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Duan Yihong has been in the entertainment industry for many years, and has always kept a low profile of his love life and rarely shares private affairs with the public. But the one in his heart has been with him for 9 years. It was in the 2002 drama "Proof of Memory", Duan Yihong met a girl named "Wang Jin".
It turned out that she was also a student of Chinese opera, but she was only a few years younger than Duan Yihong. Wang Jin was born very beautifully, and she is also a mixed-race child with a wealthy family. She went to Japan with her parents at a very young age, so she has Japanese nationality. After growing up, Wang Jin returned to China for development, and successfully passed the Chinese opera examination and became Duan Yihong's younger sister.
At that time, Wang Jin had just entered the industry, and Duan Yihong was already an old actor. The two have a lot of rivalry in the play, and Duan Yihong was attracted by Wang Jin's lively and cheerful personality, and gradually fell in love. The rest of the crew could see the spark between the two and often joked that they were a couple.
Sure enough, after the play was finished, Duan Yihong began to take the initiative to ask Wang Jin out to play. Wang Jin liked Duan Yihong's decent appearance very much, and also expressed his love happily and became Duan Yihong's girlfriend. In the next 9 years, Wang Jin has been silently accompanied, never suspecting Duan Yihong that he had no career and no money at that time.
Not only did she not mention breaking up, but she would take the initiative to buy gifts for Duan Yihong to take home. Wang Jin's appearance also seemed to bring good luck to Duan Yihong, and his career began to improve. In 2011, 38-year-old Duan Yihong finally bought his own house in Beijing and proposed to Wang Jin.
The news that the two finally became a family member was also celebrated by Duan Yihong's good brother Wu Jing on Weibo. On the wedding night, Duan Yihong discussed with Wang Jin and decided not to have children in the future. Because Wang Jin is almost 40 years old and belongs to advanced maternal age, Duan Yihong can't bear to let her risk having a child. In order to love his wife, Duan Yihong chose to become a Dink family with her.
After Duan Yihong decided to become a Dink family with Wang Jin, although his parents agreed on the surface, they still had some regrets in their hearts. Their greatest wish is to see their son have a child of his own. In the past, Duan Yihong was busy with work and rarely went home to visit his parents. This has always made him feel guilty.
I remember that once my father was hospitalized with a heart attack, Duan Yihong's sister informed him. In order not to affect the filming, his father did surgery without telling Duan Yihong. At that time, Wang Jin knew that Duan Yihong couldn't leave the filming, so he took the initiative to go to the hospital to take care of his father-in-law. Duan Yihong was very moved when he found out, and his wife's behavior made him see the kindness in her heart.
However, in the 5th year after marriage, Duan Yihong suddenly received a call from home at the awards ceremony, and his father's heart attack was again. Duan Yihong hurried home, but it was too late, and he didn't see his father for the last time. Huge remorse overwhelmed him, and he felt guilty that he had not spent much time with his father, and that he had not let his father see his grandson, and that he could no longer hear his father's words.
In retrospect, if his father hadn't given him a chance at the end, he wouldn't be where he is today. After his father left, his mother was the only one left in the family, and Wang Jin offered to take her mother-in-law to live in Beijing. But her mother-in-law still wants to live in the countryside, and Duan Yihong doesn't force it.
Every year, they regularly pick up their mother-in-law to Beijing to live with them for a period of time. Now Wang Jin has become Duan Yihong's most solid backing, she rarely appears in front of the camera again, but silently supports Duan Yihong's acting career. Duan Yihong was also very moved when he saw all this from his wife.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and some netizens thought that Duan Yihong was too extreme, and it was too irresponsible to completely give up the opportunity to be a father for the sake of his wife.
Some netizens also think that Duan Yihong thinks that his wife is love, and husband and wife should understand and support each other. Some netizens think that Duan Yihong's regret is that he didn't go home in time to accompany his father, and if he could have rebuilt his relationship with his father earlier, maybe the result would have been different.
Duan Yihong on the screen is an awe-inspiring warrior, but in real life he is a very filial and considerate person. In order to protect his wife, he chose to never start a family and give up his responsibilities as a son. But his wife Wang Jin was very understanding and closely supported Duan Yihong through those difficulties.
Although they have no children now, they have their own small family and live a very happy life. Duan Yihong and Wang Jin's 12-year Dink road is actually a kind of selfless sacrifice and protection. Duan Yihong sacrificed his dream of becoming a father, just to prevent his wife from taking risks, and Wang Jin took care of his in-laws meticulously and became Duan Yihong's strongest support.
A touching love does not need to have children, but to support each other and love each other. Duan Yihong and Wang Jin practiced this with their lives. Of course, for Duan Yihong, the biggest regret is that he did not fulfill his father's wish. But there are inevitably regrets in life, we may not be perfect, but we can do our best to treat the people around us in the best state.
Thank you Duan Yihong and Wang Jin for giving us these inspirations through their stories. What do you think their stories have taught you?