introduction
When you meet, your head is lowered, and there is no one in the world who is a young man. ——Zhou He, "Sending Pan Wei"
In a blink of an eye, life has reached sixty years old. The years passed, his hair was frosty white, and his body was getting more and more haggard.
Life is like a movie, no matter how wonderful the plot is, it is about to "end", and youth will never go back.
So, please cherish the rest of your life, don't wait until you lose it to regret it, grasp the moment, and live in the moment.
When a person is over sixty, his life will "end" in the blink of an eye: strive to do these 4 things well and ensure that his old age is worry-free.
01. Cherish the people in front of you and don't say hurtful words.
After the age of 60, we will find that many of our former good friends and old classmates have gradually drifted apart.
Some may have already taken the first step, some are also busy helping their children with babies and housework, and some are still working to make money, and slowly they will lose contact, life is becoming more and more lonely, and they basically live around their families every day.
Therefore, we must cherish the people in front of us, and don't wait until we lose them. If the old parents are still alive, you must be more filial to your parents, and don't wait until your son wants to raise you and don't wait for your parents, then there will be regrets in your life.
Treat your family, try not to say some hurtful words, care and accompany more, and try to communicate and discuss if there are any conflicts.
, the family is happy, and the ordinary is the greatest happiness in life.
02. Live your own life and don't care about other people's opinions.
When people are old and retire, the most important thing is to live their own life and not care too much about other people's opinions.
Live a good life, don't care what others say behind your back, try what you want to do, and don't live up to the most precious years.
Life is short, the years are traceless, and there is no waste.
You must follow your heart, live the life you want, and live every day happily, which is the most important thing, and don't live in other people's opinions.
I used to be such a person, I paid too much attention to other people's evaluations, and I had to take care of other people's feelings in everything, but I was very aggrieved and burst into tears.
Later, I figured it out, life is my own, you must follow your heart, don't do things that go against your heart,
03. Don't waste your life and cherish the last golden years.
After the age of 60, you must understand that there may not be much left in life, some people can live to be in their 70s and 80s, but some people may suddenly leave.
So, don't waste your life and cherish the last golden years of your life.
Try to go to bed early and get up early every day, maintain a good mental state, and live every day to the fullest.
After I retired, I basically kept running every day to keep fit and control my weight. When I have free time, I drink tea and play chess with my friends, and I am still practicing Xi calligraphy and playing the guzheng, and I live a very fulfilling life.
I set a goal for myself every year, and last year's goal was to write a weekly diary every week to record my life, share my feelings about life, and prepare to travel to Qinghai in 2024 to feel the magnificent mountains and rivers of the motherland, and then write a travelogue.
04. Make a will in advance to avoid "disputes" among your children and descendants after you leave.
The last point to do is to try to plan for the afterlife at a sober age, that is, to raise the will in advance in accordance with the provisions of the relevant laws.
Some people may feel that they are not very old and that there is no need to make a will so early. In fact, after the age of 60, people are very old, and in just a few years, memory and thinking ability have declined a lot.
The ancients said, "Be prepared." Only when you are prepared for everything can you take a leisurely stroll, and you will not wait until something happens to be in a hurry, and you don't know why.
Therefore, it is still necessary to consult relevant professionals and plan the distribution of their own family property in advance, especially some large families with many children, and some family businesses, which can save children a lot of unnecessary troubles in the future.