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I'm Zhang Xiaoming, 28 years old this year, and I've been married for a year. My wife Li Mei and I got married a month ago. After the wedding, the bookkeeper Ah Huang handed me the account book and all the money for me to check and check. I started to organize the ledger in earnest, but I found something wrong.
That day, I sat alone in the study, looking through the ledger that Ah Huang had sorted out. I carefully checked each page of income and expenses, and suddenly realized that the cost of the newlywed trip was obviously too high, much more than Meimei and I had budgeted.
"What's going on? I remember that the cost of the newlywed trip was 10,000 yuan, why did it cost almost 20,000 yuan?" I muttered to myself suspiciously.
I continued to look carefully at the accounts and found that the consumption at the wedding site was also overspent a lot, reaching nearly 100,000 yuan. This is obviously not normal, our wedding budget is only 60,000 yuan.
I frowned, "The wedding scene is also overspent so much, what's wrong?"
So I called Ah Huang and asked him the reason for these overspending.
"Hey, Ah Huang, there is a problem with the wedding accounts, the newlyweds are overspending a lot on the wedding trip and the wedding scene, what's going on?" I asked straight to the point.
"If you think about it, who is this extra money going to?" I asked.
I was puzzled, and I always felt that Ah Huang was hiding something. I decided to take a closer look at the ledger and see if there were any other issues. However, what puzzled me even more was that the amount of money received on the ledger was significantly less than it actually was. At this rate, how can the money received be only 80,000 yuan? It is clearly 150,000 yuan!
My heart began to beat wildly, and I had a vague feeling that something wasn't quite right. At this time, Mei Mei came home, looked at me with a puzzled face, and asked me with concern: "Husband, what's wrong with you?
I looked at Mei Mei with a frown, her reaction was so strange.
"Why is your expression so ugly when it comes to accounts?" I asked, "Also, Ah Huang is also incoherent, is there anything between the two of you?"
I could tell she was visibly confused. This deepened my suspicions. I suppressed the anger in my heart, looked directly into Mei Mei's eyes, and said word by word: "Let me ask you one last time, where did the money missing from the account go?
"What?! You transferred the wedding to someone I don't know? You can't take my heart and soul for a joke!" I stood up excitedly.
"No, listen to me!" Mei Mei also stood up and looked at me apologetically, "That's my best friend Xiaofang, she has encountered some difficulties recently, I will lend her this money for the time being, and she will pay it back after a while!"
I was shocked. I felt so sad and angry that I had worked so hard to prepare for the wedding, that I had worked so hard to arrange it, and that the money I had saved was so easily transferred to an outsider.
"Stop!" I raised my hand to stop her from continuing, "Don't make excuses. Listen, that's my hard-earned money, which is not much, and it is the money to settle down and buy a house. Now you're transferring money at will, and you don't tell me, what the hell are you doing with me?
Mei Mei saw me so angry, her eyes were red, she threw herself in front of me and hugged my thighs, and begged: "Husband, I know it's wrong, you forgive me this time, I really didn't mean to!"
"You get up first, don't pretend to be pitiful to me!" I shook off her hand and said coldly.
I sighed and persuaded myself to calm down: "Forget it, I won't bother with you. It's just that you also made it clear to me that marriage needs mutual respect and care for each other, not unilaterally. I still need to confront Ah Huang now and find out the truth of the matter. We'll come back to that. ”
I asked suspiciously, "Could it be that you lied to me in the first place?"
My eyes widened in astonishment and I repeated in disbelief, "What?ex-boyfriend?!"
I forced my anger down and asked her in a trembling voice, "What do you mean? Could it be that you still have a crush on another man after you get married?"
Mei Mei choked and nodded, I felt five thunders bang on the top, my head buzzed, and I couldn't hear anything.
"No, it's not like that!" Mei Mei hurriedly denied it.
"What's that?!" I raised my voice.
I interrupted her with a sneer: "In other words, you have no choice but to be with me?"
I listened to her summon all the words in her heart, and I just felt that the world was spinning, and the wedding I had worked so hard to prepare was an opportunity for her to reunite.
Mei Mei cried even more sadly: "Husband, can't I really know that I am wrong? Can't you forgive me this time?"
I closed my eyes and made this difficult decision: "I'm sorry, I really can't trust you anymore." Feelings are not child's play, they need to be managed with heart in both directions. Since you've been thinking about others, there's no need for me to stay. From today, let's get a divorce. ”
Mei Mei couldn't cry, but I knew that this was the right choice.
From that day on, I went through the divorce procedures, and Meimei moved out of the house quickly. Although the divorce process was very painful, I got through it.
I started to work and live again, trying to get out of the shadow of emotional sadness. A few months later, I met Song Nan through a friend's introduction. She was a simple and kind girl, and we quickly developed a relationship. I think this time, I will finally be happy.
Now Song Nan and I are engaged and ready to get married at the end of the year. Looking back and going through those ups and downs, I realized that the most important thing in a relationship is to give and understand each other. I really hope that I can grow old with Nan Nan and spend the future together. On the engagement night, Song Nan suddenly asked me: "Husband, is your relationship with your ex-wife very deep?"
I hugged her and said softly, "Let it pass the past, I only love you now." ”
"I'm just chatting and asking, you tell me the truth. Song Nan said coquettishly.
I smiled and pinched her nose: "I can't say that it is very deep, at least later I found out that there is a lack of real mutual understanding and trust between us." This is also the most important foundation of feelings. ”
"Well, that's true. Song Nan nodded, and asked again: "How many details do you remember about the whole ex-wife's deception of you?"
