My son and I went on an unexpected trip, and it took an unexpected turn.
It was supposed to be a trip to relax and unwind, but it backfired. During the trip, we had a car accident and the car turned upside down.
But I was deeply impressed by this unexpected experience.
Back home, I learned a piece of news that left me feeling a little unbelievable. The son's wife actually divorced him.
Although my daughter-in-law is usually not very good to me, the divorce still makes me feel a little surprised. Then, I found the message on the circle of friends, which turned out to be a place of sadness and last words.
I thought to myself, my daughter-in-law is still so distressing after all, she is like that car accident, I didn't expect it.
When I read these distressing messages, I felt like I had been told of an unfortunate thing.
My son comforted me while I told him all about it slowly.
"Son, do you know that your wife is divorced from you? This is what I saw on my circle of friends. ”
"But how sweet it is when you love each other. ”
"Mom, these things have passed, aren't you worried about my marriage?" the son looked a little displeased.
"Of course I'm worried, but—"
"But what? Don't you think I'm free now?"
"Yes, too. "I felt a little helpless.
Looking at my son's expression, I felt a little unbearable in my heart. The divorce must have caused a lot of turmoil at home.
I fell asleep late that night. Looking at the shadows on the ceiling, I had mixed feelings. I know that it would be a test for me to have something like this happen in my family.
The next day, I was about to have a good talk with my son when I heard news that surprised me even more. Just then, my phone rang, it was an unfamiliar number.
Feeling a little puzzled, I explained the reason to her and hung up the phone.
I wondered why there was such an arrangement on the spot. Just as I was pondering this question, my son walked in, looking a little embarrassed.
"Mom, I'll tell you one thing, don't be angry. ”
"What's the matter?" I had mixed feelings.
"This ...... There is a classmate who wants to put her child on our side to study. "My son is in a mess.
"How could such a thing suddenly happen?" I felt even more complicated.
I didn't expect that this sudden news in front of me would make me feel a little shocked. This family change made me feel even more upset.
I looked at my son's embarrassed expression, and my heart became even more uneasy. I knew that my son couldn't suddenly decide to take in a classmate's child to study.
I was shocked, this is really a troublesome thing. I understand that my son's classmates may have difficulties, but our family is already in chaos, and there is no need to get involved in these troubles.
"That's not going to work, we already have enough things going on in our family to take in a completely strange child.
"But Mom, this is a friend of mine, and her situation is really special. The son tried to explain.
"Special can't be messed around, you think about your family's situation. I angrily interrupted him.
"I know, but ......," the son stopped.
"But what? Don't you think our family is complicated enough?" I started to get a little emotionally out of control.
My son fell silent, and I looked into his eyes, a little helpless and guilty, which made me feel even more distressed.
Seeing my son silent, I suddenly felt very complicated in my heart. I know he must have his own problems, but things at home are already very difficult to deal with.
I took a deep breath and tried to stabilize my emotions.
The son's expression was a little complicated: "Mom, I will take care of it properly." ”
I know he made this decision because he wanted to help his friend, but I still feel upset.
This sudden accident plunged me into a more complex emotional entanglement. In the face of these family conflicts, I began to feel helpless and helpless.
Now, I need to think about how I'm going to deal with the next family struggles.
Shortly after that call, I learned another piece of news that shocked me. The children of my son's classmates are coming to our house to study, and after hearing the news, I was in a trance.
"Why did your classmate send his child to study with us?" I asked my son.
"Mom, she said that because of her work, she needs to go out for a while and can't take care of the children, so she discussed with me temporarily, maybe she will come to pick up the children after a while.
"How can you just decide to send your child to our house?
"Yes, but she said that other relatives in the neighborhood are very busy with work and it is not convenient to take care of the children. The son whispered.
"Mom, I know this arrangement is a little inconvenient for you, but ......" my son comforted.
"It's just a week, bear with me for another week!" I shook my head vigorously.
However, this week may have been quite a long time for me. I slowly accepted the arrangement.
The child is also sensible and is clearly a well-educated child.
Seeing that there is more such a child in the family, my heart is a little heavy. When something like this happened to my family, I couldn't help but feel a little worried, and I didn't know what else would happen next.
What's next, what's going ......?
Following my son's words, I was reminded of some of the past. There was a classmate who lived near our house, and the fact that her children were coming to school should become a new point of contention.
There are no schools within a radius of dozens of miles from our family, and the possibility of being selected is too small. It can be seen that my son is also a little embarrassed at this time, after all, it is impossible for us to easily accept other people's children to study.
"Mom, I really haven't had time to discuss this matter with you, and I don't know the specific situation. The son's voice was a little anxious, and he seemed to feel a little helpless about this sudden arrangement.
"I understand, and I really don't blame you for this. We need to think about it.
"Yes, I think we should talk to the parents of that classmate first. My son looked at me with a somewhat reassuring expression.
"Well, that's fine. We cannot simply accept such an arrangement. I thought silently in my heart.
As this uncertain situation continued to ferment, my inner tension became more and more conflicted. This sudden decision made me feel helpless for a while.
All of this caught me off guard. I know that there are more contradictions waiting for me to deal with.