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It was a sunny weekend when I received a message from my brother: "I'm getting married!" and the news came out of nowhere and overwhelmed me. My younger brother is the darling of the family and has been pampered since childhood, while I, although I work hard, I am not so conspicuous in the family. This time, my younger brother got married, and I think it must be indispensable to the financial support of the family. My mother believed that I would support my brother, but my husband objected.
"If your brother gets married, I will give 100,000. I said to my mother.
My mother happily praised me for being sensible when she heard the news, and she seemed to have more expectations for me. "Good boy, sensible and well-behaved. ”
But the husband said coldly: "Don't come back after attending your brother's wedding." ”
This sentence was like a basin of cold water poured on my head, and I seemed to feel his indifference and incomprehension to me. I could even feel a hint of jealousy and resentment in his tone. Yes, I have always been a strong woman, but I also have my weaknesses. I crave understanding and support, not apathy and jealousy.
"Why?" I wondered, "don't you understand me?"
"I understand, but I can't accept that you are blindly supporting at home and ignoring our lives and futures. The husband was indifferent, but a little helpless.
I was silent, my heart full of contradictions and struggles. I've always struggled to choose between family and career. My brother's marriage made me feel this struggle and division again. I wanted to support him, but I didn't want to be too low-key in the family. This contradiction makes it difficult for me to choose, and it also makes me feel tired and helpless.
"You've always been like this, always sacrificing yourself for the sake of your family. My mother's words made me feel distressed, "Child, mother knows your hardships and efforts, but you also have to think about yourself. ”
I listened to my mother's words and felt a wave of emotion in my heart. Yes, I have been giving for my family and neglecting my own needs and emotions. My brother gets married, and of course I have to support him, but I also need to fight for some space and respect for myself. How do I balance my family and career?
My brother's wedding is coming, and I prepared a gift of 100,000 yuan and blessed him and the bride at the wedding banquet. When I saw my brother's happy smile, my heart was filled with a hint of relief and satisfaction. My husband was silently pouring wine for me, his eyes full of understanding and support.
My brother's wedding has made me grow a lot. In the rest of my life, I will face the problems of my family and career more rationally and maturely, and no longer let myself fall into contradictions and struggles. Every family member has their own values and needs, and we should understand and support each other, instead of blaming each other and being indifferent. This is what a happy and happy family should look like.
After the wedding, my husband and I regained our balance of mutual understanding and support, and our lives gradually became more harmonious and fulfilling. However, the atmosphere at home has changed. My mother was even more gentle and supportive to me.
"Child, I never realized that you have so much stress and contradictions, and you have been under the double pressure of family and career. My mother looked at me with understanding and love in her eyes, "You don't have to sacrifice yourself all the time to make your family happy. ”
I was moved to look at my mother, her understanding and support, and I deeply felt the warmth and care between my family. Yes, family members should not accommodate each other, but should understand and respect each other. I saw an open sea from my mother's eyes, which allowed me to lean on and vent the grievances in my heart. At this time, I deeply realized that for a family, it is never necessary to force itself to maintain a certain posture, which is what a family should really be.
"Yes, Mom, I'm really hard. I sobbed with emotion, "My brother is getting married, although I am very happy, there are also many contradictions and struggles. ”
"Child, you don't have to take responsibility for everything in the family, we are a united and harmonious family and everyone should be responsible for their own lives. My mother patted my hand gently, and her every word gently brushed my heart, "In the future, as long as it is the best choice for yourself, I will fully support you." ”
At this time, I felt a warm current surging up from the bottom of my heart, and my heart was greatly relieved and comforted. Yes, the family is a warm harbor, and the family should understand and support each other, not blame each other and be indifferent. Although my brother's marriage brought me a lot of conflicts and struggles, it also made me understand the importance of care and understanding between my family. Yes, the picture of the unity and harmony of the family is as beautiful as I expected. No longer insist on accommodating others, no longer sacrificing oneself to please others, such a family is truly happy.
When I returned home, my husband was still waiting for me. He looked at me and smiled slightly, "You're in a much better mood when you go home this time, right?"
