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Although this life is short, the road is not smooth. We must suffer what we should suffer, and we must suffer what we should suffer. Therefore, in the ups and downs of life, some principles of being a person and doing things can only be deeply understood after experiencing the ups and downs and tribulations of life. Although we often remind ourselves that after the storm, there will always be a rainbow, and after the haze, there will always be a sunny day. The reason is easy to explain, but the process is not simple. Life is like this, sometimes we face very terrible difficulties, no matter how hard we try, no matter what we try to do, we just can't get out of it. At this moment, if you still want to insist, you can only hit the stone with an egg, and the wise way is to bypass the predicament, retreat to the next best, and change your attitude to life. On the surface, this is a compromise, but in reality it is a survival wisdom.
Stupid and stubborn persistence will only bring tragedy to life. The ancients said: Goodness is like water. Water is smart, smart water, the pursuit of one's own goal is that it can go around, so the water flows thousands of miles, although the road is far away, tortuous, but after all, it can be returned to the sea. We can't change the reality, but we can completely change ourselves, use persistence to ignite the light of hope in our hearts, illuminate the way forward, while maintaining a tough heart, learn to judge, and constantly make correct predictions according to the situation in front of us, so that we will not take and take fewer detours on the road of life.
In the current materialistic society, many people unconsciously fall into such a situation under the guidance of materialism, constantly gambling on their own fate, their self-confidence, their gains and losses, and even their own happiness. The bet is won, a smile passes, and the days are breezy. Blocked, tears soaked, spent a gloomy and painful time in torment. It seems that this is the only way to enjoy life. Although this kind of mentality of being addicted to death is happy, it often does not consider the gains and losses, and sometimes it is reckless, so it is also difficult to control. Looking at the world, man is the most forbearant creature, and he has become stronger and more confident in the tempering time and time again, from a weak grass to a towering tree. We should be grateful to those who have hurt us, it is their cruelty that makes us so strong, and allows us to accumulate the strength to survive and the wisdom of life. We also want to thank fate for all the ups and downs that we have learned to cherish more in life.
Life is short for decades, and in the days of life, why suffer for yourself. It is ours that we must learn to cherish, and if it is not ours, we will not force it. Full of self-confidence, time never stops, and will not stop because of the twists and turns we encounter and the sighs of the voices, when the vitality of time returns, the spring breeze will bathe every corner of the world, and no one will be isolated from the door of the season. Unload the heavy bags on your back and move forward lightly! Wave your hand and say goodbye to the past indifferently! You don't have to look back frequently, use the rope of memory to lasso our footsteps, and linger in nostalgia. As long as we sow the seeds of hope in the warm and bright season and work hard, we will surely wait for the happy harvest period.
On the way forward, you will definitely gain your own love, family affection, and friendship. I believe that as long as our inner world remains kind and sincere, there will always be unsweening emotions that will always be by our side. In the face of some inevitable gains and losses, it is not the result of our right and wrong decisions, in this case, I don't want to ask who is right and wrong. After more experience, we will gradually find that we are far stronger than we imagined, out of a period of haze, wave goodbye to the past, look up at the clear sky, the days are light and cloudy, still calm, fortunately, there are also our hearts with our lovers, friends with the same interests, the haze and gloom in life will become brighter, and the sorrow in the heart will naturally turn into the power of happiness and the wealth of life.
When life closes a door for us, it will definitely open a window for us. Not for the prosperity and splendor, only for the loneliness in the peace, only for each other's attentive management, will have that sincere understanding. Putting aside the mess that haunts our hearts, no one can bear everything for us, only ourselves. Even if we don't cause trouble, things will come to trouble, and some things we can't escape, only by actively facing them, accepting them, and solving them in the most correct way, will we get the ultimate relief in our hearts. Suddenly, it became clear that the perfection that I had pursued was just an untouchable phantom, beautiful and enchanting, but I couldn't feel a trace of the body temperature of life and the touch of the soul.
A true lover, a dull companion, the tastelessness of life, the boredom of life, such a seemingly simple, ordinary, but also the most difficult to abide by. Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son, I don't know how many years it will take, and the survival of the scripture in his hand will be read from the vicissitudes of life to indifference. We are just the grass in the end of the world, not the peony in the flowers, full of splendor and burning our hearts, and ignoring the gentle caress brought by the warm sun. It's good to be plain in your heart, don't believe that there is any absolute perfection in the world, if there is, it is just an ethereal mansion in the air, as an illusory ideal, it can never be approached. Any beauty is flawed, as a human being, you have to learn to be tolerant, a pure perfectionist has no way out in this world.
As long as the grief is not one after another, the little bits and pieces of life can be cherished. When you are in pain, as long as you persevere, you will find that the past pain will be a precious medicine for your life, although it is bitter for the mouth, but it is good for the disease. The taste of pain is of course unbearable, but when it really comes to us, we can only face it bravely and accept it calmly, pain often makes a person's will stronger and stronger, and with the accumulation of life, life tends to be perfect. Therefore, a life without suffering is incomplete. When we get out of the haze of pain and usher in the bright sunrise, we will be pleasantly surprised to find that those former pains have condensed into a beautiful pearl and turned into the precious wealth of life.
The short life allows us to face the ups and downs of life, and in the mixed life experience, we can taste the various tastes of life and understand the various truths of life. Life spreads out a thick wordless book in front of our eyes, with wind and clouds, clouds and clouds, clouds and sunshines, seasons and seasons, cold and warm alternates, composing magical articles for us to read. Although it is a wordless book, it brings together the aura of heaven and earth, the mystery of nature, the magic of mountains and rivers, and the vicissitudes of time.
Life is short, where is the fate going, the steering wheel is in your hands, as long as the inner world is not covered with dust, have a pure heart, maintain the nobility of the heart, look at your own gains and losses, fame and fortune with a detached attitude, loosen the soul and free the soul, and the heart will be happy. With a happy heart, why worry about unhappy life?