"If I don't marry the rich second generation, my appearance, my figure, and my beautiful character, character, and even soul will be ruined!"
In 2014, in a blind date show, a female guest named Zhou Lanjun said this sentence. At this time, she was still a sophomore, but she had very strict mate selection criteria: "If you are not 50 million rich second generations, you will not marry."
As soon as this remark came out, Zhou Lanjun's "money worship" remarks soon caused heated discussions on the Internet, and she herself was pushed to the forefront of public opinion.
After many years, has Zhou Lanjun realized her dream?
Zhou Lanjun
"I only marry the second generation of the rich"
In 2014, blind date variety shows were very popular and were deeply loved by men, women and children. A show called "Blind Date to Win" was born, attracting a number of single men and women to sign up.
When screening guests, the program team found a very interesting female college student, her mate selection criteria were short and strict, only the words "marrying into a wealthy family".
Out of curiosity, the program team invited Zhou Lanjun to the program group.
In the preparation process, the staff asked Zhou Lanjun about the criteria for choosing a mate, and she did not hesitate: "I only marry the second generation of the rich, and I don't marry the second generation of the 50 million rich!"
Her straightforwardness and confidence made the staff a little curious, and they asked, "Can your criteria be more specific?"
Zhou Lanjun further added: "There is no other consideration, I don't consider the rich generation, potential stocks, and the second generation of the rich in rural areas, I only need the rich second generation in big cities with an annual income of 10 million." ”
The staff looked at each other, they still couldn't understand Zhou Lanjun's thoughts, and continued to ask, "Why are you only obsessed with this standard?"
Zhou Lanjun replied confidently: "With conditions like mine, if you don't marry the rich second generation, it will be the biggest failure in your life." If I don't marry the rich second generation, my appearance, my figure, my beautiful character, character, and even my soul will be ruined!"
The staff was amused by Zhou Lanjun's "wonderful" remarks, and couldn't help but tease: "Then what advantages do you have? You must know that many rich second generations from superior families have very picky parents. ”
Zhou Lanjun's father works in a state-owned enterprise, his mother is unemployed, and the family relies on his father to make money, and his family background can only be regarded as average. Zhou Lanjun himself studied at Zhejiang Gongshang University and has a certain understanding of qin, chess, calligraphy and painting, and his appearance is not particularly outstanding.
Objectively speaking, Zhou Lanjun's conditions in all aspects are not bad, but he is far from reaching the level of "matching the household" with the rich second generation who earns tens of millions of dollars a year.
After listening to her basic situation, the staff tactfully reminded: "Your shoes don't fit well." ”
But apparently Zhou Lanjun didn't hear the overtones of this, and she confidently said her "advantages": "I have an independent personality, which is very rare among the public. ”
"I once consulted on a blind date website, and the matchmaker said that according to my height, weight, family and ideological conditions, I will definitely be able to marry a rich second generation worth tens of millions, so I think the standard I set is very in line with my own conditions. ”
The staff saw that she had completed logical self-consistency, and it was difficult to be convinced, so they had to start helping her find a blind date according to Zhou Lanjun's conditions.
Bumpy blind date road
A few days later, the program team really contacted a rich second generation, and the family property of more than 100 million yuan met Zhou Lanjun's requirements. A few days later, under the arrangement of the program team, Zhou Lanjun and the rich second generation agreed to go on a blind date in a hotel.
On the same day, Zhou Lanjun was wearing a purple dress and rushed to the hotel early to wait accompanied by the host.
Finally found the blind date he liked, Zhou Lanjun was very excited, and couldn't help but pick up the fruit platter and eat it before the rich second generation arrived.
Seeing that Zhou Lanjun completely ignored the existence of the camera and ate alone, the host couldn't stand it anymore, and persuaded Zhou Lanjun to pay attention to his image.
After the man arrived, the two began a formal blind date, and at first they chatted quite well.
But when it came to the requirements of both parties, Zhou Lanjun's words made the man's face change immediately: "I hope that your parents can distinguish between right and wrong, tolerate their daughter-in-law, have good moral character and a pragmatic attitude, otherwise it will be difficult for us to get along." ”
Although the man was slightly unhappy, he did not show it directly, but kept his demeanor and asked: "After getting married, how should you live your life, do you have any ideas?"
Zhou Lanjun replied confidently: "I will help you run the industry to make money, and leave the child in the care of my parents." ”
Such an answer is obviously not the same as the man, who wants his children to receive a good and complete family education, rather than find someone who can help him earn money.
The man continued, "Do you have any skills, such as piano, chess, calligraphy and painting?"
As soon as he said this, Zhou Lanjun was immediately deflated, and could only reply vaguely: "Although I am not very proficient in these, I can learn slowly after I have sufficient economic conditions." ”
The man held back a smile and replied with some embarrassment: "Is it difficult to register for a class for you?"
