In old age, if the wife leaves first, even if it is hard and tired, don't rely on these three people, especially the third one, let's see if what the people said makes sense? This person in his old age, with the company of his wife, two people talk and chat, no matter what, the days are still lively, if the wife goes away first, it is inevitable to feel that a person's days are lonely and desolate, and the heart still wants to find someone to accompany the elderly, when you have this idea, remember not to rely on these three people to help you support the elderly, no matter how hard and tired, you can't count on it at all, why do you say that? Please read it patiently, press and hold to like it and forward it to let more people around you know
First of all, we all know that raising children to prevent old age, the vast majority of people are relying on their children to support the elderly, but the premise of raising children to prevent old age must be that the children themselves live better, know how to be grateful, know how to be filial, and the children grow up to start a family, have their own families, their own work matters, the children's economic conditions allow, and they can often go home to see if they have free time. Filial children even if they are not happy may often care about their parents, unfilial children, even if you sleep on the street freezing to starvation to death has nothing to do with her, and some children do very much care on the surface, but in fact they are worried about the property of the elderly, although these things are very cruel and ruthless, but what is said is reality, so it is very good to say that their children do not gnaw on the old, counting on the pension is one of the three people who can not rely on it, people are old, or to maintain economic independence, early preparation for their own pension
Second, people should not rely on their brothers and sisters when they are old, the reason is very heart-wrenching, there are not a few such examples around us, when I was a child, I grew up in a nest, brothers and sisters are like brothers, however, after starting a family, their ideals and ambitions will become different, everyone's circumstances are different, life is very different, some people are rich and some are poor, some people are happy, some people are old and have a lifetime, people are old, it is absolutely unrealistic to expect their brothers and sisters to support the elderly, it is inevitable that they will be disgusted with the poor and love the rich, each has its own family business, it is difficult to return to the past without distinguishing each other, the older the more obvious, the rich are afraid of others worrying about their property, If you don't have money, you're afraid of being disliked by others, even if your brothers and sisters can take care of their own lives, it's very good to be able to maintain family affection, and it's impossible to count on each other
The last one, especially important, find a good one, can live a stable old age life, find it bad, chicken flying dog jump old age life may be more difficult, that is, the old wife, people are old first of all, physical health is full of variables, it is not good to say who takes care of whom, and secondly, the Xi of living together with the original partner when you are young, and then find a wife when you are old, each has the participation of family children, it is difficult to really integrate together, especially economically, no one is trusted, not good, a bunch of contradictions, you count on the other party to retire, the other party may have other purposes, so it is the most unreliable to count on the wife after people are old
Is someone going to spray me again? These three closest people can't be relied on, so who else can they rely on? That's what people said, everyone will be old, when you are young, you have to consider how to live when you are old, although the future is full of changes, but it is still necessary to do countermeasures early, work hard to make money when you are young, save more money, do more exercise and exercise, maintain a healthy body, smoke less, drink less, maintain a good attitude and good mood, have a regular life, and everything will be much better when you are old.
Thank you for your patience after reading it, after listening to the words of the people who came over, everyone knows how to care for the elderly now, how do you care for the elderly, welcome to leave a message in the comment area, see you in the next issue