With the passage of time, we will all enter another stage of life – old age. However, many people around me have noticed that the elderly of today have changed a lot compared to those of the past. Especially those who have passed the age of sixties, they are now living more transparently.
There are some elderly people, their pensions are not high, and they can only maintain basic living expenses every month. For them, the pace of life has become simpler and more frugal. Instead of eating out as often as they did when they were younger, they choose to cook at home, which saves money and avoids all the costs of going out. This simple way of life is actually a return to nature and reality.
You will find that there are fewer and fewer new clothes in the wardrobe of the old people, and they are replaced by those old clothes that have been precipitated over the years. They began to pay more attention to the comfort and practicality of their clothes, rather than pursuing brands and fashion. This also reflects a new understanding of the quality of life of the elderly - comfort and ease are the most important things.
Cosmetics have almost disappeared in the lives of the elderly, who no longer pursue external gorgeousness, but pay more attention to internal maintenance. Sometimes, they use the skincare products left behind by their daughters, and those high-end cosmetics that were once considered luxury are now their daily necessities.
High heels have been replaced by sneakers, which also reflects the changing attitude of the elderly. They no longer pursue an outward appearance, but are more focused on health and comfort. Whether it's a walk, a dance or a simple daily walk, sneakers have become their best choice.
In the lives of the elderly, most of the housework is undertaken by women. Men are more likely to enjoy their leisure time, playing cards, chess, or simply swiping their phones. This change in the division of labor actually reflects a transformation and redistribution of social roles.
As they get older, they gradually withdraw from various social circles. Gatherings and dining out opportunities are becoming less and less common. They begin to cherish the time they spend with their families more than they did when they were younger.
The concern for their children has also changed. They are no longer too involved in their children's affairs, but silently watch their growth and well-being. As long as their children are doing well and in good health, it is their greatest wish.
Couples may not communicate as frequently and passionately as they did when they were younger, but that tacit understanding and care has never diminished. They silently pay for each other and understand each other's needs, even if there are sometimes some small contradictions and frictions, but they both understand how difficult and precious it is to be with each other until they are always together.
Xi of life are also quietly changing. Many elderly people begin to choose to sleep in separate rooms, so as to avoid interfering with each other and ensure each other's sleep quality. Even though they sometimes suffer from insomnia, they are able to understand and support each other.
As I get older, the quarrels seem to become less and less. They learn to be tolerant and understanding, understand that some things in life are not so important, and instead of arguing, it is better to let go of the knots and enjoy life to the fullest.
Aging doesn't mean losing your vitality and color. On the contrary, it is a kind of precipitation and accumulation of life. After experiencing the baptism of the years, we should cherish the present, live our true selves, and enjoy the beauty in the ordinary.