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Editor-in-charge|Xiang Wanwan
"Super low-cut, tight skirt, big makeup...... Is this still the Wang Manxi I know?"
Recently, Wang Feng's eldest daughter Wang Manxi posted a recent photo of herself on social platforms, wearing a low-cut outfit, revealing a tall figure, and wearing heavy makeup on her face, changing her image as a good girl.
Although he turned 18 years old this year, Wang Manxi's sudden change still made netizens cry out for discomfort.
plus Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi's "high-profile" divorce statement some time ago.
I can't help but wonder, did this incident have a great impact on Wang Manxi? What happened to this girl who has been divorced three times by her father?
01
The little girl whose parents are divorced and neglected has no choice
In 2005, Wang Feng and his first wife gave birth to their first child, Wang Manxi, who they affectionately called their daughter "Little Apple".
Xi means brightness, joy, and harmony.
At that time, the happy young couple hoped that their daughter could become a woman as bright as the rising sun and be happy and happy all her life.
But the good times didn't last long, because Wang Feng and his ex-wife had an age difference of 16 years, their experiences and values were hugely different, and there were many conflicts when they got along, and soon the two announced their divorce.
The daughter was raised by Wang Feng's mother.
This undoubtedly casts a hint of gloom on the little girl who is full of sunshine.
The rights and wrongs of adults, who is right and who is wrong, do not show for the time being, children are always right.
In the years when I lived with my grandmother, we can feel from the photos that even though the little girl was smiling, her restrained and timid eyes still betrayed Wang Manxi's inner thoughts.
She longs for a normal, loving family.
That hope was realized two years later.
In 2007, Wang Feng and outsiders Kang Zuoru obtained their certificates in a low-key manner, and held a wedding in the United States in 2011.
Kang Zuoru is undoubtedly a good mother, and she takes care of the elderly and children in the family.
Friends in the circle commented on her: "She is very good, very righteous, polite, generous, knowledgeable, and sometimes more serious." ”
Wang Manxi also recognizes this stepmother very much.
Sometimes Wang Feng and Kang Zuoru quarrel, and Wang Manxi will stand on his stepmother's side.
In 2012, Wang Manxi, who was only 7 years old, had a younger sister, Wang Jingyi.
The situation is getting smoother and smoother, Wang Manxi has a stepmother who loves her, a father, and a lovely sister.
Everything is going in the normal direction.
However, the clouds are easy to disperse, and in 2013, Wang Feng unilaterally announced his divorce, and the former loving husband and wife were in court.
Wang Manxi, who has just passed his 8th birthday, finally enjoys his mother's love for several years, and is about to usher in a family separation.
Even if adults are protective of children, how can children's delicate emotions not be affected?
is like what Wang Manxi wrote in his new song when he grew up:
"Stop those things from replicating you again, walk in the ethereal looking for love, fill in the empty and helpless heart"
A mother's love may be the touch she always longs for.
02
Three mothers, gave her complete love
Maybe God can't bear to let a little girl's expectations come to naught.
In 2015, Wang Manxi welcomed her third mother, Zhang Ziyi.
In 2013, Wang Feng made a high-profile confession to Zhang Ziyi at the concert, and for a while, he blew up the entertainment industry.
The international chapter is too famous, the Hundred Flowers Award, the Golden Rooster Award, the Golden Horse Award, the Golden Image Award, and ......
has won many awards at home and abroad, and it is a benchmark for independent women to the outside world. Zhang Ziyi gives the impression that she is stubborn and refuses to admit defeat.
And Wang Feng, in addition to singing, is most famous for his eternal leather pants, right?
The two who can't beat the eight poles are actually going to be together, and most netizens are not optimistic.
At that time, little Wang Manxi was already 10 years old.
Wang Manxi, who is about to enter puberty, is looking forward to the arrival of her new mother, but she is also very resistant.
Xi to separation, she thought, can this "mother" last until she reaches adulthood?
A child's mind is always complicated.
Although Zhang Ziyi treated Wang Manxi with a friendly attitude, she didn't buy it at first.
didn't talk to Zhang Ziyi, threw the gift given by Zhang Ziyi into the trash, and fought with his stepmother......
Zhang Ziyi was not angry, through Wang Manxi's series of small actions, she saw a sensitive, helpless, and insecure little girl.
The fragile girl with a tough attitude is just protecting herself.
"Take your time, don't be in a hurry", Zhang Ziyi said to herself, "one day she will accept me." ”
Zhang Ziyi began to be unconditionally kind to Wang Manxi: give her delicious and fun, and never forget the gift of her eldest daughter when she goes out.
Wang Feng and Wang Manxi quarreled, and Zhang Ziyi stood on her daughter's side unconditionally......
A child's mind is also simple.
Zhang Ziyi treated the little girl as her own, warming the little girl, and gradually, Wang Manxi no longer resisted Zhang Ziyi.
Once, Wang Manxi followed Zhang Ziyi's dressing advice and pulled up the denim cuffs.
This surprised Zhang Ziyi.
The mother and son finally found the most comfortable way to get along.
They are like best friends, chatting about outfits, talking together, shopping together, Zhang Ziyi also taught Wang Manxi to speak English, combed her braids, and cut her nails.
One year, she also carefully prepared a birthday gift for Zhang Ziyi and talked about piano for Zhang Ziyi......
Wang Manxi thought that this mother might be able to accompany her through the rest of her life.
03
The rite of passage shows personality, she is not defined
Maybe the heavens love to joke.
When Wang Manxi became an adult at the age of 18, Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng ended their 8-year marriage.
Wang Manxi nominally has no mother again.
Fortunately, she is an adult and strong enough to face God's jokes.
She began to explore herself, she was not satisfied with the image of a "good girl" in the eyes of the public, she wanted to find her true self.
This is reflected in her new song "Drowning".
This song incorporates her favorite R&B style, with lyrics that mix Chinese and English, which perfectly reflects her state of mind.
She began to express herself.
The black and white photos she posted on social platforms are full of stories.
She says she is a retrograde bell and a hummingbird.
As the lyrics of "Drowning" say:
"Stop dwelling on emotions
Stop those things from reverting you
Restraint thoughts
Fall shattered
Emotions are insane
Prison Break Respite
Give everything
It's like a disconnect."
You don't have to dwell on your emotions, and you don't have to repeat them over and over again.
At the same time, her style has changed dramatically.
She inherited her biological mother's tall figure and became a walking hanger.
With a yellow deep V top and low-waisted jeans and gaudy makeup, she announced to the world that I was no longer a good girl.
Champagne-colored evening dresses outline a better posture.
The light brown dress seems to announce that I want to enter the adult world.
Netizens couldn't help but sigh, in a blink of an eye, that shy little girl grew up.
Some people don't understand that to show their personality, do they have to wear heavy makeup and fancy clothes?
But Wang Manxi doesn't care about other people's opinions, she is an adult, and she can wear it however she wants.
A while ago, she won first place in a dance competition, and you can see her love for dance.
She posted the examination certificate of the Central Conservatory of Music and told everyone, look, my mothers taught me very well, and I am very good.
When netizens praise her ability, she will also modestly ridicule "blown through".
Not inferior, not arrogant, Wang Manxi told everyone that I really grew up well.
Write at the end
For children, the quality of the family of origin does have a great impact.
To a certain extent, it will shape the undertone of a person's values. But we don't have to take it too seriously, because it's only a part of our lives.
We need to understand that life is our own.
It doesn't matter if the parents are harmonious or divorced.
It's up to you what you want to live.