Father's love is the mother's quiet, the mother's quiet is the son's peace, the son's peace is the family's peace, and the family and everything is prosperous.
This sentence comes from the "Tao Te Ching", which tells the secret of family getting along, but most people don't know the first half of this sentence, and only know the sentence "family and everything is prosperous".
Family harmony is the premise of everything is prosperous, but many people forget that the premise of family harmony is father's love, mother's quietness, and son's peace, and the three are closely linked and indispensable.
The reason why I forgot it is that most of it is that real life is not so wishy-seeking, accompanied by a certain amount of quarrels. But after the quarrel, it is always the child who is hurt.
Around January 8, such an incident happened in Shantou, Guangdong
On this day, the little boy in a red sweatshirt and black pants slowly walked from one part of the alley to another.
As he walked, the boy looked around from time to time, and from time to time turned his head to see if there was anyone behind him.
Not far from the boy was a gate with an electric car parked in the doorway, with a canopy on it.
After a few steps, the boy walked over to an electric car, twisted his body, and looked behind him, as if observing something.
The boy observed for a while, finding no one, turned his head to look at the wall in front of him, and the next action shocked everyone.
His knees jerked to the ground, as if praying for something.
Seeing this, I couldn't help but feel sorry for this little boy, what did he go through?
The little boy was not far from the mouth of the alley, and while kneeling, the boy did not forget to listen to the footsteps.
At this time, a woman not far away passed by the alley, and the little boy seemed to hear the footsteps, so he quickly raised his knees, pretending to be casual, and kept looking around, as if nothing had happened.
If there is something to guess about the boy kneeling just now, his next behavior directly confirms the sentence "The little boy must have something to kneel".
Just after the pedestrians had passed, the little boy wandered to the mouth of the alley, found no one, and returned to where he had been kneeling.
This time, the child did not simply kneel, after he knelt, he kept putting his hands together, shaking back and forth, and his forehead rested on his folded hands, as if praying to the gods.
The boy seemed to be not religious, and after a few prayers, he bent down and kowtowed a few more times.
It is said that "only when you are hopeless and helpless do you think of the gods." What difficulties did the little boy encounter?
When the video was released, it attracted a lot of attention.
Some people are so sad to watch, especially after becoming a mother, they really can't see this.
Some people also say that they want the child's father to give the child a hug.
Others remembered their own experiences.
But why did the child kneel down and pray to the gods?
Shortly after the video was released, a reporter contacted the publisher of the video, the child's father, who explained the video.
It turned out that on the day the child knelt, the child's father and mother quarreled, and the child saw the quarrel scene, probably frightened, so he knelt.
As for why I saw this video, I saw it inadvertently when I was looking at the replay of the surveillance video.
Seeing this, he suddenly understood that it was the gods who knelt down for the child, and at that moment he prayed to the gods not to let his parents quarrel.
The man is also a father, and when he saw the child's performance, he felt very remorseful, and vowed to treat the child well.
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At this point, the truth about the child's kneeling has been revealed to the world.
But this scene still poked the sadness of countless people or families, and the incident comment area revealed a certain side of the truth of many families.
Some children have not had father's love and mother's love since they were young, but fortunately they have been loved by their mother-in-law.
Some children spend time in the quarrels of their parents, become inferior and sensitive, and even have a pleasing personality.
Some intimate advice that family is tolerance and love.
Either way, the child is innocent.
It's not so much that parents can't do anything, but that children are the ones who are the most powerless, which is like encountering what they want to do at the most incompetent age.
Parents don't want to quarrel either, but as this parent said, "it's hard to control your feelings".
If it is really difficult to control yourself, at least not in front of your child, at least during the formation of the basic character of childhood.
What do you think about this?