A homeless man on the streets of the United States has detonated public opinion in China.
His identity is very special, he is a Chinese, surnamed Sun, from Jiangyin, Jiangsu. He took the college entrance examination for the first time when he was 15 years old, with a full score of 640 points, and he scored 628 points, and was admitted to the genius youth class of Fudan University as the top student in the Jiangyin college entrance examination. At the age of 16, we were still in high school, but he had already gone to Fudan's junior class. Even if he entered Fudan, he was also a top prodigy, he took a full scholarship, went to the United States to study, and graduated from the City University of New York in the United States. He studied at Fudan University in Shanghai with a bachelor's degree and a master's and doctoral degrees from the United States.
Halfway through, Dr. Sun also changed his major and majored in computer science. As soon as he graduated, Dr. Sun joined Wall Street in the United States and became a top programmer, working for only 2 years, with a monthly salary of more than $100,000, and the highest monthly salary of $130,000.
Such an IQ, such an education, and such an income, in any country, they are urban elites, and it is impossible for them to fall into the streets. But the world is impermanent, and the complacent Dr. Sun lost to a woman and lost to a false love. At that time, Dr. Sun had just entered the workplace and society, and in the first half of his life, he specialized in academics, immersed in the ocean of knowledge, and had never been in love, nor had he had much contact with the world. Just when he was just entering society, he met a Northeast woman.
This is a "black household" who has run to the United States, divorced with a baby. But in a foreign country, the lonely and lonely Dr. Sun soon fell in love and fell madly in love with this young woman. The two soon got married. But Dr. Sun thought it was sincere love, but the woman just fell in love with Dr. Sun's U.S. household registration. According to U.S. law, as long as you marry an American, you can get a U.S. green card and gradually get U.S. citizenship. Dr. Sun was introduced to the United States as an overseas genius boy, renounced his Chinese nationality, and devoted himself to the United States.
One is a fledgling genius boy, and the other is a mature young woman who is divorced with a baby and has experienced human affection. After 5 years of marriage, the young woman chose to divorce and ran away with other men. Dr. Sun was confused, feeling betrayed, deceived, toyed with, and taken advantage of. I haven't suffered from love, and I don't know how to deal with this sudden betrayal. Dr. Sun was confused, in a trance, and stopped attending classes, and since then he has lived a wandering life.
In his own words: "Confused by the illusion of loneliness." ”
You see, the person who can say this, you know, his IQ is online, and the books he has read are deeply integrated into his blood. As long as he regains his life and starts from scratch, he can also say goodbye to wandering. But when a person's spirit is out of trouble and wants to get out, it's too difficult. Why is this happening? How can a doctor's life with a high IQ, a high education, and a high salary be destroyed so easily?
In the captain's opinion, this is the lack of emotional education. Many gifted teenagers are not born, but their parents consciously carry out "advanced education". For example, when I was in elementary school, I let my child learn Xi junior high school curriculum, junior high school and high school, and he was admitted to university at the age of 15. Of course, talent is inseparable from this, but later efforts are also indispensable. Under such "advanced education", people have become a "learning machine", desperately learning Xi Xi, with little social interaction and no friends of the same age. Because he was always the youngest child in the class.
He is learning Xi when others are enjoying the throbbing of youth, when others are in love on the playground, he is learning Xi, and when others are getting married and having children, he is still learning Xi. When he finishes his studies and is ready to fall in love and yearn for a beautiful love, he is just a blank slate. In front of those young women with rich resumes, where can he hold on? How can he know what sincere love is? How can he understand that falling out of love is just a very small, very small thing. When a person is Xi used to being excellent and Xi is used to perfection, he can't accept the flaws of love, can't accept the betrayal of marriage, but he is helpless against reality.
In our imagination, the elite should be the happiest people in the world who eat and drink, live in luxury houses, drive luxury cars, and should be the happiest people in the world. But in fact, people are born with complex emotional worlds. Material satisfaction and emotional satisfaction are completely different things. The other side of genius is often accompanied by the loneliness of character, the lack of emotion and the lack of spiritual world, and the lack of self-healing and self-healing.
Zhang Chaoyang, chairman of Sohu, graduated from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology with a doctorate in physics and became China's richest man at the age of 45. But the moment he became the richest man, Zhang Chaoyang lost his life goal, fell into confusion, and soon suffered from depression. This depression lasted for ten years, and once developed suicidal tendencies. In the end, what really made him find himself, regain his self-confidence, and get out of the mental cage was "Zhang Chaoyang's physics class". On Douyin, teaching physics has become Zhang Chaoyang's happiest time.
This sense of mental relaxation made Zhang Chaoyang finally understand the meaning of life.
All things in the world, people live a lifetime, there are birth, old age, sickness and death, love and hatred, poverty and wealth, and joys and sorrows. Studying, working, getting married, and having children are all just experiences at a certain stage of life. Many times, the seemingly step-by-step ordinary life has already interpreted the full meaning of life. Some people are born on icebergs and snowfields, some people are born in lowland canyons, and different lives witness different scenery.
It is enough to love, hate, walk, see, and stay for a certain moment. Those empty spiritual cages are nothing but self-enclosed shackles.
We do not need to criticize Dr. Sun's depressed life after immigrating to the United States. With the advent of social media, we're all going to take off our beauty filters and re-witness a more authentic world.