Because the two have very different concepts, this blind date finally broke up. But Zhou Lanjun did not give up her ideas, and she did not think that the failure of this blind date was her own problem.
Although this rich second generation is very rich, he can only provide himself with financial support and does not let her participate in his career, which makes her so strong and independent unacceptable.
At Zhou Lanjun's insistence, the program team had to find another man for her.
Although the man this time is not worth 50 million, he has made good achievements in his career at a young age and has high potential. But when talking about his plans for the future, Zhou Lanjun's words once again made the man unable to sit still.
She felt that she was not inferior to popular female stars in wisdom and diligence, and wanted to develop on the road to stardom, which embarrassed the program team.
This man is a real person, he really knows some bosses in the film and television industry, and said that he can help Zhou Lanjun develop in this area.
But the man's kindness was regarded by Zhou Lanjun as "pretending to be an X man", and he also provoked a thorn in the other party's education and family background.
Listening to Zhou Lanjun's words becoming more and more sharp, the host couldn't help but bluntly say that Zhou Lanjun deliberately made things difficult for the other party because the man was not a rich second generation.
Zhou Lanjun did not admit it, nor did he deny it, and this blind date also ended in failure.
Even so, Zhou Lanjun still said: "I won't give up my own ideas, even if the show can't help me find it, I will work hard through other methods!"
Behind the belief
After the broadcast of this show, Zhou Lanjun's strange behavior and remarks attracted widespread attention on the Internet, and many netizens criticized her for being too "money worshippers".
Some netizens think that this is because the program team directed and acted in this play in order to attract traffic.
In the face of overwhelming doubts from netizens, the program team hurriedly posted evidence, claiming that Zhou Lanjun was not hyped by the program team, and all her behaviors, thoughts and remarks were true portrayals of her, and pointed out that "there are many misunderstandings in her ideas".
In this way, netizens once again pointed the finger at Zhou Lanjun, and all kinds of criticism and ridicule poured towards her.
Zhou Lanjun originally wanted to use the exposure of the show to realize his dream of becoming a "wealthy independent broadie", but he didn't want to be labeled as a "money worshipper" by netizens.
So what did she go through to have such an idea?
It turned out that the reason why she regarded marrying the rich second generation as her lifelong dream had a lot to do with her original family environment.
Her father has a lot of say in the family, while her mother, who has a low salary, is submissive, which makes Zhou Lanjun bury the dream of crossing classes through marriage since she was a child.
After the college entrance examination, she could have applied for 211 colleges and universities with her results, but in order to get in touch with Gao Fushuai, she chose to go to Zhejiang University to go to university.
Although Zhou Lanjun's grades are excellent, due to the harsh mate selection conditions and strong personality, she has never been able to find a rich second-generation boyfriend.
At the beginning, the "evaluation" of those matchmakers made her believe in her own ideas, so there was a series of things later.
When the blind date program was broadcast, Zhou Lanjun's previously peaceful life ushered in earth-shaking changes.
She became a "celebrity" in the school, and no matter where she went, she always caused others to whisper, and even the teachers looked at her differently.
After graduating, many companies rejected her resume due to the influence of the label of "money worship", which made her hit a wall everywhere in her life.
Under the huge pressure of public opinion, Zhou Lanjun had no choice but to come forward again and apologize for his inappropriate remarks.
Although some people didn't buy this apology, fortunately, the heat of this matter finally subsided, and her life gradually returned to peace.
She did not go to graduate school, get married, or have children as she originally thought, but chose to start a business.
It is worth mentioning that although Zhou Lanjun's concept of love is different from ordinary people, her learning ability and Xi spirit are indeed very strong.
While devoting herself to work, she obtained many professional certificates, and after several years of hard work, her career and life gradually got on the right track.
After accumulating a certain amount of experience and funds, Zhou Lanjun returned to his hometown of Xiamen and founded a network technology company.
On April 1, 2020, Zhou Lanjun released a dynamic, which is enough to witness the change in her mental journey along the way.
Now she is over 30 years old, although she is still alone, she has a new pursuit of life.
She often updates her personal account, sharing some of her hobbies such as tea art, painting, archery, cooking, etc., which can be described as wide-ranging.
Obviously, after experiencing the tempering of society, she has let go of the past and her original obsession.
Perhaps with the gradual maturity of her mind, she has understood a truth: what she gets by hard work is as erratic as rootless duckweed, and the only thing that can really keep her through the wind and waves is down-to-earth efforts.
What do you think makes Zhou Lanjun's attitude towards life change so much? In your opinion, what is the standard of "the right person"? Let's talk about it together~
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