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Marriage in the entertainment industry is always the talk of the audience after dinner, and these "talking points" can always make people happy on ordinary days.
Some people look like a good match, like a golden boy and a girl, but they have come to the point of divorce.
Some people don't look like a good match, but they have gone through the golden wedding, and the days are dull and happy.
There are also people who can't beat them with eight poles, but they are a couple in the "back"!
is like Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian, the host of CCTV, is a "low-key" couple.
Not only that, but the two began to "separate" after getting married, and this separation lasted for 15 years.....
This is not the worst, the two children's parents-in-law did not help, or Zheng Tianliang's parents helped to bring...
Both are working on it
Zheng Tianliang was born into an artistic family, his father was an editor, and his mother was an announcer.
Growing up in such an environment, she has developed a strong interest in the broadcasting industry since she was a child.
Her parents not only gave Zheng Tianliang a good education, but also subtly guided her on the road of broadcasting in daily life.
Zheng Tianliang has always dreamed of becoming an announcer like her mother one day, and in order to achieve this goal, she studied hard to Xi, and finally got her wish after the college entrance examination and was admitted to the broadcasting department of Beijing Broadcasting Institute.
Here, she not only Xi systematically learned the professional knowledge of broadcasting, but also actively participated in various practical activities to continuously improve her broadcasting level.
In 2000, CCTV was recruiting Xi students, and Zheng Tianliang was lucky to be selected as a Xi student of the "Oriental Time and Space" program with his excellent performance and lively and cheerful personality during school.
But when she auditioned for the camera for the first time, she was too nervous and did not perform well, which made her feel very disappointed when she was full of confidence.
Just when Zheng Tianliang was frustrated by the audition results, she met another girl who also came to interview for "Oriental Time and Space".
The girl asked Zheng Tianliang for help, hoping that she could help practice Xi.
Zheng Tianliang readily agreed, and the two established a deep friendship in the process of helping each other.
In this process, Zheng Tianliang's professional ability was fully demonstrated, and even made the girl sigh.
Zheng Tianliang's hard work and dedication have not been ignored, and the people in the program team have been paying attention to her.
When the girl failed the interview, the program team gave Zheng Tianliang a chance again, and this time, she successfully passed the interview and became the announcer of "Oriental Time and Space".
In the process of working at Oriental Time and Space, Zheng Tianliang encountered many challenges, but she persevered and worked hard to improve her business ability.
In a show, she partnered with Bai Yansong, and in the face of the ridicule of this senior, although Zheng Tianliang felt nervous, she still insisted on completing the recording of the show.
This experience made Zheng Tianliang more aware that as an announcer, you need to have strong pressure resistance and adaptability.
In order to let Zheng Tianliang better play her talents, the column team transferred her to Zhang Quanling's side, and the two co-hosted the show, which achieved good results.
It was at this time that Zheng Tianliang also met Lu Jian.
Born in Inner Mongolia, Lu Jian was influenced by his father, a desertification expert and his mother, a librarian, and received the influence of humanities and arts from an early age.
The blow of failing the college entrance examination forced him to attend a teachers' college.
During his college years, Lu Jian actively participated in campus activities and worked as an announcer at a radio station.
He also won first place in a local TV recitation competition, which strengthened his interest in the profession of presenter.
After graduating, he went directly to work at Yinchuan TV Station.
Three years later, he felt that as an announcer, he was reading someone else's script every day, which made him want to express his thoughts.
He decided to go to Beijing to go to graduate school, and although the process did not go smoothly, he eventually succeeded in entering the Communication University of China as a graduate student in 1997.
After graduating from graduate school, Lu Jian became the host of CCTV, and successively hosted columns such as "China Report" and "News 30".
The two met on CCTV not only made them successful in their careers, but also made them form a deep friendship.
Lu Jian's "scheming" road to chasing his wife
When he first met Zheng Tianliang, Lu Jian was attracted by her sweet smile and smart temperament.
He enthusiastically introduced himself to her, and Zheng Tianliang responded with a lively and cheerful attitude, and the two hit it off at first sight.
In the following days, whether it was lunch or Xi, they were always inseparable.
Lu Jian often invited Zheng Tianliang to drink tea and eat, and the friendship between the two gradually warmed up.
In a special arrangement of CCTV, all the staff were sent to Chifeng TV station in Inner Mongolia for a six-month grassroots training.
This is not only a new working environment, but also the starting point of the story of the two Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang.
As an authentic Inner Mongolian man, Lu Jian naturally became everyone's leader.
He led the team through the grasslands and appreciated the unique customs of this land.
And in this group of people, Zheng Tianliang attracted Lu Jian's attention with his unique temperament and vitality.
When I first arrived in Chifeng, many colleagues were not adapted.