Song Nan listened to the whole story quietly, and then asked me, "What happened to her in the end? Is she still with that ex-boyfriend?"
"I don't know much about that, except that they seem to be together. I don't know how long it will last, though. "I'm still a little uncomfortable mentioning it.
Song Nan put his arm around me and asked softly, "You must have been very hurt at that time." Even so, you have chosen forgiveness and understanding, which is truly great!"
I shook my head and said, "At that point, I was more of a choice to let go. The decision to forgive her was not easy, but I understood that there was no point in complaining and blaming. ”
"Yes, it takes a lot of courage and determination to choose to let go and start over. Song Nan said approvingly.
At this time, my mobile phone rang suddenly, and the caller ID was a string of unfamiliar numbers. I frowned, but picked it up anyway.
"Hey, who is it?" I asked. A familiar female voice came from the other end of the phone: "Xiao Ming, it's me, Meimei." ”
I was silent for a few seconds, then said, "Say it." ”
I was surprised and asked, "You guys broke up, what's going on?"
"Later, I lived alone for a while, and I often think back to our married life. Now I realize that it is really the biggest regret of my life to live up to your sincerity. Mei Mei's voice was deeply apologetic. I didn't know what to say.
That sudden phone call opened up the dusty memories in my heart. The firm tone in which I proposed to Song Nan suddenly became a little shaken.
Song Nan looked at me quietly, with worry in his eyes.
I took a deep breath and tried to calm myself down. Clearing my throat, I said to Meimei: "Meimei, I don't deny that we have had good times in the past. But that's history, and it's not going to happen again. I have a new life now, and I hope you will also get out of the past and start over as soon as possible. ”
I listened quietly to her talking, and suddenly my heart softened. I comforted her and said, "Meimei, life is a long way, and we are still young. You can start over and find someone you really love. Don't look back. ”
I was silent, mixed for a moment. I know Mei Mei's character, she is definitely not pretending.
"Xiao Ming, you just treat me as an old street dog for you. As long as you are willing to give me a chance to start over, I am willing to give all my heart to compensate you!" Meimei begged.
I asked in disbelief, "Meimei, do you know what you're talking about?" I already have a fiancée now, please be sensible!"
"I know what I'm talking about! I really can't let you go!" Meimei repeated excitedly.
At this time, Song Nan suddenly asked me: "Husband, do you still love her now?"
"Forget it, you don't have to answer me so quickly. Song Nan smiled reluctantly, but there were tears in the corners of his eyes, "Think about it yourself and follow your heart." I'm sure you'll make the right choice. ”
With that, she got up and left the room, leaving me alone to sit there for a long time.
I sat there for a long time, and my mind was full of bits and pieces of me and Meimei over the years. Before I knew it, it was getting dark outside, and I finally made up my mind to call Meimei.
"Hey, Meimei?" I asked her straight to the point, "Is what you just said true?"
Mei Mei on the other end of the phone said excitedly: "Yes!
I pondered for a moment and said, "Okay, just prove it." There's a party at my house next Saturday, and you'll be able to see me one last time. ”
Although my feelings at this moment are still very complicated, and even a little self-blame, I know that I must see her for the last time, make it clear to her in person, and cut off her thoughts, so that I can truly clear up with her.
On Saturday, I woke up early in the morning with mixed feelings. I paced back and forth around the house, imagining what I would say when I saw Mei Mei.
Finally, the appointed time has arrived. The doorbell rang, and I took a deep breath and went to open the door. Mei Mei stood outside the door, wearing the red dress I had given her, her eyes full of excitement.
I silently stepped out of the way and motioned for her to come in. She cautiously walked into the living room and looked around, as if looking for some familiar traces.
"You're here. I got straight to the point.
I looked at her quietly, and finally asked, "Okay, you can prove it to me, how sincere is the miss in your mouth?"
Mei Mei stepped forward excitedly and hugged me, crying silently: "Xiao Ming, I really know that I am wrong! What a sin I have had in the past year or so, every time in the dead of night, I will regret not leaving you! Please give me a chance to start over!"
I was shocked by her sudden move, and I was a little at a loss. Barely keeping her rational, I gently pulled her off my body, calmed down my emotions, and said, "Meimei, I believe in your remorse, and I also know how much the breakup hurt you. But like I said last time, I have a new love now, and we can't go back to the old days. ”
"No! I'm just going to bet this time!" Mei Mei hugged me tightly, "Even if you really want to get married, I will stop you!
I gently broke away from her embrace, took two steps back away from her, calmed my breath and said, "Meimei, calm down." I only see you as a friend, and they're both engaged, and I will never give up on my girlfriend halfway. ”
Mei Mei burst into tears and looked greatly stimulated. I couldn't bear it, so I persuaded her softly: "Meimei, life is still long, and you will meet someone more suitable for you." Let go of missing me so we can all be happy. ”
"The whole heart already belongs to you, how can I find someone else!" Meme screamed hysterically.
I looked at Mei Mei in front of me with a headache, and finally came to my senses: I will never go back to the past between me and her, and I must resolutely draw a line with her to have peace.
"Meimei, listen, it's never possible between us. The reason why I called you here today is to tell you about it personally. From today onwards, don't contact me again!"
After that, I wanted to turn around and leave, but I saw Mei Mei suddenly take out a fruit knife from her handbag and put it against her neck! I turned pale with surprise and exclaimed, "Mei Mei, stop! What are you doing!"
Mei Mei shouted hysterically: "Xiao Ming, I have nothing to lose! If you don't give me a chance, I will die with you now!"
At this time, the door on the side suddenly opened, and Song Nan walked in quickly.