Preface
"It's okay to get married, but not having children after marriage doesn't make me give up my career. ”
This is in 1992, when Luo Hao proposed to his girlfriend Song Zuying, his girlfriend's "three chapters of the law".
Luo Hao, who loved his girlfriend deeply, was ruthless, gritted his teeth and stomped his feet, and agreed to his girlfriend's request.
But what he didn't expect was that his girlfriend was directly separated from him for 8 years for the sake of his career.
Song Zuying has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for 24 consecutive years, and she has left her figure in well-known concert halls at home and abroad.
On the stage, she was radiant and shining.
But in 2014, she did not appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and gradually withdrew from the stage.
It makes one wonder, where has she gone, and what is happening to her now?
At the same time, it also makes people curious, how many excellent men must be behind such a successful woman to be worthy of him?
A happy but impoverished childhood
In 1966, in an ordinary mountain village farmhouse in Xiangxi, Hunan, a "hot girl" was born.
And the name of this hot girl is Song Liuying, which is the name given by her grandfather and grandmother.
Her parents and the villagers affectionately called her "Little Liu".
Later, a wanderer passed by her house and begged for a bowl of water at home.
Seeing that she was well-behaved and cute, she liked it very much, so she changed her name to Song Zuying by the way.
At that time, everyone didn't expect that this female doll in the mountains would become a "folk song diva" many years later.
Although the transportation in the village is inconvenient and the life of the family is a little poor, her childhood life is still very happy.
As the eldest daughter in her family, she learned to take care of her younger siblings at an early age.
will also help her mother share the housework, and the family is happy.
But her peaceful life was shattered when she was 12 years old.
His father, who was already weak, died of illness.
This sudden accident made the already not wealthy family even worse.
At this time, the house leak happened to rain overnight, and the grandmother died of depression because she couldn't accept the pain of losing her child.
This series of blows has made this family lose its former laughter.
Having lost the breadwinner, the burden of supporting the family fell on the thin shoulders of the mother.
Since then, Song Zuying has become less talkative, and on her face, a smile has become a luxury.
In order to make her mother less tired, she began to spend her days in housework and taking care of her younger siblings.
During that time, her favorite thing to do was to work in the fields after her mother.
Because my mother often sang mountain songs while doing farm work, she also liked it very much.
And singing has also become a way for her to vent her emotions, and every time she is unhappy, she sings to the mountains.
She usually doesn't like to talk, and she sings like a lark.
One of the tools she often carries with her is a small back basket.
She just relied on the small basket and went out to find her mother with her younger siblings on her back.
She usually uses a small back basket for food and firewood.
It can be said that she used a small basket to hold up the heavy responsibility of taking care of her younger siblings.
It is precisely because of this special experience that she sings "Little Back Basket" so affectionately.
But just as life at home was slowly getting on track, an accident happened.
My younger brother suddenly got "whooping cough", because he was deep in a mountain village and the transportation was inconvenient, so he could not be treated in time.
As a result, the younger brother became deaf and mute.
She proposed to drop out of school and take care of the family at home, so that the burden on the family would not be so heavy.
Her mother rejected her, saying that she would only be able to go to school.
She took her mother's teachings to heart and began to study Xi hard.
The opportunity came to become a singer
When she was 16 years old, the county's opera troupe decided to recruit new actors to expand the ranks.
The teacher knew that she liked to sing and sang very well, so he recommended her to try it out in the troupe.
After she finished singing a song, the staff were shocked by her good voice and felt that she was a good seedling for singing.
So she was selected to join the county opera troupe with a good vote, and thus began her own career as a singer.
At that time, she had good congenital conditions, and she was very studious, so it was a good time to cultivate.
So the troupe also hired a teacher to teach her professional singing skills.
And she also cherished this opportunity, tirelessly absorbing professional knowledge, and also laid a firm foundation for the future.
However, at the beginning, she could only play some small roles, until one time the leading actor in the troupe suddenly had something to do and couldn't catch up with the performance.
Knowing that this was a good opportunity, she immediately recommended herself, and it was this substitute that made her loved by the audience.
And in just half a year, he has become a core actor who has supported the stage from a newcomer.
She is not arrogant or impatient, she still studies hard, and she often reads.
Relying on her own efforts, her strength and experience have been improved.
And it turns out that the hard work pays off.
A year after she joined the troupe, she was selected as the lead singer of the Xiangxi team because of her excellent personal ability and went to Beijing to participate in the show.
It was also this performance that she was transferred to the Provincial Song and Dance Troupe.
