In China's hundreds of years of history, there are too many good stories, in the modern Republic of China, an era of only 38 years, on the one hand, there is a warlord melee situation, the invasion of foreign powers, on the other hand, there are countless talented and beautiful people emancipating their minds and actively exploring the way out of China's future. Everyone has broken the shackles of feudal thoughts, chased their own beliefs and chased their own love.
At that time, there was the prodigal poet Xu Zhimo, and Mr. Lu Xun, who used the pen as a knife, and a group of talented women also emerged, such as Lin Huiyin, Lu Xiaoman, etc., which we are familiar with. These people have left an indelible mark on that era with their talents.
Among them, Bingxin is also a veritable talented woman, but Bingxin connived at her son's cheating, and after her death, her grandson angrily denounced in front of her grave: In vain, there is no way to teach your son!
Ice hearts of love and sunshine
Bingxin's original name was Xie Wanying, a woman who has carried love and sunshine all her life. I believe you still remember that you read Bingxin's "Send a Little Reader" when you were a child, and Bingxin in this book is not a cold talented woman in the Republic of China, but a confidant big sister.
In the course of narration, children are taught love and enlightenment.
The author still remembers that in the article, a sentence describing family affection, "The sunlight passing through the pine trees is your brother's messenger, and the cool wind at night is the comfort of your flesh and blood." At that time, I didn't understand what the charm of this sentence was, but as I grew older, everyone stepped out of the house and left the familiar family, and I really understood the warmth behind this sentence.
The warmth and sunshine in Bingxin's heart are also inextricably linked to the family she grew up in. Bingxin was born in Fujian in 1900 to a happy family.
At that time, Bingxin's father was a well-known local naval officer, and the family was also very loving, with three children in the family, Bingxin was the youngest child, and she also had two older brothers, but Bingxin's two brothers died unfortunately.
As the youngest child in the family, Bingxin has the most tenacious vitality, Bingxin seems to carry the endless hope and happiness of the family, and Bingxin has also become a little lucky star in the family.
Because my father was an officer in the navy, I needed to go on assignments for a long time, and my mother was often the only one at home. The fatherly love that Bing Xin feels is also conveyed by her mother, and it is often wrapped in Bing Xin with warm love.
At that time, the young Bingxin often asked her mother: Mom, why do you love me? The mother always rubbed Bingxin's head with a smile and replied, "Because you are my daughter." ”
The warm answer also sinked into Bingxin's heart like a marshmallow. If Bingxin grew up in love and sunshine since she was a child, she would treat the world with infinite warmth and love.
Start a family, husband and children
Children who grow up in such a family do not lack loving care, and they will be more rational in their treatment of love, Bingxin believes that they should not deliberately look for love, but wait for love to come.
Bingxin is lucky, in 1923, under a coincidence, Bingxin met Wu Wenzao, Bingxin was attracted by Wu Wenzao's frankness when they met for the first time, and the two were even more familiar at first sight, and seemed to have endless words, and the two quickly fell in love.
In 1929, the two walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, and the two also supported each other, although the long life was inevitably a little stumbling, and it was inevitable to quarrel and separate, but they were still able to reconcile as before, accompany each other for life, and grow old with their sons with their sons.
Bingxin also gave birth to three children, of which the eldest son Wu Ping is the eldest son and the most beloved child by Bingxin. Bingxin also spent a lot of energy and money to train Wu Ping, and sent his children to a famous school in Tokyo, Japan.
Although he has read the books of sages and sages and is also knowledgeable, Wu Ping has not been corrected in his view of love. Bingxin thinks that as long as she gives her son enough tolerance, her son will definitely change under the washing of time.
But Wu Ping is a typical science student, who was not emotionally emotionalized by Bingxin's warmth, but one-sidedly pursued his so-called romantic love, and even cheated in marriage. All this is the reason for today's farce with the same title.
Broken families
In the Chinese Cultural Celebrity Sculpture Memorial Park near Badaling, Beijing, the tombs of Bingxin and Wu Wenzao are laid to rest here. But on the last day of May 2012, the revered tombstone was badly damaged, with the words "Godson has no way, in vain" written in red paint, and it was Bingxin's grandson Wu Shan who did it.
It turned out that Wu Shan's father, Wu Ping, was Bingxin's eldest son, but when Wu Shan was very young, his father Wu Ping openly cheated in marriage on the grounds of pursuing romantic love.
After Wu Ping's mother Chen Lingxia gave birth to her son, she did not pay attention to her husband and suffered from postpartum depression, but Wu Ping directly intensified it and had an outer room outside. And at that time, Chen Lingxia also suffered from cancer, and her physical condition was deteriorating, her husband not only did not come back to fulfill her husband's responsibilities, not only did not go home every day, but even filed for divorce from Chen Lingxia.
But at that time, Bingxin thought that more responsibility was on her daughter-in-law Chen Lingxia in the face of her son's behavior, and she naturally had to solve it by herself if she didn't protect her husband's heart, and turned a blind eye to her son's behavior, and this attitude of inaction undoubtedly exacerbated the speed of family collapse.
With the death of Bingxin, his property was also distributed to his children, but Wu Ping was unwilling to hand over part of it to Wu Shan, after six years of lawsuits, this property is still in Wu Ping's hands, Wu Shan thought that his mother was repeatedly tortured in illness, and Wu Shan's resentment towards Bingxin reached its peak.
There was also the next part of the farce, Wu Shan led a large number of people to the tombstone, and wrote in red paint the eight characters of "In vain as a teacher, there is no way to teach children". This scene is also embarrassing.
Brief summary:
After the incident, Wu Shan also realized his mistake, and later apologized to the staff, and publicly apologized on social media, saying that he wanted to use the power of public opinion to get the inheritance he deserved to treat his mother.
Bingxin blindly connived at his son's cheating in the name of love, and after his death, his grandson angrily reprimanded him at his grave, showing for himself in vain, and having no way to teach his son, how much sadness is behind such a farce.