Text丨 Wisdom and History
Editor丨Wisdom and History
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In 2021, Wen Hong, a veteran full of honors, learned that he was not born to his parents, and he didn't believe it at all at first.
Under the narration of his parents, Wen Hong learned about his life experience. It turned out that he came to his current parents when he was five years old because he went missing.
Wen Hongcai couldn't believe it, he never thought that such a bizarre thing would happen to him. When he learned of his background, Wen Hong fell into deep thought.
Later, his adoptive mother forced him to find his long-lost biological parents!
So, why did Wen Hongcai go missing at the age of five, and what choice should he make between his biological parents and his adoptive parents?
The source in this article is from the official media (Sichuan Watch), released on June 15, 2021, but in order to improve the readability of the article, the details may be polished, please read sensibly, for reference only!
A five-year-old boy who went missing
One winter day in 1993, a five-year-old boy was traveling with his parents on a train.
Approaching the Spring Festival, there was a lot of traffic at the train station, and due to the negligence of his parents, the little boy was separated from his parents in the crowd at the train station.
He didn't know what to do, and it was snowing heavily, so the little boy braved the snow to look for his parents.
But where does a child have a sense of direction at all, he walks aimlessly onto the road.
At this time, his parents still did not appear, because the weather was cold, and the little boy's face was already blue from the cold, and this little boy was Wen Hongcai, the protagonist of this article.
Just when he was helpless, Wen Deqiang, who was driving a truck, happened to pass by. At that time, because of the snow, there were no more cars on the road, and it was snowing so heavily that there was a little boy walking on the road, Wen Deqiang was very surprised.
Wen Deqiang, who was enthusiastic, got out of the car and asked the little boy where his family lived, and the five-year-old boy was so cold that his skin turned purple and he couldn't even speak.
Seeing that the snow was getting heavier and heavier, Wen Deqiang decided to take the little boy home first.
At this time, Wen Deqiang's wife, Zhou Yizhen, was waiting for her husband to come back at home, and the snow was too big, and she was worried about her husband's safety on the road.
After seeing Wen Deqiang arrive home, his wife was very happy. Just as she stepped forward to greet her, she found her husband picking up a wet little boy from the car.
The boy's clothes were already soaked and looked very pitiful. Zhou Yizhen is also a warm-hearted person, seeing the child like this, she quickly beckoned the child into the door.
The child didn't cry or make trouble at this time, Wen Deqiang felt that the child was very well-behaved, so he guided him to remind him of his home address while letting the child eat.
The boy was still too young to know his parents' contact information or home address. At this time, Zhou Yizhen knew that the boy was a child that her husband picked up from near the train station.
So the couple discussed what to do next, after all, leaving the child at home is not a problem.
The couple left their children at home for one night, and the next day when the snow stopped, Wen Deqiang drove the truck and took the child to the Chengdu Railway Station Police Station to report the case.
However, the police station has not yet received any reports of the child going missing, so the police decided to leave the child at the police station or send him to a welfare home to wait for his parents to be found.
Wen Deqiang said that the child is very well-behaved and can let him live in his own house first, and then send him back when his parents find him.
The police agreed to Wen's request, but what neither the police nor Wen Deqiang expected was that the boy had remained at Wen's home ever since.
Kind couple
After bringing the little boy home, Zhou Yizhen was also very happy. At that time, Wen Deqiang had two children in the family, but the eldest son was born with a disease.
Although it is difficult to raise a sick child, Zhou Yizhen and his wife have never been partial, nor have they thought of giving up on treating their child. In this way, the little boy lived in Wen Deqiang's house, and the couple raised him as their own child.
A few months later, their eldest son became more ill and passed away, much to their heart's content.
Looking at the boy who had not been claimed for several months, Zhou Yizhen proposed that the boy directly use the name of the deceased eldest son.
In fact, Zhou Yuzhen also has her own considerations, because the little boy is almost six years old and is about to enter elementary school.
If it continues like this, it will be difficult to even apply for a household registration, so the couple found the police station to explain the situation. In view of the fact that the little boy has not been claimed for a long time, the police decided to go through the adoption procedures for Zhou Yizhen and his wife.
Since then, this little boy has become Wen Hongcai. The days passed quickly, and Wen Hongcai grew up slowly under the careful nurturing of the couple, and he had forgotten about the loss of his childhood at the train station.
Wen Deqiang often joked that Wen Hong was the child he picked up, and the young Wen Hongcai didn't understand anything, thinking that his disobedient parents said this.
Later, Wen Deqiang no longer engaged in the freight industry, so the couple returned to their hometown with their two children. When he was studying in school, Wen Hongcai was very playful, and his grades in Xi were not outstanding.
But under Wen Deqiang's training, Wen Hongcai has a great sense of justice and a heart to serve the country. After graduating from high school, seeing that he couldn't get into college, Wen Hongcai put forward the idea of wanting to become a soldier.
His parents were very supportive, so Wen Hong entered the army with his parents' expectations.
Wen Hongcai dreamed of becoming a soldier since he was a child, and after entering the barracks, he actively devoted himself to training.
In his military career, Wen Hongcai has performed well, he has won many commendations, and his military uniform is full of honors.
After eight years of service in the army, Wen Hong was discharged. After returning home from the army, Wen Hongcai was very happy, because he missed his parents very much in the army.
But Wen Deqiang and his wife had some sorrow between their eyebrows, Wen Deqiang told his wife Zhou Yizhen that the child is now so old, he should tell him his life experience, otherwise this is unfair to the child.
