my family, the cooperation and hard work of the team, are the driving force that drives me forward.
Now I am no longer the entangled and hesitant girl I was at the beginning, but a confident and resolute workplace elite. No matter what challenges there will be in the future, I will face them bravely and positively, because I know that on the road to success, there are countless people's expectations and support, and there is a bright future that I yearn for.
At a time when my career was booming, it seemed that my life was facing a new challenge. After returning from a business trip on behalf of the company, I noticed that my father had some health problems.
"Dad, what's wrong with you? I looked at my father and asked with concern.
"It's nothing, it's just that I've been a little dizzy lately, and I didn't care. Father insisted with a crooked mouth.
"I'll accompany you to the hospital to have a look, it's better to see a specialist. I shook my head heavily.
Father's eyes flickered slightly, "Okay, I'll listen to you." ”
After the results of the examination at the hospital came out, we learned that my father had a more serious disease. I felt guilty and anxious that I was their child, why I hadn't noticed his physical condition before.
"Dad, I'm sorry, I didn't care about your body before, it's because I'm too busy with work. I said to my father guiltily.
"Child, it's not your fault, and I didn't tell you about my condition in time. Father said calmly.
After a period of treatment, my father finally recovered, and I also experienced a period of exhaustion. The work of the company and the body of my parents made me a little overwhelmed for a while.
"General Manager, there are some problems with these recent investments, and we need your guidance. The company's chief financial officer said to me.
"Okay, I'll go over now. "I made quick decisions and tried to stay focused on my work.
"Child, you are tired, take good care of yourself. My mother looked at me and said softly.
"Don't worry, I'll take care of my body. I smiled and coaxed my mother.
My family has been my backing as I adjust to new work challenges. I know that their blessings and support for me are the driving force for me to overcome everything.
"General Manager, our marketing situation has improved, thanks to your decision. A sales executive told me excitedly.
"It's the result of everyone's joint efforts, and we work together for it. "I would like to express my gratitude to the team.
My father gradually recovered, and the company's performance gradually improved. In my opinion, life is like this, busyness goes hand in hand with challenges, but as long as we can persevere, we can find the strength to adapt to the moment.
"Daughter, we are very relieved to see you brave enough to deal with everything. My father stroked my head and said.
I smiled and nodded, "Thank you for your teachings, I will always work hard to make you proud of me." ”
Today, I am still running on the road of my career, and sometimes I feel tired and uneasy, but when I see my parents' smiles and feel that the team is constantly improving, it seems that all the efforts have become worthwhile. Life will not be easy, but in the face of all challenges, I know that I have enough courage and strength.
After learning the lessons of my father's illness, I began to pay more attention to my health and family. I try to balance work and life, stay in good shape and have an optimistic attitude.
"Mom and Dad, I'm going to take a leave of absence next month, let's go on a trip together and relax. I suggested to my parents.
"It's a great idea, it's been a long time since we've gone out together to relax. "My mother happily accepted my offer.
During the holiday days, we go hiking, swimming, and enjoying the beauty of nature together. My relationship with my parents has also become closer, they have also begun to understand the hard work and pressure of my work, and I have become more aware of the endless warmth of family for me. The joy and happiness of this time has become the best memory in my heart.
"General Manager, this cooperation plan has won unanimous praise from customers. Company executives reported to me.
"Thank you for your team's efforts, this is not only my achievement, but also the result of everyone's hard work. "I am grateful to the team.
In my work, I pay more attention to communication and cooperation with the team, and respect the hard work of employees. Together, I create more value with my team and keep the company thriving.
"General manager, it has been really hard for you all these years, but you have never stopped. An old employee in the company said with emotion.
I smiled and nodded, "With your support and understanding, I have been able to get to where I am now, and we have achieved a lot together." ”
Whether at work or in life, I have gradually come to understand that happiness not only comes from the success of my career, but also from the deep affection between my family and the tacit cooperation of the team. The hard work and stress of the past became worth it, because in my heart, I felt successful and satisfied.
"Daughter, we are so pleased to see what you have accomplished. The mother wiped away her tears and said again and again.
"It's your encouragement and support that has made me more determined. I was deeply emotional.
Today, I have a career to develop and a healthier and happier family life. All this makes me deeply grateful and full of confidence and anticipation for the future. Life's setbacks and hardships make us more mature, and at the same time, they also make us cherish everything we have more.