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Text: Yu Dazui Booth
Editor|Yu Dazui Booth
Recently, the marriage story of the famous comedian Wang Xiaoli has once again attracted widespread attention. More than 30 years ago, Wang Xiaoli and his first wife Wen Meiling met on the stage and became husband and wife. After marriage, Wen Meiling gave up her career to take care of her family, but as Wang Xiaoli's career rose, the two had relationship problems and finally divorced.
Subsequently, Wang Xiaoli married his current wife Li Lin, and with Li Lin's encouragement and support, he finally embarked on the road to success. This story reflects the dilemmas that many ordinary people encounter: the conflict between career and family, the frustration and frustration on the emotional road, and perseverance in the end.
It shows us that marriage is not necessarily black and white right and wrong, but requires both parties to work together, understand each other, and never give up. Maybe everyone is not perfect, but as long as you have a good heart, you can always bring a touch of warmth to each other. This is what we need to do before we judge the world.
Wang Xiaoli has had poor grades since he was a child and is regarded as a "fool", but he has extraordinary acting talent. Although he studied for 10 years before graduating from elementary school, he had a soft spot for the two of them. His parents are both two-person actors, although life is hard, Wang Xiaoli gradually gained a foothold in this industry by relying on his own efforts.
When he was 20 years old, Wang Xiaoli met Wen Meiling, and the two hit it off, Wen Meiling was gentle and considerate, and she had a deep love for Wang Xiaoli. After 7 years of marriage, Wen Meiling gave up her acting career to take care of her family and devoted herself to her husband and children. Wang Xiaoli was very grateful for Wen Meiling's dedication, but failed to be considerate of her feelings.
In order to support his family, Wang Xiaoli ran around and was away from home all year round. Wen Meiling may feel lonely in her heart, but she didn't say it, blindly understanding Wang Xiaoli. Seven years later, the two finally divorced, but that love did not disappear.
After Wang Xiaoli remarried, he went all out to pursue his career. The new wife Li Lin chose to continue her work, and the two worked together. With Li Lin's encouragement, Wang Xiaoli was able to persevere, and finally had the acting achievements he wanted. From elementary school to marriage, Wang Xiaoli has experienced too many failures and blows.
He was like a snail, slowly crawling forward. And Li Lin's appearance gave him the courage and strength to move on. Without Li Lin, there would be no Wang Xiaoli today. Relationships need to be managed by both parties, and Wang Xiaoli is lucky to find the other half of his confidant again.
The end of a relationship does not mean that it fails. Wen Meiling has left warmth in Wang Xiaoli's life in her own way, and this memory will always be there. New people and new things, Wang Xiaoli also found the strength to move forward bravely. There is no if in life, the past has passed, and protecting the loved ones in front of you is the most important thing at this moment.
Maybe all feelings don't last forever, but if they have appeared, it is enough to be grateful and bring hope. Wang Xiaoli once fell and was disheartened, but he did not give up, so he got everything he has today. This is also the spirit of this story.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet. Some netizens think that Wen Meiling giving up her career and teaching her husband and children at home is selfless dedication and deserves more care from her husband. Some netizens also think that emotional changes are normal, and they should not blame who is right and who is wrong in black and white.
Some netizens think that Wang Xiaoli's remarriage and finding a bosom friend is also a kind of happiness. Different opinions are intertwined to weave the story of this couple's grievances, which is more like a mirror, reflecting the dilemma and helplessness that every ordinary couple will face.
The road of affection will not always be smooth sailing, the important thing is to protect that original intention in the wind and rain. Wang Xiaoli and Wen Meiling also really loved each other, even if they ended in divorce, that true love deserves to be respected.
That's what this story makes us think. In the seemingly ordinary life of you and me, there are also so many warm hearts and sorrows. What we need is to let go of prejudice and learn to understand and be tolerant. This is what we need to do more before judging others.
Wang Xiaoli's two marriages are lamenting the impermanence of life. We've all believed that certain feelings will last forever, but they will inevitably change. There is no one right or wrong, it's just fate that makes people. So, while it's still too late, seize the time, live every day well, and cherish the people in front of you.
What do you think we should think of Wang Xiaoli's emotional experience and marital changes? What enlightenment does it bring us? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.