Although his wife Zhou Yizhen was very painful, she still agreed to her husband's proposal. Wen Deqiang was also very uncomfortable with this decision, and he didn't want his son to leave him, but he had to tell his son about it.
During Wen Hongcai's service, Wen Deqiang suffered from serious illness due to perennial fatigue, but in order not to worry his son, he insisted on not letting his wife tell his son the news.
After Wen Hongcai was discharged from the army, he found that his father's body was very weak, and his parents' faces were full of sorrow.
So he kept asking, and Wen Deqiang first told Wen Hongcai the news that he was seriously ill. After listening, Wen Hongcai was very anxious, and he immediately took Wen Deqiang to the hospital.
But Wen Deqiang said that he still had something to say to Wen Hongcai, and then he told Wen Hongcai's life experience.
The more Wen Hongcai listened, the more bizarre he felt, he had only seen such things in the news, and he had never thought that his life experience would be so tortuous.
Then, Wen Deqiang said that he hoped to see Wen Hongcai find his biological parents in his lifetime, after all, it has been so many years, and the biological parents who were lost with Wen Hongcai must have spent it in guilt and pain.
After listening to his father's words, Wen Hong was at a loss, he thought that his background was enough to surprise him, but he didn't expect his father to let him find his biological parents.
In Wen Hongcai's eyes, Wen Deqiang and his wife are his biological parents, and even if he knows his background, he will not look for his biological parents.
But Wen Deqiang insisted that his son go to find his parents, otherwise he would not go to the hospital for treatment. couldn't resist his father, so Wen Hong had to symbolically go outside to look for a few laps. His heart was worried about his father's illness, and he didn't have the heart to do it at all.
Wen Hongcai said that he wanted Wen Deqiang to go to the hospital for treatment first, and then find his biological parents step by step. Wen Deqiang was very relieved, and in the hospital, he actively cooperated with the treatment, but unfortunately, due to the deterioration of his condition, Wen Deqiang still passed away.
Wen Hongcai was immersed in the pain of losing his father and couldn't extricate himself, and after he endured his grief and completed his father's funeral, his mother Zhou Yizhen actually asked him to find his biological parents.
Wen Hongcai didn't have this idea at all, and he immediately refused. But Zhou Yizhen began to understand and reason, and Wen Hong couldn't listen to it at all.
So, Zhou Yizhen did not hesitate to kick Wen Hongcai out of the house, and said that he would find his biological parents and come back.
The choice of finding a relative
Forced into desperation, Wen Hong had to listen to his mother's words to find his biological parents. He first came to the Chengdu Railway Station and left his identity and DNA information at the police station where Wen Deqiang reported the case.
After all, the technology at this time is no longer the same as at that time, and the police can find out Wen Hongcai's biological parents by comparing DNA information.
But Wen Hongcai was not hopeful, and unexpectedly, not long after, the police found a person with a parent-child relationship with Wen Hongcai's DNA in the national population disappearance information database.
When he saw the DNA identification results, Wen Hongcai had mixed feelings in his heart. Although he knew that he was not born to his parents, his heart was still twisted when he saw that the DNA matching book matched with other people.
Under the persuasion of his mother Zhou Yizhen and his sister, Wen Hong finally agreed to embark on the road of finding relatives.
Wen Hongcai, who is 31 years old, sat in a daze in the train looking for his biological parents, looking at the passing scenery outside the window, his eyes were full of tears.
In his heart, he is a member of the Wen family, and now that he has found his biological parents, how should he choose.
The train arrived in Suqian, Jiangsu, and after getting off the train, Wen Hong saw a banner holding a banner to greet his biological parents' family.
The biological parents ran towards Wen Hongcai, and their eyes were already shining with tears. They took their long-lost biological son into their arms and wept silently.
Wen Hongcai understood the feelings of his biological parents, and he quietly leaned on their arms. After arriving at his biological parents' house, Wen Hong met his relatives at home.
It turned out that Wen Hongcai's original surname was Xie, his father's name was Xie Zhenquan, and his mother's name was Chen Fuzhen. In Wen Hongcai's doubts, his biological parents explained to him the reason why Wen Hongcai was not found after he went missing.
It turned out that Xie Zhenquan and his wife took Wen Hongcai to visit relatives, and Xie Zhenquan and Wen Hongcai came down to breathe halfway. Unexpectedly, there were too many people on the bus at that time, and the three of them were separated for a while.
Originally thought that their young son would run back to the seat by himself, Xie Zhenquan and his wife didn't think much about it and hurriedly got on the bus before departure, only to find out that their son was not in the seat at all!
After searching for each carriage, Xie Zhenquan found that his son was really not in the car. The husband and wife immediately got off the bus at the nearest station and called the police, but the technology was not developed at that time, so Wen Hongcai's whereabouts were never found.
For so many years, Xie Zhenquan and his wife have not given up the search for Wen Hongcai for a moment, but they have never heard from him. After learning the reason for his loss, Wen Hong was relieved.
Wen Hongcai and his biological father
Wen Hongcai proposed to return to his adoptive mother, and said that he would often visit Xie Zhenquan and his wife in the future.
This request was agreed by Xie Zhenquan and his wife, and the lost decades of family affection are irretrievable, but there is still a long time to come, and they firmly believe that the family relationship with their son will be recast.
Since then, Wen Hongcai has been going back and forth between his adoptive mother and his biological parents, for Wen Hongcai's biological parents, finding their biological son has untied the knot for many years, and this is already the best ending!