The old man of the Li family has now stepped into the threshold of a long sixty years and has spent a long time of loneliness. Recently, however, his life situation has taken an unexpected turn. The old man Li seemed to meet the woman who had touched his heartstrings deeply. The moment they met for the first time, the two of them talked happily as if they had been separated for a long time in the previous life and could be reunited in this life.
The old man Li felt that time was quietly passing by his side, and he rekindled his yearning for love, hoping to spend the next years with this beautiful couple. However, just as he was looking forward to the first night of the two, the beautiful woman was unpredictable and politely declined his request to stay overnight. This scene is quite dramatic and ridiculous. Here, we might as well delve into this reality. The old man Li is past the age of retirement, and although his monthly pension is not large, it is enough to maintain his simple living expenses. He is good at being diligent and thrifty, and will reasonably plan the remaining funds for saving. Since the moment he lost his partner, he has lived a lonely and quiet life. He deeply missed his beloved wife, and at the same time deeply felt the pain of parting.
This unexpected emotion made the old man Li fall into confusion. His hopes for the future have always revolved around the beautiful woman with whom he longs to spend his old age, however, the beautiful woman seems to have other plans in mind. Perhaps, she was reluctant to take on the responsibilities of caring for the elderly. Or maybe she's caught up in other emotional bonds. Whatever the reason, the old man Li is faced with a grim choice: whether to stick to this affection, or let go and let the beautiful woman have the right to choose freely. Ever since I lost my wife, my rhythm seems to have become chaotic. Without every meal she prepares, I have less requirements for my personal diet Xi. Sometimes they can only make up for some meals, or rely on food delivery services. Despite my son's repeated offers to let me move in with him, I never agreed. He has a busy career and travels a lot, and his grandson is also boarding at the school and can only return to visit me once a week. When I'm home alone, I'm more relaxed and comfortable, they come to see me when they have free time, and I can visit them whenever I want, which is a fun way to get along.
Every morning, I would play chess, fish and other leisure activities with my old friends, but whenever they returned home, they were always greeted by relatives, and every time I returned, I was the only one who faced the hunger at noon, and there was no one to come to comfort and care, and it was really an inextricable sense of loneliness. To be honest, I really hope to find a soulmate. When I need to rest, someone with me will make me a cup of tea and a pot of warm porridge, and on a normal day, as long as I have a heartfelt listener, my life will be more fulfilling.
Fortunately, at this time, my old friend Zhang's mother had insight into my deep inner distress. So, she invited her old wife, Li Qingmei, to introduce me to a suitable partner. Li Qingmei, who is four years younger than me and is now 62 years old, is still alone, living alone in my neighbourhood. She has a daughter, but her daughter is married overseas, so she can only be lonely. On the day we first met, I had a good initial impression of Li Qingmei. She was neatly dressed, dignified in temperament, white and flawless in skin, and graceful in shape, obviously more youthful and lively than her actual age. I went to her house for dinner and found that she was very skilled in making lip makeup, very close to the skills of my wife. In the kitchen, she is even more unique, tidying up the home with a new look. Since then, Li Qingmei and I have been in close contact with each other, often going to the supermarket together, strolling the streets at night, and even joining a senior tour group to go out of China and experience the exotic scenery on the spot. Li Qingmei has a considerate personality, treats people kindly, and cares for me. Every time I go out to participate in various activities, she always goes out of her way to make sure that everything is in order for me.
On the long road to true love, we will inevitably face many unexpected obstacles and challenges. Taking my personal experience as an example, my lover Li Qingmei and I decided to join hands in a new stage of living together in a short period of time, but at this moment, a seemingly ordinary "snoring" problem was like an insurmountable gap in front of us. Before the start of cohabitation, I never imagined that snoring would become a problem that would haunt our minds, let alone become a stumbling block to our emotional development. I've been sleeping well for a long time, so I didn't realize the severity of my snoring problem. However, Li Qingmei suffered from this problem.
Li Qingmei is a deep sleeper who has a high demand for a calm and peaceful atmosphere. However, my snoring resounding through the beams of the room caused her endless trouble. She tried various tactics, such as sleeping or covering her head with objects, but none of them stopped my snoring. Over time, this seemingly minor issue gradually evolved into a point of conflict in our relationship. On a complicated night, Li Qingmei resolutely expressed her homesickness to me. She couldn't stand my snoring anymore and was afraid that she would be mentally depressed due to long-term insomnia. She even threatened with her life, indicating that if she continued like this, her life would be in danger. I was shocked by the situation, and never expected her reaction to such a small question.
My first girlfriend had mentioned my snoring, but she seemed to have gotten used to it, even using a pillow as a disguise to hide my snoring. This led me to misjudge that I had successfully solved the problem. However, Li Qingmei could not adapt. What love requires is understanding, affection, and moderate compromise on both sides. As time passed, I gradually realized that if I wanted to build a happy period with Li Qingmei, I had to face up to this problem and deal with it properly. So, I began to actively seek a solution. I consulted with medical experts in the field and got some suggestions for improvement, including changing my sleeping position, controlling my weight, and trying a variety of sleep aids such as anti-snoring devices.
After actually understanding her distress, I sincerely proposed a solution to her. I told her that I would try to sleep in a different room until the next morning to discuss with her how to avoid the sound of snoring at night from interfering with her normal routine. Concerned that my act of kindness had not served its intended purpose, I was left alone in another room to reflect on how I could better take care of her. The next morning, Li Qingmei and I sat down and discussed each other's opinions in depth. I made it clear that I would continue to be by her side on the sofa and share happy moments, but if I felt tired, I would choose to leave and create a quiet and comfortable sleeping environment for her. At the same time, I promised to seek medical help in an effort to cure the snoring problem. I hope that whatever the end result, we should stick to the schedule.
She did not oppose my proposal, but showed a willingness to try to understand and accept it. She thinks we can try cohabitation first and observe the progress before making a decision. These remarks made me feel that there was finally a light at the end of the tunnel. I don't know exactly what awaits us in the future, but I am confident that if we work together to get through this together, we will be able to have a bright and fulfilling future. I know that such a solution makes good sense. Through this period of cohabitation, we will not only be able to appreciate the differences in our lives more deeply and improve our ability to tolerate each other, but also better explore the common ground between the two parties to achieve harmony. In the process, we will cherish each other's company and gain a deeper understanding of each other's inner world.
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