Preamble:
There are some things, do we have to wait until they are "scolded on the hot search" before we face them?
Ruby Lin was questioned about her "height remarks"
On January 5, Ruby Lin and her friend Chen Qiaoen recorded the program "Woman I am the Biggest".
When talking about the topic of shoe size, Ruby Lin asked in surprise: Your feet are so big?
You're not that tall, how can you be a size 39?
This remark immediately caused an uproar on the Internet, and Ruby Lin was questioned about "discriminating against bigfoot girls" and sparked controversy.
In fact, Ruby Lin's question was not malicious, just out of curiosity.
After all, Chen Qiaoen is a 165-centimeter girl, with a foot size of 39, which is indeed a bit amazing.
What's more, Ruby Lin has always loved cleanliness and pays attention to manners, she may really not understand why someone would wear such a large size of shoes.
However, women are far more sensitive to body data than men.
The seemingly innocuous detail of shoe size has involved many women's hearts.
questioned Ruby Lin's "discrimination against big-footed girls", which made her fall into the whirlpool of public opinion.
In fact, Ruby Lin's remarks are not worth making a fuss about.
In this day and age, have we become Xi of exaggerating other people's momentary gaffes?
In this media age, some people always seem to like to stand on the moral high ground and blame others for what they do.
However, how many of us are willing to think from Ruby Lin's point of view?
A girl who has always loved cleanliness will inevitably be surprised when faced with a situation that may be beyond the scope of her cognition.
What's the big deal?
What does other people's shoe sizes have to do with us?
When we are Xi standing on the moral high ground and condemning others, it is already a reflection of our deep-seated prejudices and stereotypes.
Why don't we think about how big a girl's shoes are and what they have to do with us?
Why do girls have to wear small shoes? Girls with big feet must not be pretty?
Zhu Dan asked about Wang Yanlin's ex-girlfriend
Also on January 5, Wang Yanlin and his current girlfriend Ai Jiani participated in the show hosted by Zhu Dan.
When asked bluntly by Zhu Dan, "Is Wang Yanlin your only boyfriend", Ai Jiani responded calmly that Wang Yanlin is not her only boyfriend, the two have been separated for a while, and she has also talked about other boys.
Zhu Dan's bold question undoubtedly touched the bottom line of Wang Yanlin and Ai Jiani's private lives.
The two have been separated, and each has a new relationship, which is their privacy.
It seems that a moderator should not be so direct in exposing someone else's scars.
However, for Zhu Dan, who has always been straightforward and bold, this kind of question does not make her feel overstepping.
The show needs hot topics and topics, if the host doesn't dare to touch the artist's privacy, what do you have to talk about?
In fact, Wang Yanlin and Ai Jiani did not mind because of this.
The two generously admit that their relationship has been broken, and that's a fact.
They came back together and chose to confront this history rather than shy away from it.
Should we also face up to the truth about many relationships?
Love is not so romantic, and it is common to have points and combinations.
The important thing is whether the two are willing to choose again and face difficulties together to solve problems.
Therefore, Zhu Dan's question did not really touch the sore spot of Wang Yanlin and Ai Jiani.
On the contrary, it is an opportunity to test the relationship between the two.
If the relationship is strong, why bother with your privacy being revealed?
Ruby Lin was mistaken for someone in her 50s
When recording the show on the same day, a wrinkled 50-year-old aunt thought that Ruby Lin was the same age as her, but it provoked strong denial from Ruby Lin.
She repeatedly emphasized that she was "only in her 40s", for fear of being considered old.
In fact, this aunt has no malicious intentions, she watched the drama starring Ruby Lin when she was young, and more than 20 years have passed, she naturally thinks that Ruby Lin should be in her fifties.
Unexpectedly, Ruby Lin was sensitive to age to such an extent, which provoked her to repeatedly emphasize her actual age.
As a female artist, Ruby Lin is undoubtedly extremely concerned about her age.
In this circle that values appearance and admires youth, getting old means the end of your acting career.
That's why Ruby Lin is so sensitive to her age.
In fact, regardless of gender, everyone is more or less concerned about their age.
But why should we be so mindful? Time will not show mercy to anyone, and we will eventually grow old.
If you can accept this fact openly, you may be able to gain peace of mind.
Wang Sicong's birthday in Sanya was luxurious
In contrast, for Wang Sicong, who has just entered middle age, birthday seems to be a good time to celebrate.
On January 3, Wang Sicong held a grand birthday party in Sanya, and more than 30 beauties gathered to cheer up.
The extravagance of the scene was jaw-dropping.
As a legendary rich second generation, Wang Sicong has always been high-profile.
He seems to think that having a great fortune is just to squander it for pleasure, otherwise it is too unworthy.
So, even though he is 36 years old, Wang Sicong still lives like a playboy who has not passed the sixtieth birthday.
But in fact, Wang Sicong also longs for sincere friendship.
Most of these "friends" around him are close to him because of wealth and status.
When the money is cut off, will these people still be with them?
Wang Sicong is actually quite empty in his heart.
Life is too short and there are countless ways to celebrate birthdays.
Extravagance and waste certainly bring pleasure, but it is illusory and difficult to grow after all.
After such a birthday party, Wang Sicong may not be so happy in his heart.
What really matters is to find a soulmate who is genuinely close to you.
Someone wants to be there for you because of who you are, not because of your money.
That's what throwing a birthday party is all about.
Jia Nailiang's daughter commented angrily
On the other hand, Jia Nailiang's daughter Tianxin, because she couldn't bear the online violence, angrily closed the comment area of her video.
A bite of "Uncle Wan" netizens stimulated this 11-year-old girl, she couldn't bear it.
In fact, many adults can't afford online violence, how can a little girl withstand these malicious attacks? All she can do is close the comments and ignore the verbal violence.
However, closing comments won't solve the underlying problem.
Those malicious messages can still hurt a child's heart, and the ghost will not go away.
Should we face up to the fact that online violence is actually an invisible form of violence?
It can also be psychologically traumatic, and the shadow will not be erased.
Therefore, we must examine our words and deeds, and not easily vent our emotions on the Internet.
The people on the other side are also like us, flesh and blood, painful and tired.
Our harsh words can hurt people just as much, especially when it comes to a child.
Let's start with ourselves, stop online violence, and spread warmth and tolerance.
We all want to be treated with kindness, so we should be treated with the same kindness to others.
This is the way.
Lao Liu announced the end of his marriage with Fu Zhuer
Entering 2023, the first bomb in the entertainment industry comes from Lao Liu and Fu Zhuer.
On January 1, Lao Liu issued a statement announcing the end of their marriage, but they are still best friends and Tole's parents.
In fact, their marriage has long existed in name only.
It's just that both parties have been maintaining a superficial image in an attempt to save the relationship.
It wasn't until he couldn't bear it anymore that Lao Liu issued a statement announcing this fact to everyone.
After so many years of marriage, it is inevitable that there will be some disagreements.
What's more, both of them are people in the entertainment industry, they get together less and leave more, they don't have much time to meet, and estrangement is inevitable.
But the real reason, they know best.
Marriage is an important choice in life.
It also takes courage to choose and liberate, to end a relationship and open new doors.
What feelings are most afraid of is force, and the end is not a new life.
Maybe they're still best friends after all, but they can't go back to the way they were.
But life is still long, and who knows what surprises will await them ahead.
Epilogue:
In fact, the reason why the entertainment industry frequently breaks out negative news is because this circle is too closed and narrow.