As the old saying goes: "Three years old looks old", which means that when a person is three years old, he can see what the person's future fate will be. This may sound a little fantastical, but it contains a lot of truth. As parents, cultivating correct values in children from an early age and guiding them to think and judge things independently will make them go more and more smoothly in life in the future, and they will become richer and richer in the future.
So what are the three most suitable places in the home to cultivate these qualities and abilities in children?
First, the dining table.
Eating is not only as simple as filling your stomach, but also a good opportunity for family members to exchange ideas and communicate feelings. There is a British proverb: "The family that eats together stays together", which means that the family that eats together is more united. A study by Columbia University in the United States found that parents and children having dinner every day can not only promote family relationships, but also help children build self-confidence and reduce the likelihood of depression.
Therefore, it is appropriate to discuss some topics with your children at the dinner table to develop their thinking and judgment. For example, when they complain that homework is difficult or that the test is not satisfactory, parents can ask about the specific situation with concern and understand the child's thoughts, rather than just blaming them. Proper discussion of ways to improve can not only improve your child's problem-solving skills, but also allow them to learn to take the initiative to seek help when they encounter difficulties, rather than choosing to run away.
Second, the study.
Television and mobile phones have exposed today's children to a lot of information, but the ability to judge the authenticity of information is still lacking. The books on the walls of the study can provide more systematic and in-depth knowledge, which is often more objective and fair, which is conducive to cultivating children's independent thinking qualities.
Parents can often bring their children to the study and give them the freedom to choose the books they are interested in. You don't have to force it to finish at first, just read a few pages. After that, parents can introduce relevant content appropriately during small talk, test their children's understanding, and then supplement appropriately. In this way, children can acquire knowledge in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, and gradually develop the fun and Xi of reading.
Third, outside the door.
This refers specifically to the community environment outside the home. Children need a positive environment to grow up, so it is also important to choose a place to live with a good environment.
A good neighborhood relationship can not only provide a sense of security for children, but the example of uncles and aunts in the neighborhood will also have a subtle impact on children. When you associate with a neighbor who is enthusiastic and successful in your career, your child will subconsciously remember this positive impression. When encountering setbacks and difficulties, it is also easier to think of their hard-working spirit and motivate themselves to tide over difficulties.
Therefore, when parents choose a house, they should also consider the surrounding neighborhood and environment. Choosing a community with a positive atmosphere and a moderate rhythm will greatly improve the quality of the environment in which children grow up.
Through the above three points, it can be seen that every bit of life is affecting children. As parents, we have the responsibility to create a quality environment for growth. Let children develop good life Xi habits from an early age, cultivate their ability to think independently and judge things correctly, which will not only help them succeed in their studies and careers, but also greatly increase the possibility of accumulating wealth in the future.
Therefore, cultivating children is not an overnight thing, but needs to guide, communicate and encourage them at every stage of their growth. We must believe that keeping in mind the saying "three years old to see the old" and laying a good foundation for children will eventually go more and more smoothly in the future.