I nodded and looked at my husband gratefully, "yes, thank you for your understanding and support. My heart is full of gratitude and happiness, "In the future, we should face our families and careers more rationally and maturely, and understand and support each other." ”
"Yes, we will overcome all the difficulties together. My husband squeezed my hand, his eyes were full of firmness and tenderness, "Our family will definitely be happier." ”
In the face of my husband's understanding and support, my heart is filled with great comfort and happiness. Yes, our families need to understand and support each other, not blame each other and be indifferent. I will be more rational and mature in facing the problems of family and career, and find a balance. "We will overcome all the difficulties together and welcome each day together. "Over the years, I have become more mature and rational. The younger brother's wedding is the end of this phase and a new beginning. In my future life, I will be more rational and mature in facing the problems of family and career, and find a balance.
Life is constantly evolving, but our hearts are still open, cherishing each other's understanding and support. These experiences have made me a resolute character, and I will be more courageous in the future, and no longer let myself be caught in struggles and contradictions. May our family always be warm and harmonious.
After the wedding, my brother and bride embarked on a new life journey, and my husband and I were slowly adjusting to the atmosphere of the family. That day, my husband and I sat in the living room and watched the video of the wedding scene.
"You see, my brother's smile is so bright. I said, pointing to the frame in the video.
The husband smiled and nodded, "yes, I can see he's happy." ”
"yes, I'm glad he found his happiness too. "And I've learned a lot about how important it is for family members to understand and support each other." ”
"Yes, there is no substitute for the understanding and support between family members. The husband said with deep feelings, "The marriage of my brother has made us more united. ”
I nodded and looked at my husband gratefully, "Yes, we will face our family and career more rationally and maturely in the future, and understand and support each other." ”
"Yes, we can overcome all the difficulties together and welcome each day together. My husband squeezed my hand, his eyes were full of firmness and tenderness, "Our family will definitely be happier." ”
"Yes, our families will be happier. I smiled and nodded, "In later life, we will face the problems of family and career more rationally and maturely, and find a balance." ”
Life is constantly evolving, but our hearts are still open, cherishing each other's understanding and support. These experiences have made me resilient and brave. I no longer allow myself to be caught up in struggles and contradictions. May our family always be warm and harmonious.
My husband and I have gained a lot of understanding and support, and our family has gradually become warm and harmonious. Gradually, I found myself becoming more rational and mature in the face of things. I will no longer blindly sacrifice myself, but will be more courageous to stand up for my values. My brother's wedding was a turning point, which taught me more and made me face the future with more confidence.
One day, I went to the supermarket with my husband and I saw a bag of my dad's favorite snacks and stopped to buy them. I found that the price was much more expensive than I remembered. I couldn't help but frown and complained, "It's a lot more expensive than before." ”
My husband took my hand with a smile: "It's okay, we still have a chance." ”
"yes, you can wait until the next discount to buy it. I smiled and agreed.
Our relationship has become more harmonious and we are confident about our future life. This younger brother's marriage was a turning point in our family and made us understand and respect each other more. I will continue to work hard to become a more rational and mature person and bring more warmth and happiness to my family. Life is like a cup of coffee, bitter and sweet, and we have learned to taste the sweetness.
As we continued to walk around the supermarket, looking at all kinds of goods, I suddenly felt that the details of life were also full of endless joy of life.
Suddenly, my husband suggested, "Why don't we try to make dinner together?" ”
I nodded, "Great, maybe we can try to make something new." ”
Back at home, my husband and I started discussing dinner plans for the weekend. I picked up my notebook and started making a list of ingredients, and my husband listened attentively as he made his own suggestions. In this process, I felt a warm current surging up from the bottom of my heart, and the warmth and happiness in my life seemed to permeate the whole home.
Watching my husband carefully search for recipes, I suddenly felt that this kind of life might be what real home looks like. It is not a single person who maintains and takes care of everything, but a process of cooperation and joint efforts. In life, we will surely bring understanding and support to each other to create more warmth and happiness for the family together. This wedding not only changed the atmosphere of our family, but also made me realize that no matter what happens, the understanding and support between family members is the most valuable. This kind of warmth and happiness is what a real home should look like. May our family always be warm and harmonious.
At the weekend, we prepared a dinner as planned. My husband arranges the ingredients neatly, and I start cooking according to the recipe. Throughout the process, we cooperated with each other, busy and happy. A burst of aroma spread, and I looked up at my husband and couldn't help but smile.
The husband also smiled, "Yes, you were always busy alone in the past, but this time we did it together, and it felt very different." ”
This dinner is much more than a simple dinner, it represents our understanding and support for each other, and it is a microcosm of the warmth of our family. Yes, the warmth of home is created by everyone. In the face of such beauty, I am more and more convinced that our family will be full of warmth and happiness.