Text/Editor: Wash Qianchen
Today is the weekend, as soon as I went out, I saw the neighbor Xuan's mother leading her son Xuanxuan to make up the Xi class, blaming as she walked, and the little guy lowered his head and pouted.
Xuan's mother has a good relationship with me, and when I came forward to ask, it turned out that Xuanxuan's homework in the extracurricular class was not completed, and the child said that he couldn't do it, and Xuan's mother said that he was just lazy, and he couldn't open up many times.
A good one hates iron but not steel, Xuan's mother is too anxious, there is really no need, there should be many more fathers and mothers like Xuan's mother, I will tell you a story about the people around me, you may be relieved after reading it.
Class 6 of Ninety-Seven Grade
Sister Hong is my aunt's daughter, born in 1978, a few years older than me. Sister Hong is introverted, but she has a smart brain, and she has been Xi since elementary school.
When she was in high school, she went to the county No. 1 middle school, they were in class 6 of the ninety-seventh grade, and coincidentally, now there are 2 of her classmates in her unit, and she definitely didn't expect it at that time.
Sister Hong is low, her Xi is the first in the class, she is deeply favored by teachers in various subjects, and she was admitted to the university in the year she graduated, and it is a famous university, and the history of the National People's Congress.
The teachers all said that Sister Hong gave the school a long face, and this student will have great plans in the future, and the future is limitless, and the school also rewarded Sister Hong with more than 1,000 yuan in cash.
Sister Hong started working
After graduating from the National People's Congress, Sister Hong was not as easy to find a job as she imagined, after all, history is not a trump card major, she returned to our city and was recruited into the famous Jinjiang No. 1 Middle School. The best middle school in the city. The aunt and their family are very satisfied.
Sister Hong has worked for 2 years, and a teacher surnamed Cao came to her school, this teacher Cao was his classmate in Class 6 of the 97th grade that year, with middle and lower grades in Xi, but her eloquence was particularly good, and she was the sports committee member in the class.
After Sister Hong was admitted to university, her classmate Cao was admitted to the Normal University in the provincial city after two years of Xi, and after graduation, she entered Jinjiang No. 1 Middle School to teach mathematics.
After another 3 years, there was another male colleague in the unit, this classmate was also her classmate in Class 6 of the 97th grade, this male classmate's surname was Li, he was a student in the class that year, and he has been in the bottom 5.
Li is the target of criticism by teachers of various subjects, he is the son of a private factory director, he does not like to learn Xi, and has been skipping classes for a long time. Li Xi for four years, went to the provincial No. 2 Normal College, and after graduation, taught physics in a general middle school, and transferred to Jinjiang No. 1 Middle School a year later.
What is the current situation of the three old classmates?
Back then, the top students in a class were all in the same unit, but now more than ten years have passed, how are they performing in the workplace?
Sister Hong has worked for more than 20 years and is still an ordinary teacher, with the title of middle school teacher. I wanted to be promoted to the senior level, and I thought about it for a long time, but there was no hope, because there were many monks and few porridges, there were too many conditions, and there were many additional factors.
Cao, who is very sociable, became the director of academic affairs and was promoted to senior teacher three years ago.
Finally, Li is an advanced worker in the school every year, and was rated as the leader of physics by the school, and became the head of the sophomore group last year.
From the perspective of income of the three of them, Cao and Li have higher incomes than Sister Hong.
Sister Hong often sighs that it is useless to learn Xi well, the key is to be able to be a person and handle various relationships, and she loses in poor communication skills.
Qianchen writes at the end
Sister Hong and her two classmates had a big gap in school when they were in school, and Sister Hong was the best in the eyes of teachers and classmates, but now compared with his two classmates, it is indeed more ordinary.
Going to school may only represent an experience, and grades only represent the ability to learn knowledge, but after work, society is a big school, and there are too many things to learn, not only professional skills, but more importantly, interpersonal relationships and communication skills.
People who often thrive in the workplace are people with high emotional intelligence and strong communication skills, and the relationship determines the subsequent development space.
Therefore, when the child is in school, I think there is no need for parents to be overly anxious, as long as the child does his best, going with the flow is the best outcome.
Success comes from a variety of ways, maybe you work very hard, the strengths and weaknesses are only temporary, many people and many things end up in the same way.
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