Ever since I told my son about the deposit, he has become like a different person and has become more and more disgusted with me. At the age of 67, I am now a burden in the eyes of my son. Those once laughter and laughter are now only indifference and alienation.
1. The expectations behind the deposit
I always thought that telling my son about his savings was to make him more independent and more confident in his future life. However, this is not the case. Ever since he knew I had savings, he started to be very picky about my daily expenses and even limited my pocket money. I understand his pressure, but it makes me feel cold.
2. The burden on the son's heart
In communication with my son, I try to understand what he really thinks. He told me that he felt that he was not yet able to take on my pension responsibilities and that the savings had become a heavy burden on his heart. I understand that my son is going through all the pressures of growing up in life, but I never imagined that this savings would become an insurmountable gap between us.
3. How to rebuild relationships
In order to change the situation, I began to re-examine my relationship with my son. I tried to communicate with him and make him understand what I really thought: this deposit was not meant to be a burden to him, but to give him more options at critical moments. At the same time, I also began to learn to be independent and no longer rely too much on my son's support. Gradually, I noticed that my son began to re-examine his attitude and our relationship eased.
Fourth, family affection is priceless
After going through this turmoil, I deeply realized that family affection is priceless, and it should not be swayed by money. My son and I need to learn from this incident and learn how to manage our relationship better. After all, we are a family, and caring and respecting each other is the most important thing.
1. A mother and son take a walk in the park, with the son supporting his elderly mother.
2. The son is combing his mother's gray hair, and the two of them have happy smiles on their faces.
3. Mother and son sit around a table full of sumptuous meals.
4. The mother is teaching her son to do housework, and the two cooperate with each other, and the scene is warm.
5. Mother and son stroll hand in hand on the beach at sunset, the sea breeze gently blowing the corners of their clothes.