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The 11-year-old Tianxin has not only grown up, but also blackened!
Originally, Tianxin was a normal sharing of daily life.
I saw that the netizen with the first hot comment connotated Li Xiaolu for derailment, and also brought another party back then. In just five words, it is not very hurtful, and it is extremely insulting:
"有小万叔叔嘛?"
Fortunately, Tianxin is not a soft persimmon, and replied vigorously: "Just no, there is still a lack of a place in the school toilet, can you enter?"
Pointing out that the other person's mouth is not clean.
Not only that, Tianxin also specially released text, the first positive keyboard warrior. After reading it, I just want to praise and scold well! Many netizens also criticized this kind of immoral behavior.
Looking through the message area, there is not only one disgusting comment, and most of the sarcastic words will be accompanied by "ten thousand".
In fact, this is not the first time that Keyboard Warriors have launched attacks on innocent sweethearts.
Earlier, some people ridiculed Li Xiaolu for making Tianxin sit together, and sarcastically mocked that children would also be "hair material" in the future.
Time flies, and before I know it, it has been five or six years since the turmoil.
Tianxin became a girl in the blink of an eye from a little girl who didn't know the world, and she also knew the reasons behind her parents' divorce.
In response to the cheating incident, many people criticized that this behavior would bring harm to children. I have to say that the worries of well-meaning netizens still happened.
Although Tianxin has a strong heart, this kind of bad comment still brings trouble after all.
I believe Tianxin has the strength to cope with all this.
The divorce of parents, especially the emotional collapse caused by the cheating of one of the parties, is the most worrying for the children.
The way parents deal with family disintegration has a profound impact on children.
02
Not long ago, we saw Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang celebrating Tianxin's birthday.
In fact, there was also a "dark war" at the beginning of the divorce between the two, and the hot search at that time was directly Li Xiaolu diss Jia Nailiang.
At the beginning, some netizens were upset with Jia Nailiang in the comments.
Li Xiaolu personally refuted it.
Subsequently, netizens picked up Li Xiaolu's trumpet, and the Weibo content recorded the growth of He Tianxin.
But between the words, you can also see that Li Xiaolu is showing the public that she is the person who loves children the most.
But netizens didn't buy it, but questioned Li Xiaolu about the "good mother" character, and unanimously left a message saying that she was distressed and sweet, and it became a topic of public opinion in everyone's mouth at such a young age.
There is no doubt that a mother loves her daughter, but what father doesn't love his little padded jacket.
Thinking about it, he was also young at the beginning, and he dealt with Fang Bo's righteous indignation and was too emotional.
Everyone has their own life, and the world will make people mature and steady.
Although the two parties have no chance to be lovers now, they have the same starting point for the child.
In fact, adults make mistakes in the emotional world, and there is no need to implicate innocent children.
Although it is very mean, the most rational way is to knock out the teeth and swallow them in the stomach.
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In my opinion, divorce will not completely destroy the children.
It is the husband and wife who wear masks and pretend to be in love but look like they are separated, and they tear their faces in marriage, and they expose each other and tear each other apart.
The same is a cheating incident.
In 16 years, Wang Baoqiang's statement made waves in the media to capture the situation.
Although he pushed Ma Rong to the forefront of public opinion and became the target of public criticism, he forgot one thing and caused damage to his children that will never heal.
Divorce is an adult's own business, and the adult's decision is to bear it by himself.
But the child will be forced to bear everything in public opinion, and there is nowhere to hide.
Ma Rong said in an interview: "There are so many rumors on the Internet, saying that my son is not his own, taking out so many comparison photos, and taking out the so-called DNA identification. ”
My son was very upset when he came back, and I asked him what was wrong? ”
Marriage is unclear to others, whether it is right or wrong. Parents who really feel sorry for their children will not let this tearing be presented to the public in such an unbearable way.
As some netizens said: "Being Wang Baoqiang's children is the most pitiful, being a mother is incompetent, being a father is cruel and affectionate, and his identity has been questioned all his life"......
05
I once watched a video.
A 6-year-old girl named Tiana abroad learned that her parents were divorced, and began to tell her mother about her life philosophy: "Since you have decided to be friends, you have to try to lower your profile", "I hope everyone is harmonious"......
You see, even children know that love change is just a trivial detail in a long life, and it is already a kindness to start with deep affection and end with affection.
I think that when Faye Wong and Li Yapeng divorced, she generously admitted: "There is no third party, and they all say that the other party is a good person and will be a permanent relative, but they have to break up." ”
As she wrote on Weibo: "The fate of husband and wife in this life has come to an end, I'm fine, and you take care." ”
After the divorce, no matter where she is, you can see that Li Yan has the confidence to be as good as her peers, and this is indispensable to Faye Wong.
Although Li Yan was sentenced to Li Yapeng, their concern for Li Yan did not decrease at all, and they even often attended Li Yan's parties together.
In fact, for children, divorce is not a harm, but another new beginning.
If the end of the marriage is not torn, it is the best protection for the children, and when the fate of the husband and wife is exhausted and there is no way to recover, they should divorce for themselves and their children.
05
Marriage is a matter of two people's self-knowledge, if there is a problem, you should review the marriage, still love and actively defend, if you don't love, you can get together and disperse, there is no need to be so bloody.
Husband and wife, even if they are divorced, they must leave some dignity for each other.
said that the great point is for the children, because for children, the greatest sense of security is that their parents love each other, followed by breaking up peacefully, and the most fearful memory should be the beating and scolding between parents, and the endless trouble after the divorce.
To put it bluntly, it is to prevent the choice of making one's past dirty, even if there is anything dirty, it should be solved behind closed doors.
When love is no longer and marriage is dissolved, it is better to divorce and leave a little dignity than to torture each other and use violence and quarrels to leave harm in the hearts of children.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said: "All my efforts are a willingness, and I will never mention it."
I would be grateful if you would reciprocate.
If you are indifferent, I will not be discouraged.
Until one day I don't want to love you like this anymore, then let's be separated and happy. ”