Many people like to talk to people and share what is happening in their lives. But really smart people, they never easily tell others something, because it is related to their better development.
First, smart people never share their most unique ideas and ideas.
Everyone will have some unique idea or creative idea that can be the biggest advantage in their career. For example, some people can always think of a better business model, some people can come up with a more diverse portfolio, and some people can create more unique products. These ideas and creativity are the key to their ability to stand out.
However, many people like to share their ideas with their friends, hoping to be recognized and encouraged. As everyone knows, once you say it, others can easily imitate or surpass it. When the time comes, your ideas will no longer be able to build an advantage, and you will lose the ability to win the business competition.
Truly smart people will never share their most unique and original ideas with anyone. Because that's where their most important competitiveness lies. If the work of secrecy is done well, no one else can surpass it. Only in order to always stay ahead of the curve in the career.
Second, smart people never share their weaknesses and failures with others.
In this society that values success, no one wants to show weakness and failure in front of others. But the reality is that everyone has moments of failure and weakness, and the real question is whether you share it with others.
Many people like to vent their dissatisfaction and complaints in the circle of friends, exposing their failures in work and life. As everyone knows, this will only leave you with the impression of incompetence and weakness in the minds of others. It stands to reason that others will trust you less and rely less on you.
A truly intelligent person will never expose his weaknesses and failures to anyone. In front of outsiders, they always show vitality and never say die. Only by knowing your weaknesses and failures, and then silently correcting them, can you ensure that your career continues to improve.
Third, smart people never share their true thoughts with others.
Many people who don't have a deep enough relationship like to say everything that is in their minds. This is actually very dangerous. Because you can't be sure if the other person will take advantage of your ideas, it's likely to hurt you.
A truly intelligent person will never casually tell anyone what he thinks. They will only say innocuous or useless thoughts, hiding their true thoughts deeply.
Friends should be divided into three, six, nine and so on, and say different things to different people. This is especially true of the people you meet at work, you can only keep your true thoughts in your heart, and you can only show them ideas that are in line with the interests of the other party. This is what smart people have to do.
There are often comparisons between people, but really smart and mature people don't compare to anyone. Because everyone's environment and conditions are different, blind comparison is often meaningless and will only give people a sense of superiority or inferiority.
Therefore, a truly smart person will not share his most unique ideas and ideas, his weaknesses and failures, and his true thoughts with anyone. Maintaining a sense of mystery is the key to their greater success.
We also need to learn from these wise people Xi learn to maintain a proper sense of mystery. Don't expose your strengths, weaknesses, and ideas lightly, there is nothing good about it. Remember, the more low-key and mysterious people are, the ones who are the ones who are the most likely to use their strengths to outmaneuver their opponents.
There is such a sentence in "Chinese Jin Yu Shang": "The thought that is not transmitted, the strategy that is not spoken, the sage that has not been seen, how can I die in the year and be sad!" It means that all my strategies and talents have not been taught to anyone, so why should I grieve over my dying years.
This sentence is a good example of the attitude of a truly intelligent person. They never pass on their ideas and talents lightly to ensure that they never regret their lives. We also need to learn from them Xi and learn to protect our own strengths, so that we can go long in life.