However, as time passed, something happened in the home. I have an older brother, his name is Li Jun, he is the only son in the family, and he has always had high hopes from his family.
Until that day, the family fell into a sudden dispute.
It was an ordinary afternoon, and Li Jun suddenly came home with a strange woman and announced a big news - he was getting married.
Li Jun resolutely said that this was his own choice, and his family could not interfere, let alone veto.
Afterwards, I learned that this woman was Li Jun's assistant who had worked hard in the city for many years, and the relationship between the two gradually developed.
At home, whether it is dinner or daily chores, his mother always deliberately mentions some seemingly inconsequential past events in front of Li Jun to stimulate him.
The relationship between the family has become very strained, and family affection and understanding are losing little by little.
However, at this moment, another big incident happened in the family. The government wants to demolish the house we live in, and although we can get a lot of compensation, the problem is that my mother can't accept moving out of the old house.
At this time, my mother made a suggestion that I didn't expect, she said that she could leave the compensation money to Li Jun so that he and his future wife could live and work in peace and contentment, and she decided to take out part of her compensation money and give her daughter to solve the housing problem after marriage for the girl.
Eventually, my mother's proposal and her insistence came to an abrupt end, and she stubbornly proposed that it must include the conditions for my adoption, and for a while, the family fell into embarrassment and silence.
And I was on the sidelines, both surprised and distressed by my family's disputes.
I watched my mother's decision, and my heart was full of contradictions. In order not to let her son be affected, she gave up her request, but she also sacrificed her happiness because of it.
I am willing to make sacrifices for my family, but deep down I also feel wronged and unjust.
In the days that followed, the atmosphere at home became more and more tense. My mother and I were obviously estranged, and Li Jun always had an ugly face, as if he was so troubled by family conflicts that he couldn't hold his head up.
Just when I was feeling helpless, my son suddenly made an unexpected move. He called me and said he had heard that his house was going to be demolished, and he decided to rush home immediately and help us deal with the matter.
Mom was also surprised to hear the news, and a smile appeared on her face that she hadn't seen in a long time.
In the days that followed, I kept receiving letters from my son, who would call back whenever he was free to ask about everything at home.
He shuttles between government departments and related units to fight for our interests. I am deeply gratified and proud of his determination and actions.
However, the relationship between the family did not improve immediately. My mother was still very cold, and I couldn't let go of the fact that I had to compromise on the conflicts between the families.
At the same time, Li Jun also constantly shows himself in front of his family, and he can't wait to leave for a moment to strive for his family's forgiveness and understanding.
Watching my family fight on their own was a source of great pain and distress. This went on for a long time, and I felt exhausted.
She said that if I could give up my house compensation and promise her to give it up, she would be willing to let go of all interference and resistance to marriage.
I listened to it, and my heart was mixed. I knew my mom was genuinely good for me, but I couldn't bear the rift with my family.
However, the conflicts in the family are becoming more and more intense. Mom has always been stubborn and insisted on her choice. As a result, Li Jun became more and more angry and unrelieved.
I was shocked and moved at the same time. I clearly know that this is a huge sacrifice made by my mother for us to put down our bodies.
Lee Jun felt unable to accept his mother's choice, believing that it was forcing them to accept the reality of marriage, leaving him with more responsibilities and pressure than expected.
The atmosphere at home is becoming more and more heavy and tense. I was torn between my family and felt that I could not resolve the conflicts in my family.
One night, I happened to hear the sound of my parents arguing in the bedroom about these things. I stood quietly in the doorway, listening to their heated arguments, and my heart grew heavier.
My brother's initial reaction was to refuse, he thought it was a painful thing to do, and he didn't want to contact me.
Gradually, my brother began to listen to me, and every time we talked, there was a look of joy on his face.
Slowly, the family regained a bit of life, and my parents and brother regained their faith in the future.
Perhaps, communication between family members is the real way to salvation.