In an accident, a female colleague suddenly felt unwell and vomited.
Faced with such a situation, most people chose to ignore it, but Zheng Tianliang stepped forward without hesitation and carried her to the infirmary.
This scene deeply touched Lu Jian and made him have strange feelings for Zheng Tianliang.
As the days of Xi passed, Lu Jian's concern for Zheng Tianliang became more and more obvious.
Once, Lu Jian handed Zheng Tianliang a hot water bottle on her way from work and told her to pay attention to keeping warm. Seeing this, Zheng Tianliang's colleagues joked that Lu Jian liked Zheng Tianliang?
After Zheng Tianliang heard this, she couldn't help but laugh dumbly, she didn't believe that Lu Jian would have feelings for her.
As time passed, Lu Jian's affection for Zheng Tianliang became stronger and stronger.
Finally one day, Lu Jian plucked up the courage to confess his feelings to Zheng Tianliang, hoping to become her boyfriend.
But Zheng Tianliang refused his kindness on the grounds that he "didn't want to fall in love with his peers because there was no sense of mystery".
Despite the rejection, Lu Jian did not give up easily.
When he saw other male colleagues pursuing Zheng Tianliang, the jealousy in his heart rekindled his fighting spirit.
He began to express his love for Zheng Tianliang in another way - silently bringing her snacks and breakfast, never directly to her, just quietly placing them on her table.
That didn't last long.
When Zheng Tianliang solemnly told him not to send anything more, Lu Jian insisted for three days and then stopped. He really decided to let go of this relationship and no longer disturb Zheng Tianliang's life.
Just when Lu Jian stopped, Zheng Tianliang's heart rippled. She began to miss Lu Jian's care and dedication, and when she closed her eyes at night, she was all about him in her mind.
Finally, Zheng Tianliang realized that he had unknowingly fallen in love with Lu Jian.
She couldn't bear to keep her distance from him any longer, so she took the initiative to find Lu Jian and confessed her heart to him. At this moment, Lu Jian's heart was full of joy, and he knew that his efforts had finally paid off.
After two years of sweet love, Lu Jian and Zheng Tianliang entered the palace of marriage hand in hand in 2004.
But this happy marriage did not allow them to live a life of companionship day and night as people expected.
Instead, they began a 15-year "separation" life.
Life is still sweet
Soon after their marriage, they were faced with a difficult choice: fertility.
Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian's work schedules are almost completely staggered. Zheng Tianliang recorded "Midnight News" at night, while Lu Jian hosted "News 60 Minutes" and "China News" during the day.
This reversal of the schedule makes it difficult for them to see each other, even though they are under the same roof.
Faced with this situation, both parents are worried about them, fearing that it will affect the relationship between husband and wife in the long run.
Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian found the true meaning of love in such days, and welcomed their first child, their daughter Lu Zhiyu, under pressure.
The birth of their daughter brought joy, but it also exacerbated the stress of their lives. They worry about not being able to give their children enough companionship and education.
After careful consideration, they decided to entrust the child to Zheng Tianliang's parents to take care of, because Lujiang's father was sick and his mother had to take care of his father, so there was no way to take good care of the child.
With the birth of their daughter, Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian felt more deeply the responsibility of being parents. They wanted their daughter to be better cared for and educated in Yantai, so they decided to leave her to live there.
Zheng Tianliang's parents understood and supported this, and they were willing to take on the responsibility of taking care of their granddaughter. During this period, although Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian were busy with work, they always paid attention to their daughter's growth.
At this critical moment, Zheng Tianliang's father also put forward a suggestion: to have one more child.
Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian were a little hesitant about the idea, but with the active support of their father, they finally decided to welcome their second child.
This time they were even more determined that the two children could accompany each other and grow together.
But they still face the same problem: how to find a balance between work and family.
In the end, they once again chose to entrust their second child to the care of Zheng Tianliang's parents.
After years of "separation", Zheng Tianliang finally got a chance to be transferred, and she could host a daytime show.
In 2019, she successfully adjusted her working hours and began to host "Morning News".
At the same time, Lu Jian has also made significant progress in his career, and his "Lu Jian Interview" column has been warmly welcomed by the audience.
This means that she and Lu Jian can spend more time with each other and share the responsibilities of the family.
In this process, the relationship between Zheng Tianliang and his wife became more and more firm.
Not only have they achieved excellence in their respective fields, but they have also played an important role in their families.
Now Zheng Tianliang and Lu Jian's lives are gradually on the right track.
They cherish the time they spend with their families more and strive to find a balance between work and family.
Although they had been "separated" for 15 years, the distance did not weaken their feelings for each other, but rather strengthened their relationship.
This model of love and marriage shows that even in the fast-paced and high-pressure environment of modern society, sincere emotions can always stand the test of time.