Not long after she entered the song and dance troupe, the Central Nationalities Academies came to the local area to recruit students.
When she learned about this, she immediately asked the teacher to "make up" the cultural class.
After unremitting efforts, she was admitted to the Central University for Nationalities with excellent results.
Knowing that the moment her daughter was admitted to college, Song's mother cried, and her daughter finally fulfilled her wish.
And she has become the pride of the whole village.
In 1987, she participated in the Young Singer Competition in Hunan Province and won the championship in one fell swoop.
It was in this year that she also won the gold medal of the "Golden Phoenix Cup".
With these two experiences, she has more confidence in herself.
In the following year's "Golden Dragon Cup" Youth Song Competition, she overwhelmed the crowd and tied for first place with Zhang Ye.
What she didn't expect was that this competition not only allowed her to win the award, but also allowed her to meet her future partner.
Luo Hao happened to be the choreographer in charge of the broadcast of this competition, and when he saw Song Zuying for the first time in the audience, he couldn't help but be attracted to this girl.
When Song Zuying finished the competition, he walked over and said to him, you just sang so well.
Considering that he was 12 years older than her, Luo Hao did not show his heart at the first time, but introduced her to the well-known musician Jin Tielin.
Jin Tielin was shocked by her wonderful performance in the Youth Song Competition, but she didn't expect to turn around and introduce the two to each other.
Jin Tielin, who was discerning, immediately accepted him as an apprentice.
Under his disciple, Song Zuying received more systematic professional Xi, and his singing skills were also further improved.
After the Qingge Competition, Song Zuying appeared at the May Fourth Gala, which was also her first appearance on the stage of CCTV.
It was also in this performance that she was discovered by the director of the Spring Festival Gala and invited her to participate in the Spring Festival Gala.
In the Spring Festival Gala in 1990, she sang "Little Back Basket" on the stage.
Perhaps it is precisely because of the indescribable fate between her and the small basket that she is full of affection when she sings on the stage.
It is this song that makes audiences across the country remember her.
And thus began to usher in the highlight moment of her life, not only became a well-known singer, but also went abroad and spread the art of folk music to all over the world.
While her career is booming, her relationship has also moved.
Married to her boyfriend at the age of 26 and gave birth at the age of 39
After the Youth Song Competition, because she had to go back to Beijing to continue her studies, she and Luo Hao often exchanged letters.
Although the two are in a different place, they still can't stop Luo Hao's longing.
The letters bear witness to his concern and longing for Song Zuying.
In the long-term correspondence, although the two have not been able to see each other from time to time, they have become each other's most familiar confidants, and their love is beyond words.
After falling in love for a few years, Luo Hao finally mustered up the courage to propose to him.
Song Zuying rejected him directly, which made Luo Hao's heart ache.
It turned out that Song Zuying thought of the situation in her family, her father died early, her mother was old, and she had a younger sister and a deaf and dumb younger brother at home.
And the money she earns every month is directly subsidized by her mother for the family, so she rejected her boyfriend's marriage proposal.
After Luo Hao knew, he immediately rushed to Beijing without hesitation, and the first thing he said when he saw her was, your family is my family, especially your younger brother, I will treat him like a brother, and we will care for him together.
At the same time, he also said, "Your money is for the family, and my money is for you to spend!"
In 1992, the two entered the palace of marriage and created their own small family.
Luo Hao really took his wife's younger brother to take care of him, as he said.
In addition to taking care of her younger brother, Song Zuying persuaded her mother to find another wife in order to make her mother, who had worked hard for most of her life, happy.
After getting married, Song Zuying still performs everywhere, and Luo Hao has been silently supporting her behind his wife's back.
Since they got married, the two have been in different places until 2000.
Luo Hao is a very intelligent and talented person, and he is also a successful producer, "Yongzheng Dynasty", "Qia Classmate Boy" and so on are all produced by him.
The two support each other, achieve each other, and become an enviable couple in the circle.
Due to their busy careers, the two have been married for many years without children.
It wasn't until Song Zuying was 39 years old that the two had a child, and the birth of their son brought more happiness to the family.
After becoming a mother, Song Zuying slowed down her pace and gradually returned to her family, spending more time with her family.
She also started public welfare and established the Song Zuying Education Foundation to help children in the mountains who could not afford to go to school due to poverty.
Song Zuying, who is now 57 years old, and Luo Hao have been married for 31 years, but under the favor of her husband, she is still the same as when she was young, and she has not aged at all.
Even the figure is maintained like a girl.。
Her son has also grown up, has a happy marriage, a happy life, and has become a proper winner in life.
(Source: Records & Transmission)