One day, my friend Xiaoli and I met at a café and talked about some common problems that women often have.
Me: Xiaoli, how are you doing?
Xiaoli: Hey, I've been a little busy lately, and I've been under a lot of pressure at work, so I always feel tired.
Me: Really, work is a tiring thing.
Xiaoli sighed: "Not only work, but sometimes I have to deal with family chores, and I feel that I can't do it." ”
Me: It's true that life is not easy for women, and they often have to juggle work and family.
Xiaoli nodded: "Yes, and I recently discovered that women seem to have a common problem." ”
I was curious and asked, "What's the common problem? Why didn't I notice?"
Xiaoli: Women are a little too self-blaming and inferior. I always feel that I am not good enough, I am not good enough at work, I am not well taken care of by my family, and I always blame myself.
Me: This question seems to be very common, do you feel that way?
Xiaoli smiled: "Of course there is, sometimes I feel as if I am inferior to others, and my mood is very low." ”
I reassured: "Actually, everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and you don't always have to blame yourself for being inferior. Relax yourself appropriately and be lenient with yourself. ”
Xiaoli: Yes, I'm also trying to change this state, but sometimes I really can't control it.
Me: Maybe you can find something you like, relax yourself, and adjust your mindset.
Xiaoli nodded: "Well, I'll try." ”
We continued to chat about trivial things in life in the café and shared our insights about life. Perhaps, the common problem of women is not a big problem, but how to treat themselves correctly and love themselves better.